Just Chuck

It was fall of 2023 when I saw him. I can't wait to get back to Chicago to see him again.

Someday, I'd love to have a close friend or boyfriend set up a scene like that for me. I don't get to know who I play with, but the friend or boyfriend vets everyone beforehand to manage risks.

The first time I experienced an anal full-body orgasm was through prostate massage with a gloved finger. The single finger was slender enough that I was able to easily take that in without any physical discomfort and then it's just a matter of the person massaging knowing the anatomy and what motion is going to feel good. I didn't experience it the first several times I got fucked. I don't think I was relaxed enough for it to happen then no matter who I had been with. I had to work to get comfortable receiving and then they started happening for me (but still not every time) when I get fucked. Toys were the way to learn my own anatomy and to get used to penetration enough that I could experience that during anal sex.

And I should have said that you look fantastic and sexy and I would definitely hire YOU without hesitation.

I'm a side more often than not but occasionally top or (fairly rarely) bottom. I'd gladly hire a side escort but would appreciate knowing that's what I was getting before the meeting.

He is gorgeous. He is smart, funny, and kind too. He spent a while talking with me about comparing teaching dance (him) and martial arts (me). We found some commonalities.

I've been eyeing Mr B&B for travel lodging. Some of the ads explicitly say that clothing optional only means nudism is tolerated. A few of the ads came close to hinting that the hosts might be looking for sex partner guests. A few ads even include a section labeled: LGBTQ+ Kinky Amenities like this one in Austin, TX. But you have to pay a $79-per-year subscription to have access to that area. (I haven't.)

Circle J Guest Ranch is about an hour southeast of the DFW Gayborhood in Oak Lawn. It's clothing optional. Access is limited to men over 21 years old. I haven't been there, yet, but want to go. They have camping sites, a couple of cabins and a few small hotel-room-like suites. The property is a whopping 100 acres of wildlife management area. So, there's room to hike and do stuff. The pool and a spring fed swimming hole sound like central attractions for the site. The shower-house sounds like it might get some bathhouse action.

I have provided a photo more than once. I think the providers who I gave a photo to were in the barely dipping a toe into the business and only semi-pro. When I did meet with them, they seemed to need me to guide them through the process. The quality of the encounters with them ranges from grade D+ through some A+ performances. I guess the ones who were attracted to my photo found it easy to "not look like they're faking it" since they were acting (in part) upon attraction.

Watts the Safeword website Links to Podcast on Apple or Spotify Pup Amp and Kristofer Weston (Mr. Kristofer) are porn performers and work for Mr-S-Leather. I started following them on their YouTube channel where they post instructional videos for kink, and gay sex. I really like their rope bondage tutorials. They are smart and funny. They are a real-life couple who live in the Castro District in San Francisco. The podcast is really entertaining. They attend a lot of gay events in the USA and Europe.

Has anyone seen him? It's been quite a while since we noticed him on this site.

The Denver airport is rebuilding some portion of their runways currently and has a reduced capacity because of it. A LOT of flights through Denver are being cancelled or delayed. I'm going to avoid connecting through Denver for the rest of 2025 at least. I had a flight that was supposed to connect through Denver early in June. Denver delayed my flight's arrival and cancelled my connection. I found a hotel for the night then they cancelled my flight in the morning and rebooked me for the afternoon. Then they notified me that flight was unlikely and to pick a standby flight. The soonest standby flight available was three days later. I rented a car and drove 820 miles instead.

I've never been a pro. But, I've had several people (men, women, and non-binary people) reach out to me on a couple of sites asking me for a date who message with me several times and set a time and place and flake on me. I've seen it even after I've gotten a last minute, "I'm on my way. ETA 14-minutes" message. I think a lot of people are just getting turned on by the online presence and push the fantasy a little further by making contact and then masturbate instead of following through.

The first time I saw a glory hole, I was a 29-year old deputy fire marshal and was inspecting an adult video arcade. I'd never been in one before. The manager was showing me around. He was actually very happy to have his building inspected for fire hazards, very friendly, and eager to explain everything. He warned me that as I opened booths for inspection that I might encounter an occupied glory hole. This place had really nice glory holes that were professionally cut into the booth walls and each side of the wall had a small sliding door so both occupants would have to slide their glory hole door open for the hole to be usable. I got a mix of reactions from customers who were cruising the hallways of the arcade when the manager was leading me around in uniform. Some guys looked at their shoes and quickly shuffled away. Others gave me and the fire uniform the elevator eyes unabashedly.

