Just Chuck

I was just listening to Dr Justin LehMiller describe sexuality as two dial settings. One dial has a person’s orientation across the gender spectrum. The other dial has a wide-narrow comfort range for how comfortable the person is with experience outside of their setting on the first dial. This can explain the straight guy who will opportunistically accept a blowjob from their gay friend or good looking gay men who will accept one night stand offers from straight women. Maybe gay-for-pay guys have really wide dial 2 settings.

I doubt it, but maybe. It was a sexy time, but it was a massage. In fact, the deep tissue work he did on my glutes, calves, and feet triggered some amazing tension releases that I still feel a couple of days later. I slept incredibly well that night.

I was in Las Vegas last week and booked a massage session with JayHands. I had a great time. The session was both a very good therapeutic massage and a lot of fun. He’s friendly, very good looking and easy to do business with. His prices were reasonable too. The only downside was (and he’ll admit this) his apartment, for now, is nice but in a shady neighborhood. Don’t leave stuff in your car if you park there. Fortunately, that’s temporary because he’s moving to a better place closer to the Fremont Street district.

I have a thing for masks.

Seeing a kid having an absolute meltdown in the grocery store and then being free to just walk away because they aren’t mine.

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