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I’ve heard of fire stations that burned to the ground where the firefighters could only evacuate and watch the rest happen. The captain told us that story over and over when I was a rookie firefighter in my mid-twenties in the middle nineties.

Here's a trailer: You can see the whole thing here: https://www.amazon.com/gp/video/detail/B00SZCMTEK/ref=atv_dp_share_cu_r Or here: https://youtu.be/czbQRjdGvYQ I learned a lot in this documentary. One in 2,000 people. Many intersex people don't even know that they are intersex.

Dr. Stefan Buntrock's UroChannel I'm both enjoying and learning a lot of good men's health information on the Urochannel. Dr. Stefan Buntrock is a urologist and sexologist from Germany (although his channel is in English). He provides candid, direct and myth-busting information on his channel. A small sample of topics he covers include: - Penis size (He really blows away some myths about penis sizes.) - Erectile issues - Prostate health - Prostate pleasure - Sexual performance

Their website says: "50 parking spaces in rear of the building not visible from the street" If you switch to satellite photo view, you can see it in Google Maps.

Atlanta's Tokyo Valentino Lifestyle Club I see they host the Communion events but day-in-day-out, they aren't a gay venue, are they? Anyone have any experiences there that they can share?

Looks like I answered part of my own question. CumUnion has a bathhouse directory.

CumUnion has pop-up gatherings around North America.

Dallas's Gay Men's Tantra/Yoga Meetup Group.

Only a few gay bathhouses seem to have survived the pandemic. I used to have a website that listed and reviewed bathhouses around the world bookmarked, but I can't find one like that anymore. If you know of a good bathhouse directory, I'd love to see a link. Some newer alternatives have popped up. Groups on meetup.com, email distribution lists and other social media have regular gatherings at locations where men will gather for an afternoon or an evening and have a few hours of bathhouse-like experiences. (Checkout Albuquerque's ABQ Gay Glorytime on Meetup, or the DenverMensClub). Some of them are tied to all-male yoga practices. Again, If you know of a directory or more to list, I'd love to see links.

I visited Big Bend National Park recently and drove through a CBP checkpoint coming back north away from the border, just south of Alpine, TX. I was surprised by the number of cameras and other kinds of electronic sensing equipment that were aimed at me and my vehicle when I pulled up. Google Maps GOO.GL Find local businesses, view maps and get driving directions in Google Maps.

Anyone have any experience with JCJackson or Joshua in ABQ? https://rentmasseur.com/jcjackson https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/38845/ I really find his smile inviting.

I used to have a Recon account. While I had a few fantastic connections there, I got frustrated at how frequently somebody would leave me with a room all set up when they no-showed and ghosted me. I think the majority of people I interacted with there were into the fantasy of meeting up, but didn't really want to meet up.

What’s an FFO channel?

I keep two Facebook accounts. One is entirely vanilla. It's where I connect with family, coworkers, and a few other real-life friends and organizations that I want to follow. The other one is more PG-rated where I follow Facebook pages with scantly clad models, kinky or sexy-themed groups, etc. I would let a provider friend my PG-rated account, if I clicked with them when we met. Similarly, I have two Twitter accounts. On my NC-17-rated I follow several providers who have Twitter accounts that are fun to follow. Some of them follow my NC-17 account back and I don't mind. (It's a lot of work to block all the bots that follow you on Twitter, anyway.)

When making funeral arrangements for a relative a few years ago, I was browsing a catalog of burial urns for cremated remains. I found one that's a compostable planter specifically sized for saplings. I'd love for my remains to be absorbed and used by pecan tree in one of the woodsy parts of the USA, so I can become nourishment for the tree and for the ecosystem around the tree.

I haven't found a good website where male professional dominants advertise. Female and transexual dommes advertise on www.dickievirgin.com. You can search for male BDSM providers who see men on www.tryst.link but only find a handful world-wide. www.rent.men has "S&M" and "Bondage" available as searchable preferences. But they generally return a lot of escorts who are open to some kink scenes rather than professional dominant men. Do you know of another site that I'm not aware of?

I lived in Santa Fe in the 90's and loved it. It was more of a bohemian hippy art colony then and less Rodeo Drive. It was expensive then and has grown more so. A lot of long time residents up there (even ones who love it there) retire to lower elevations so they don't have to deal with the altitude and snowy winters in their old age. I like ABQ. I would gladly move there, myself. The show "Breaking Bad" did accurately capture a gritty underside of ABQ. (65th highest violent crime rate in the US according to the FBI Uniform Crime Report) I would love to live there. There's a ton of stuff to do in ABQ. I would not want to raise a family there, though.

I really like to warm up with toys too. The Tantus Brand "Ripple" in both small and large are a really well designed and made for graduating small-to-large. The ripple bulges feel amazing going in and out too. Both sort of bridge the plug-dildo roles. Tantus Ripple Small Tantus Ripple Large

I've had more than one "sensual" or "erotic" massage where the massage itself was entirely a therapeutic massage (and a good one at that) but with no sexual tension or energy at all. Then, at the end, the masseur switches gears entirely and does something to provide a sexual release. I think I'd go back to those masseurs if they reversed the sequence. Get the sexual tension and energy out of the way first and I'll melt like butter in a technical therapeutic massage. Have you ever seen a masseur offer this type of session?

It's important to ensure that everyone gets a turn being the center of attention for the other two people. It's easy for the two people with the most chemistry to gravitate towards each other and leave someone feeling left out and undesired. You can make a game of that with a playtime rule, like: every time the song changes on the music playing, we switch up who's the centerpiece. Deciding to sleep together as a threesome is a whole different set of logistic challenges. Whoever sleeps in the middle better like to be very warm when they sleep.

I've had more than one massage where the masseur used a free pandora account. So, every ten minutes or so, I got to listen to a Home Depot commercial.

The most frequent annoying behavior I've seen from Masseurs is to keep checking their phone during the session. But, that's not the most annoying thing I've had happen. Several years ago, I had a masseur keep chatterbox talking to me in . . . .baby talk throughout the session. "We don't want any nasty old stwess in ow muscles, now do we."

I’ve done that with straight guys a handful (pun intended) of times. I have about a 50/50 record of them either a) loving it all the way through or b) freaking out in a wave of panicked homophobia where I have to talk them down.

I've worn briefs nearly my whole life. As boxers and boxer briefs come in and out of style, I've tried them. The fabric of everything but briefs always seems to get bunched up around the intersection of my thighs and my hips. I've only had luck with briefs or compression shorts staying where they're supposed to.

Turkish Kiss oh…😬 It never occurred to me that you could do that.