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Google Translate helped a lot with both of those videos. In the first video, she demonstrates pinching the reservoir tip with one hand to roll the condom on with the other. This leaves the reservoir tip available and avoids air pockets under the condom. Air pockets under a condom are often the spot where a condom will tear. In the second video, he discusses the importance of some lube to help the condom last longer without breakage. Then demonstrates how oils can be incompatible with condoms and can cause the condom to loose it's strength and flexibility very quickly.
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Fantasies that you NEVER want to actually live out
+ Just Chuck replied to + Just Chuck's topic in The Lounge
Wow! 😲 That is a very specific niche kink. -
If you want to go for an extended session, a snug fitting condom makes the sensation less intense and you will go longer before climaxing.
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Unless that's agreed upon by both parties, that's non-consensual sex and a criminal act in a a lot of places. would be EXTREMELY angry at someone for stealthing me without discussing it beforehand and my agreement that it's going to be okay.
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Tasting History with Max Miller is a really fun channel. He presents researched recipes from history. Some recipes turn out great and some show why they are relegated to history. He puts all of the recipes into some historic context with the who, what, when, why, where, and how. A couple of my favorite videos of his are: The True History of Deep Dish Pizza and The Fake (and real) History of Potato Chips And, I think he's really an attractive guy too. Those eyes and beaming smile positively dazzle me.
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'Name brands' vs. 'Store brands' - what do you buy ?
+ Just Chuck replied to Ali Gator's topic in The Lounge
It's clothing instead of food. But, I've been really happy with some staple clothing items in the "Amazon Essentials" line. I've picked up some heavyweight t-shirts from them that are super high quality. The cotton is extremely thick, soft, and smooth. -
Just for my experience, the trick with condoms is to have enough sex with condoms that the condom just feels like a normal part of sex.
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I don’t think you did anything wrong or need to feel ashamed of anything!
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I guess @Lovemen838 wants to flip the scene from the horse market where the anonymous, blindfolded, and objectified guy is the bottom. Instead, he’d like to be the objectified, anonymous, blindfolded, passive top.
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Auto-correct is a mother forklift.
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For pranking us like that: May the automatic paper towel dispensers always sense you too late. May the 'auto-correct' on your phone forever replace your most important words with emojis. May the last song you hear before bed always be a catchy, but slightly annoying, jingle. May your socks always slide down into your shoes. May your internet buffering symbol spin... just a little longer than necessary. May the seams of your pockets always catch on your thumbs. May the 'loading' icon on your computer perpetually tease you with 99% completion. May your coffee always be lukewarm. May all of your remote controls have slightly delayed responses. May your headphones always tangle themselves into the most complex knots imaginable.
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Glory holes, blindfolds, hoods… it sounds like you just have another variety of anonymity or objectification kink.
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When I've done that, I calmed down a couple of guys who identified as straight and were somewhat panicked about what they'd just done by talking to them about the Kinsey Scale and the Klein Sexual Orientation Grid (KSOG). Both the Kinsey scale and the KSOG helped me to understand who I was. My score (particularly on the KSOG) fluctuates a little over time. The KSOG can even accommodate describing someone like a prisoner who is straight but trades cigarettes and candy bars for same-sex blowjobs just to break up the monotony of masturbation and get a sexual release.
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Have you checked on FetLife? The NYC FetLife community is so big, I'd bet there's a group discussion on the topic. To me, I think CNC could be fun, but I'd want the agreement of who, what, when, and where on paper or video before it happened. That scenario gone wrong could ruin one or more people's lives. There have been stories of people taking out phony CNC ads listing their ex's or perceived-enemy's address and photo to set up real-non-consensual attacks. That idea terrifies me. I'd want to meet with everyone involved in a non-scene setting before over coffee (no drugs or alcohol) so we're all in agreement about what's going to happen and what is and is not going to be okay.
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Sleeping with a stuffed animal certainly doesn't hurt anybody. I've struggled with sleep at times and if I thought that a teddy bear or other stuffed animal would help, I certainly would have tried it.
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Mine is really me. I had just finished a winter trail run in Colorado. I don't live at high altitude. So, I just jogged that one as a fun run. It was beautiful out that day.
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'Diddy' : If you suck it right, I'll help your career...
+ Just Chuck replied to Ali Gator's topic in The Lounge
An accusation of quid pro quo sexual harassment seems relatively minor compared to the other things he's accused of. -
Long term relationship between gay man and bi man
+ Just Chuck replied to moonlight's topic in The Lounge
In my teens, I was in denial that I was bisexual. I had sex with other guys and loved it. At the time, I'd never even heard the term bisexual and thought of orientation as a gay/straight binary. I knew that I was attracted to women. I told myself that I was having sex with men just because I had such a high sex drive that it spilled over and that sex with men was just like an extension of masturbation for myself. I was well into my twenties when I finally became comfortable admitting to myself that I really am attracted to men as well as women and began using the label bisexual for myself. As time went on and the culture allowed people who don't fit into a gender binary to live openly in their own way, I realized that I really am drawn to those people too. I'm not that young. I'm starting to close out my fifties. I don't discriminate against sex partners based on gender. But, I'd be hard pressed to say that I'd "f*** whatever is available." -
Here in Texas, I can go to the grocery stores in the part of town where local hispanic chamber of commerce put up "Bienvenidos al barrio" signs and buy Mexican Coke (It'll be in thick-walled old-school glass bottles). It's sweetened with cane sugar too and available year round.
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Long term relationship between gay man and bi man
+ Just Chuck replied to moonlight's topic in The Lounge
Bisexuality becomes invisible in most cases the moment that you enter either a same or opposites sex relationship with just one person. (I guess less so if you're in a relationship with an androgynous non-binary person.) Unless I run across the right people who I want to join me in a throuple or polycule, I'll always appear to be either gay or straight to most observers. A set of terms that helps me understand is to not only add hetero-, homo-, bi-, and pan- to -sexual but also to -romantic. I've met a lot of bi-sexual people who are either hetero-romantic or homo-romantic. Meaning they are sexually attracted to a spectrum of genders but romantically attracted to just one. -
Ooh. I reviewed the posts that got removed. I'll filter what I post.
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