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I have had and hated the experience of being with a guy who was clearly trying to avoid looking at me and trying to focus on some other imaginary scene where he’s not with a man. He was clearly just trying to get through it. I came away from that feeling worse than if I never did it.

If you meet him, within a few minutes, you’ll feel like you’ve known him for a long time. Talk about a nice guy: after a session with me, I mentioned that I was going to try a nearby restaurant and he offered (and gave) me a ride to the restaurant in his car.

A few years ago, I saw an article that suggested the acronym GASM for Gender and Sexual Minorities as a broad overarching term. I like that term a lot.

I’ve been really eager to try one of those!

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In the height of the pandemic lockdown, I had to travel to a nearby city to take my greyhound to a specialist veterinarian. The city was REALLY serious about lockdown protocols. I was staying in an Embassy Suites and managed to stand in line, outdoors and in the winter, to buy a pre-packaged salad. I took it back to my room and realized that I didn't have any utensils. So, I not only tossed but also ate the salad with my hands.

He no-call-no-showed for an appointment with me in DFW too. Later that evening, he texted an excuse that his ex-boyfriend was seen in town with a key to his apartment and he had to rush home.

I'll visit Chicago in a few weeks. If anyone can recommend a professional BDSM Dom in Chicago, I'd appreciate it. (Full-service Vers- or Top-preferred.) If they have access to a dungeon, so much the better.

I've sent really small amounts before meeting really just as a gratuity for booking time with me and to show that I'm serious about showing up for the time I just scheduled. It's an amount of money that I can walk away from and only be very mildly disappointed if I lost it. I've also put down a larger deposit for a dungeon rental as part of the session. I think of that more like the downpayment on an AirBnB than a deposit to the provider.

I’ve used Amazon Gift Cards to send something anonymously. I just peel off the strip to reveal the activation code, photograph the front and back, and send the photos as text messages from a burner Google Voice account.

I lost nearly all of my hearing to a disease called otosclerosis then had surgery* to restore part of it. So, I watch everything with captions turned on. I've learned to enjoy that sometimes I get extra insights on a scene because the person doing the caption puts details in. For example, I watched a show recently where rather than just showing the "music playing" subtitle, it gave the name of the artist and title of the song. *I now have prosthetic stapes in my left ear. I mistakenly told my coworker that I have a prophylactate in my ear.

I’ve heard of fire stations that burned to the ground where the firefighters could only evacuate and watch the rest happen. The captain told us that story over and over when I was a rookie firefighter in my mid-twenties in the middle nineties.

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Dr. Stefan Buntrock's UroChannel I'm both enjoying and learning a lot of good men's health information on the Urochannel. Dr. Stefan Buntrock is a urologist and sexologist from Germany (although his channel is in English). He provides candid, direct and myth-busting information on his channel. A small sample of topics he covers include: - Penis size (He really blows away some myths about penis sizes.) - Erectile issues - Prostate health - Prostate pleasure - Sexual performance

Their website says: "50 parking spaces in rear of the building not visible from the street" If you switch to satellite photo view, you can see it in Google Maps.

Atlanta's Tokyo Valentino Lifestyle Club I see they host the Communion events but day-in-day-out, they aren't a gay venue, are they? Anyone have any experiences there that they can share?

Looks like I answered part of my own question. CumUnion has a bathhouse directory.

CumUnion has pop-up gatherings around North America.

Dallas's Gay Men's Tantra/Yoga Meetup Group.

Only a few gay bathhouses seem to have survived the pandemic. I used to have a website that listed and reviewed bathhouses around the world bookmarked, but I can't find one like that anymore. If you know of a good bathhouse directory, I'd love to see a link. Some newer alternatives have popped up. Groups on meetup.com, email distribution lists and other social media have regular gatherings at locations where men will gather for an afternoon or an evening and have a few hours of bathhouse-like experiences. (Checkout Albuquerque's ABQ Gay Glorytime on Meetup, or the DenverMensClub). Some of them are tied to all-male yoga practices. Again, If you know of a directory or more to list, I'd love to see links.

I visited Big Bend National Park recently and drove through a CBP checkpoint coming back north away from the border, just south of Alpine, TX. I was surprised by the number of cameras and other kinds of electronic sensing equipment that were aimed at me and my vehicle when I pulled up. Google Maps GOO.GL Find local businesses, view maps and get driving directions in Google Maps.

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I used to have a Recon account. While I had a few fantastic connections there, I got frustrated at how frequently somebody would leave me with a room all set up when they no-showed and ghosted me. I think the majority of people I interacted with there were into the fantasy of meeting up, but didn't really want to meet up.

What’s an FFO channel?

I keep two Facebook accounts. One is entirely vanilla. It's where I connect with family, coworkers, and a few other real-life friends and organizations that I want to follow. The other one is more PG-rated where I follow Facebook pages with scantly clad models, kinky or sexy-themed groups, etc. I would let a provider friend my PG-rated account, if I clicked with them when we met. Similarly, I have two Twitter accounts. On my NC-17-rated I follow several providers who have Twitter accounts that are fun to follow. Some of them follow my NC-17 account back and I don't mind. (It's a lot of work to block all the bots that follow you on Twitter, anyway.)