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The Dude

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  1. On 10/25/2021 at 9:51 PM, jeepo1 said:

    my biggest fear being that forward in the first text is my fear i transposed a number 

    Absolutely.  My first text is always a little vague and generic, like "Hi, are you around later tonight in (city)."  Something like that would not create any suspicion if it went to the wrong person.

  2. Who do you prefer to see... a few providers on a regular basis, or many encounters with different providers?  It's been my experience that once you see a regular enough times, they feel comfortable to cut corners on service, arrive late, ask for favors, etc.  What has been your experience?

  3. 6 hours ago, Antonio1981 said:

    I have a provider that is borderline stalking me and it’s getting a bit uncomfortable.  I get a text once/twice a week, consistently for the past 2 years ask if I’m coming over on Sunday. Without fail. He has asked many times if I can commit to a weekly meeting. Even though I have said NO and have met him once a month or so, he has not let up. When I do see him, I get the guilt trip. Then he will ask questions that makes me think he’s googling my name and looking up any info on me.  Asked if my dads name was Alan. Asked if I lived on Alfred St, etc.  I don’t know how to break free without this turning into blackmail or drama. 

    This is why I never give my real name and use a burner phone.

  4. 5 hours ago, MscleLovr said:

    Bearing in mind how much an individual interaction with a guy can vary, it bemuses me that when there’s no info on a thread, so often people give it a ‘bump’.

    Surely it’s simpler just to hire the guy. Either he appeals to you or he doesn’t. I intend no disrespect to other posters here, but like the similar threads on rates, it’s ultimately an unproductive discussion. 

    Chances are if a guy is an asshole to one person, he'll be an asshole to everyone.

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