I remember reading here a long while ago, someone posted that before they leave their house, they write down the info of who, and where they are going, and leave the piece of paper in plain site on the living room floor.
He's been on my buddy list for a while, ever since I watched him in a scene on "Tonight's Boyfriend". Rarely comes to Chicago. My only hesitation was that he does not indicate he's into kissing. If he returns, I'll have to ask if it's a hard stop (no pun intended).