Just Chuck

@CENTHOTMAN Thank you for the clear information.

I Unfortunately no. I never found one to try.

I am more of a side than not myself. I will do anal, but not very often. He’s such a good looking guy, I’d love to exchange oral with him.

I’m curious about him too. Looks like he is a side. Too bad that Rent.men doesn’t have that as a searchable position option and he had to list himself as a bottom.

Website: Dragonfly (clothing optional) Campground Texas FaceBook page with quite a bit more content: FaceBook - Dragonfly Texas Israel Luna who runs, several gay men's event series (ranging from steamy to very erotic) in DFW recently opened Dragonfly Campground. It's clothing optional. It's just a little on the Texas side of the Oklahoma-Texas border about 1.5 hours from Dallas's Oak Lawn Gayborhood and about 10-minutes from the Oklahoma border. It sort of "soft-opened" this year as much of it is under construction or to-be-developed. I haven't been there (yet) but I'm thinking about it.

In the last years of her life, my mother had dementia and Alzheimers. It was actually what I'll now call a blessing for me. She and I had never gotten along well or easily until that time when the hostility was the first thing to go. She lived in a nursing home. The nursing home would open up to kids for halloween and the staff and residents would give out candy. I strongly encourage parents of young kids to call local nursing homes and see if they are doing anything for halloween for kids. The residents LOVED seeing the kids come in and it was good for the kids to see how that part of their community lives.

In the mid-late 1970's my parents would just send my elementary school-aged butt out the door in small-town Oklahoma and just tell me to be home before bedtime to go Trick or Treating. .

I saw a really neat version of this last year. All the local law enforcement, emergency medical service and fire departments had response vehicles staged around one parking lot of the local community college. Responders staffed each vehicle to hand out both candy and public education information to the kids and their parents. I was a professional firefighter and deputy fire marshal long ago. I would have loved to staff a truck for an event like that! In that uniform, the smiling gaze of kids always made me feel ten feet tall.

I saw TwinkTime this past weekend. It was a great experience. He looks great (just like his photos.) He was easy to book with. His erotic massage session is both a real massage and erotic throughout. He was very easy to book with. I texted him mid-morning and had a session mid-afternoon. His place is a nice apartment in the Dallas Design District that's easy to find.

Yes. In fact, I put the lube bottle in one ziplock and put that ziplock bag inside another ziplock bag now.

My skin seems to absorb everything but silicone lube very quickly. Silicone is my general-purpose go-to lube. It provides the most durable lubrication that I've tried. I use water-based lube on silicone rubber toys to keep them from turning into goo. I would like to find a silicone lube that's a bit thicker and more viscous so I could apply it more precisely. Spilled silicone lube creates a real mess. Spilled silicone lube on a tile floor is DANGEROUS. I was lucky to be on a flight back home when a silicone lube bottle leaked in my checked luggage. I'd have had to scramble if I arrived in another city with all of my clean clothes soaked in silicone lube.

I should have paid attention to the red flags when I arrived for an appointment with a young asian masseur. (1) he was good looking, but nothing like the photos in the ad. (2) BIG RED FLAG after a minute or so, I realized that he didn't know anything about the text message conversation I'd been having with him and he then said "Oh, that person is in Houston." I guess I was dealing with some form of organized crime although the part I saw was pretty small in scale.

A lot of the people who are into the chastity cage fetish like to layer the idea of "forcing" the person wearing the cage to wear increasingly smaller and smaller cages to be increasingly humiliating and increasingly sexually frustrating.

I've hosted in AirBnB or VRBO properties several times. I've just messaged the host that "I have a friend who lives in town who will drop by and visit with me." I tell the person I hire that's what I've done and they should play along, dress "guy next door", and say they're looking for their old friend if they bump into anyone on the way in. Regarding hidden cameras: A former business associate of mine placed hidden cameras in the bedroom of. a young woman. She discovered them. He was convicted of Miscellaneous Invasion of Privacy in Georgia and spent several months in minimum security prison.

He's in school for a very good skilled field that we all need. I suspect his availability is going to go way down in a matter of months... ...AND GOOD FOR HIM! He's going into a great field and his personality will be really helpful to some people who need someone who projects friendliness and gentleness.

I'm eyeing a particular ad on MintBoys in DFW right now. Although MintBoys seems like a minimally acceptable ad-space, this escort seems significantly different than others I've seen.

FriendBoy.pro seems like a similar tier of a site to MintBoys. Should we discuss it here, or start a new thread?

Tryst has a good article on booking TransMasc escorts here. Learning how to avoid triggering dysphoria is important. I was with a trans-guy a few years ago. He wore a black extra-heavy-duty sports bra as a chest binder and a leather harness over the chest binder. Cluelessly, I reached during play and felt up a breast and saw him wince and cringe. I immediately realized what I'd done and pulled my hand away. I started to apologize and he cut me off saying, "it's okay. Just, please don't do that again." I've seen other TransMen who had no dysphoria triggers like that.

I haven't hired off of Mintboy, yet. Usually because the ads there don't tell me enough about the guys to know something about what the guys there are like. They keep a lot of really old ads too. The part that does tempt me is that (at least in the cities where I've looked lately) Mintboy had a more diverse-looking sample of guys than RentMen had.

I've checked several times and often the default location has been the city hall for whatever city I'm looking at when I've compared the RentMen map to Google.

I’ve had some success contacting providers and starting with “I know your ad expired, but I saved your number and…”

I enter their contact info and RM profile URL in a google contacts file. Those saved URLs are hit and miss. Sometimes they show the expired profile and sometimes they show an error or “page not found” message.

I ran across an article with some etiquette tips for meeting a transman. You can read it here.

If you hire a trafficked person or a minor, then you deserve to face justice. You can learn something about the priorities and line-of-thought of vice officers by watching the PBS Documentary:  "Sex Trafficking in America".

You will find some trans men on Tryst. Use the keyword field for FTM, transman, and every other gender description you can think of. Tryst mixes up categories of biological sex (male and female) with categories of gender identity (trans and nonbinary). So you might have to try several combinations of search terms.