Just Chuck

I think that after you’ve actually sucked his cock, you can communicate a little more explicitly. I’d avoid leaving a text message history with him mentioning it, but at the beginning of another session and in-person . . . say, while you’re undressing and before you lie down on the table, you can say something like “I really enjoyed my last session with you. I loved getting the chance to suck your cock a little while on the table. Would it be okay for me to suck you more this time and maybe from a more comfortable position? If there’s a limit to how much you’re okay with, that’s okay and I’m asking so I respect your limits.”

A threesome where one of the people is the special guest star and is SUPPOSED to receive the giving attention of the other two partners can make for an amazing time for the lucky special person. I hooked up with a couple a little over a year ago and got to be that lucky guy as one partner did a long deep french kissing makeout session while holding my hands and essentially gently pinning me to the bed while the other partner gave me a long sloppy blowjob with a no-quit-no-spit draining finish. My brain was overwhelmed the whole time and it was amazing!

The lips are a point in the negative column but don’t tip the scales for me. I still think he’s an attractive guy.

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I can’t help but think of when Dallas Police raided the Midtowne Spa bathhouse and arrested several patrons in 2010.

Spayse studios is an open floor plan business in a strip mall in Dallas. Israel Luna operates it and hosts a lot of events for gay men including men’s naked yoga and nudist mixers. It’s also the location of some gay sex gatherings like Cumunion which had an event scheduled there on Friday 4/17/26, Well, they’re in the news. Another article Local TV News Clip

I literally do have a spreadsheet!

I was just listening to Dr Justin LehMiller describe sexuality as two dial settings. One dial has a person’s orientation across the gender spectrum. The other dial has a wide-narrow comfort range for how comfortable the person is with experience outside of their setting on the first dial. This can explain the straight guy who will opportunistically accept a blowjob from their gay friend or good looking gay men who will accept one night stand offers from straight women. Maybe gay-for-pay guys have really wide dial 2 settings.

I doubt it, but maybe. It was a sexy time, but it was a massage. In fact, the deep tissue work he did on my glutes, calves, and feet triggered some amazing tension releases that I still feel a couple of days later. I slept incredibly well that night.

I was in Las Vegas last week and booked a massage session with JayHands. I had a great time. The session was both a very good therapeutic massage and a lot of fun. He’s friendly, very good looking and easy to do business with. His prices were reasonable too. The only downside was (and he’ll admit this) his apartment, for now, is nice but in a shady neighborhood. Don’t leave stuff in your car if you park there. Fortunately, that’s temporary because he’s moving to a better place closer to the Fremont Street district.