Just Chuck

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There’s no single path for everyone. I wish you and Andrew the best. Don’t self-sabotage with bad predictions that you’re going to screw up a relationship. The relationship already sounds like a successful one even, if you’re struck dead by lightning tomorrow. I like Dan Savage’s point: there’s no reason to think that the only way a relationship is successful is if it lasts until somebody dies.

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Well into my fifties, and outside of any sort of business arrangement, I’ve had young men in their early twenties hit on me online and had those turn into successful meetups. The young guys who are into older guys really are out there. I read a piece several years ago written by a woman that worked in one of Nevada’s legal brothels. She said that learning to be turned on by her own body by masturbating around mirrors a lot and having mirrors in the room where she entertained clients was a key for her to enjoying sessions with a lot of men who she otherwise wouldn’t be attracted to. Outside of paid arrangements, I’ve had great sex encoutners with people who I liked and connected with but wasn’t physically attracted to.