Just Chuck

If their screen name is comfortable for me to call them, I just use that. But if the screen name is unpronounceable or not suitable to call out during a moment of passion, I’ll ask, “what do you like to be called in person?” i wouldn’t want to try to call someone ABQ_DT_Sckr_Swllwr in person. I’ve had sessions where the chemistry really clicked between us and we shared real names and real contact information before saying goodbye.

In general, I love eye contact during sex. I’ve experienced it as hot 99% of the time. And, I’ve seen 1% as a window into the mind of a crazy person.

I've read discussions on similar sites to this that cater to men who see female providers where they use an acronym for Illusion-of-Passion (IOP) and write reviews with a one-to-ten score for a provider. These overly-passive providers would get a super-low IOP score. It seems like a useful scoring method. They also use a taking-care-of-business (TOB) score for just how easy it is to book, get to, meet, pay, and move on from a provider. That also seems useful.

I imagine there’s a percentage of barely-semi-pro escorts who just do it as a paying hobby and are pickier about seeing clients.

I need a term for overly passive non-interactive escorts. I’ve run into a few of them. They’ll let you do whatever, but won’t take an active role. Want to fuck them, fine. But don’t expect any participation back from them. Want to suck their cock? Okay, but dont expect them to return the favor. Kissing, no. Or you might as well kiss a store mannequin. A conversation? Absolutely not. Encounters with these escorts tend to be brief. “I’m here. Do what you want. Get off. And let me go.” It’s a letter grade D performance in my book. I can imagine that these escorts are actually very conflicted about escorting.

Groove Thing Website I'm both stunned and kind of intrigued. They've invented a music speaker system that includes a butt plug designed to operate as a sort of internal subwoofer for whatever you listen to. It pulses and throbs along with the beat and baseline of your music. Their ad mentions lying back and listening to music, but I'm kind of thinking about using it while watching movies with it. Imagine the Original Star Wars or Jurassic Park where you feel the pulse of the sound of all the special effects internally! Ever see an invention and think, "Why didn't I think of that!?"

I hope you have a very happy birthday! 🥳

I think the raid on the high-end brothel outside of Boston might be a good example of the dynamic that you just described. Heidi Fleiss operated a high-end call girl ring in California. In an interview, she told about how her flagrant tax evasion was the thing that unravelled her network.

The PBS Frontline Documentary "Sex Trafficking in America" gives a pretty good insight into how a vice squad picks who to go after and how they gather evidence for it.

I think law enforcement won't (generally) go out of their way to catch people for sex-for-money crimes as long as: It's clearly between consenting adults. Be cautious of someone who looks fifteen and tells you they're nineteen. It happens discretely and not in public. Use discreet contact methods. A burner email account and a burner VOIP telephone account that aren't attached to your real identity help make it more work to tie a transaction back to you. It's not wrapped up in some other kind of criminal activity that they're actively investigating. If the person you're hiring seems like a criminal aside from being a sex-worker, they (and their phone, computer, etc.) may end up in the hands of law enforcement with a search warrant.

I am REQUIRED to provide a link to this clip of Tom Holland working out shirtless.

I spend a lot of time in small remote towns for work too. When I'm lucky, they are big enough to have a Subway sandwich shop. The fact that little towns have minimal hotel options makes it worse. I really like to stay in hotels where my room has both a refrigerator and a microwave. But often, small town hotel rooms only have a bed and a shower. I try to do a little google research on the town before I go so I can pre-plan where to find food and when restaurants and grocers open and close. Going by car helps. I can pack groceries, a cooler, and even something to heat food with if I drive myself.

I grilled a good, big, thick ribeye this evening. It was wonderful. I'm in a wonderful post-meal bliss right now. But, tell me your tips or favorite ways to cook or grill a steak. I'll share mine soon.

I'm going to give it the benefit of the doubt. I'm willing to invest a few more episodes worth of time before I walk away from it. I really think Bella Ramsey is a very talented actor and Craig Mazin's story telling has taken twists and turns that broke my heart but paid off enough that I'm going to stick with it for a while.

May is International Masturbation Month. Now, get out there and do your part!

Taste in sexual partner and activity preferences is a lot like taste in foods. One person might like pies, another cakes, another ice cream and another not like sweets at all. None of those preferences are wrong.

Can you define what a strict top is? Someone who strictly tops meaning that they don’t do other stuff? Or, a dominant partner who takes strict control as they top? Or something else?

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My orientation has always been bi-/pan- but the labels I’ve used have changed…no evolved over time and as I learned more.

December 1990 looks like a good year for that guy! Jeez, I guess he’s about my age now…

TS4Rent.eu Is a site where a number providers who are trans or people of different gender-identities advertise. I've only hired from there once. But I met an absolutely gorgeous trans woman with one of the shapeliest butts that I've ever seen.

I am so jealous that you're getting to spend so much time with Sboyy! And, I'm so glad that you're having such a great time and making such a great connection.

I am attracted to (some) male, female, and intersex people across the entire gender spectrum and with behaviors and presentations that are also across the masculine, feminine, and androgynous range. I've had to search for the rare combo before also. On rent.men, or Tryst, the keyword search is your friend. For the type of person you're looking for, a challenge is all the different cute ways that they spell out slang terms like femboy, fem-boy, femme-boix, femboi, etc. Searching in all the possible ways might be tedious and require some creativity and web-searches for different slang terms. Good luck. In eastern Canada, you might also try some French language terms. Montreal sure has a really sexy and diverse community!

I've booked because of positive reviews and comments here. And I've told guys I've booked that's why I booked them and almost all of them have been surprised to learn of the existence of COM.