It's been several years since I was in this level of fitness, but I used to love wearing split-side, 3-inch inseam racing shorts. And, hanging out at the front of the start line with the in-shape guys who also wore those . . . either to show off, or just to manage heat buildup in the thigh muscles when running at that pace over that distance.

Local grocery store. The son's face conveyed a thousand thoughts racing through his head: "I should tell my dad!" "I should confront you!" "This can't be happening!" "Why the hell is he looking at MY DAD'S ASS?!?!"

His shoulder patch has Cirillic Alphabet characters and the cars have long skinny white license plates. I'm not sure what country that is, but he's beautiful!

I retired as a martial arts teacher in 2017. When I was teaching, I had a lot of young men in their late teens through mid-thirties train with me. A few of them made lifelong connections with me. I was coach, counselor, and advisor to several of them. The one I mentioned before who's now a special agent had never had his biological father really "in the picture." Another one who I remain very close with is the son of one of my closest friends who died of a terrible disease when the son was in college. I he told me that I was like another dad to him. Out of respect to my deceased friend, I suggested we use the term "uncle" and it stuck. So, we are nephew and uncle by-choice.

Before I contact someone: I google their phone number and run it through USPhonebook.com I google their screen name. I search their screen names in Blsky, Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, and FetLife. I search here. If they give me an address, I both google it and look at the building in Google Earth to decide how I'm going there and where I might park. Sometimes, I find their whole real-life identity. When I do, if I like them, I'll warn them about how I was able to put their real identity together with their ad. I met with one young man who was just about to graduate from college and career hunting and I warned him that I was able to connect his ad, his name, and his LinkedIn account.

I haven't seen these in this thread yet: If you leave the room (say to go to the bathroom) expect them to go through your stuff. If you're hosting, put away anything easily stolen or any sensitive information before they arrive. Preferably someplace locked, but definitely someplace they are unlikely to get a chance to go through if unsupervised. If you go visit him, leave anything unnecessary for the session behind. If you leave stuff in your car, place it in a locked container that's locked to the vehicle with a steel cable and padlock. (I use a pelican brand case and padlock it to the tie-down spots for a child safety seat in my SUV hatchback and keep the hatchback cover closed. It's possible to break into that with even simple tools, but a smash-and-grab automobile burglary won't get it.) If you're hosting and they leave the room (say to go to your bathroom) expect them to go through the stuff wherever they go. If you unlock your phone, tablet, or computer screen around them, then expect them to look at your screen.

I have a young man who calls me “the father he never had.” (I got a Father’s Day card from him that I’m going to frame this year.) Who was a Border Patrol Sergeant and is now a Special Agent for another agency. He’s tall, broad-shouldered, and muscular. He’s also found that he enjoys cooking and craft beer. So, looks like a cop. But his mannerisms are definitely not cop-like. If you heard him on the phone and didn’t see him, you’d think he was an English literature teacher.

I was a firefighter and (technically a cop) deputy fire marshal in the 1990's. I would have answered no to the question. Unless you were telling me about your arson plans, I didn't really care. I remember inspecting asian massage parlors that were clearly just brothels and I only addressed the matters that made the building less fire safe and left them alone on everything else. Getting into the seedier underside of the city as an observer was one of the more enjoyable parts of that job now that I look back at it.

I usually do the same. I'll have the cash out and visible but deep into the room and not near an exit door. I'll point out that it's there, but ask them not to touch it until the end. One provider wanted to count it up front and I agreed so long as they took off their shoes first.

I had what turned out to be a funny guy-watching experience. I was checking out an athletic guy in his late 30's or early 40's then realized his teenage son figured out that I was checking out his dad. The kid's eyes got wide and his jaw dropped as he clearly wasn't mentally prepared to see a man checking out his dad. I wish I had a photo of the dad's body and of the kid's stunned face.

Google voice is a FREE voice over internet service and app that goes along with a Gmail account (also free). I like that when I don’t want to be bothered by calls coming on that number, I simply log out of that account. It keeps my r-rated conversations on a separate number and application from my real phone and keeps my real phone safe for work. I’ve assumed that most of the message-only ads are from newcomers in the industry who aren’t really established or set up a good communications path for booking. Dealing with new guys is always hit-and-miss.