Just Chuck

Smart Sex, Smart Love with Dr Joe Kort I’ve only listened to a couple of episodes, but I really like Dr. Kort’s podcasts and work. He’s a gay psychologist who focuses on sex, orientation, and relationships. I really liked the most recent podcast Why Sexuality Changes Over Time with Jessica Levith who’s an expert on how people’s attractions, orientation, and identity can change over the course of their life. He also has a YouTube channel where he shows the podcast content and more. He’s pretty widely known as a gay side (versus top or bottom) who loves sex, but doesn’t enjoy penetrating or receiving anal sex and speaking on that as a sex and psychology expert.

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My weird ask happened a few years back in Denver. I had a kinky fantasy about participating in a live sex show. I asked an guy to meet me at the Midtowne Spa bathhouse (now closed). Midtowne had a stage with bleacher style seating and did host frequent jack off shows. I topped him on stage and a handful of other patrons watched from the bleachers.

I think there’s more than one motivation to ask for the face pic. I’ve met trans men and women and also physically smaller providers who’ve told me that they do that for safety. Although, I’m not sure if they’d know if it’s a fake photo. I think the bigger percentage of providers who ask for a photo are indeed screening to see if the client isn’t too much of a turn off for them. I’m guessing they are not providers as a full time source of income. I’ve met college students and people with full-time day jobs who take on some extra gig jobs but only when they sound appealing enough.