Just Chuck

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Well into my fifties, and outside of any sort of business arrangement, I’ve had young men in their early twenties hit on me online and had those turn into successful meetups. The young guys who are into older guys really are out there. I read a piece several years ago written by a woman that worked in one of Nevada’s legal brothels. She said that learning to be turned on by her own body by masturbating around mirrors a lot and having mirrors in the room where she entertained clients was a key for her to enjoying sessions with a lot of men who she otherwise wouldn’t be attracted to. Outside of paid arrangements, I’ve had great sex encoutners with people who I liked and connected with but wasn’t physically attracted to.

I WANT to be able to filter on Safe/BB. But I’ve decided that I won’t trust any answers on the Safe/BB field. I just assume that the encounter will be potentially risky and that I need to protect myself. I’ve seen several Twitter feeds from guys on RM who advertise as Safe Only but post clip after clip of them engaging in BB sex on Twitter.

In another forum, I saw “provider” used as the generic term for people who provide sensual/erotic massage and for escorts. I even saw them use the term “Adult Service Provider” with ASP as an acronym. EDIT: I left out BDSM pros from the subcategories of providers. I’ve probably left out more.

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