MikeyGMin

Well, yes and no. I think of them as personal messages. Of course the system admins can look at them, but I consider it extremely bad form to reveal the contents of a PM on the open board.

I wouldn't be shy about sending someone a PM in the manor described above. I think the complaints you may have seen recently were related to overly crude or graphic messages. I'm sure some guys love talking about every thrust and spurt that occurs, but you need to know your audience.
 
I think "massage guys" have it particularly difficult because if you are inquiring about someone what you really want to know is how far he will go. That requires a certain level of trust that you might not have right away with the person you were contacting.

These days it comes closer to meaning something along the lines of "babe." It's just a mild term of endearment. I suppose it could mean boyfriend if you say something like, "he's my boo" but it could just as easily mean "he's my close friend."

This.
 
Unless you deleted it, you should still have an email in you inbox from the Web Master telling you that your review has been posted. You can reply to that email and explain the situation and they will undoubtedly delete it.

This.
 
Unless you deleted it, you should still have an email in you inbox from the Web Master telling you that your review has been posted. You can reply to that email and explain the situation and they will undoubtedly delete it.

These days it comes closer to meaning something along the lines of "babe." It's just a mild term of endearment. I suppose it could mean boyfriend if you say something like, "he's my boo" but it could just as easily mean "he's my close friend."

Not intended to be snarky, but the answer is simple. Because I can.
 
There are beautiful young men -- who would have been out of my league even when I was their age -- willing to do the job. It's the ultimate luxury and I can afford it at this point in my life.

Because I grew older more quickly than my libido.

Not intended to be snarky, but the answer is simple. Because I can.
 
There are beautiful young men -- who would have been out of my league even when I was their age -- willing to do the job. It's the ultimate luxury and I can afford it at this point in my life.

Not intended to be snarky, but the answer is simple. Because I can.
 
There are beautiful young men -- who would have been out of my league even when I was their age -- willing to do the job. It's the ultimate luxury and I can afford it at this point in my life.

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Do a search of his name here on Daddys and you'll find lots of positive feedback...including mine!

Not intended to be snarky, but the answer is simple. Because I can.
 
There are beautiful young men -- who would have been out of my league even when I was their age -- willing to do the job. It's the ultimate luxury and I can afford it at this point in my life.

Not intended to be snarky, but the answer is simple. Because I can.
 
There are beautiful young men -- who would have been out of my league even when I was their age -- willing to do the job. It's the ultimate luxury and I can afford it at this point in my life.

Not intended to be snarky, but the answer is simple. Because I can.
 
There are beautiful young men -- who would have been out of my league even when I was their age -- willing to do the job. It's the ultimate luxury and I can afford it at this point in my life.

Not intended to be snarky, but the answer is simple. Because I can.
 
There are beautiful young men -- who would have been out of my league even when I was their age -- willing to do the job. It's the ultimate luxury and I can afford it at this point in my life.

Not intended to be snarky, but the answer is simple. Because I can.
 
There are beautiful young men -- who would have been out of my league even when I was their age -- willing to do the job. It's the ultimate luxury and I can afford it at this point in my life.

Not intended to be snarky, but the answer is simple. Because I can.
 
There are beautiful young men -- who would have been out of my league even when I was their age -- willing to do the job. It's the ultimate luxury and I can afford it at this point in my life.

+1000
 
For the life of me I will never understand why people do this kind of sleuthing. Checking the review sites and anything related to their professional reputation is understandable, but the kind of sleuthing that so many people do is just a nice word for stalking and it puts you in this exact awkward situation.
 
I understand an image search if you think the guy might be using someone else's pictures, but that's where I end it. It is sloppy on their part if they have the same photos on their personal and professional accounts, but I would stop immediately if I hit their personal Facebook account and never say a word that would make them uncomfortable.
 
Just like most clients want to control the release of their personal information, the pros should be afforded the same courtesy. It also makes it kind of special when / if they choose to reveal things of a personal nature.

+1000
 
For the life of me I will never understand why people do this kind of sleuthing. Checking the review sites and anything related to their professional reputation is understandable, but the kind of sleuthing that so many people do is just a nice word for stalking and it puts you in this exact awkward situation.
 
I understand an image search if you think the guy might be using someone else's pictures, but that's where I end it. It is sloppy on their part if they have the same photos on their personal and professional accounts, but I would stop immediately if I hit their personal Facebook account and never say a word that would make them uncomfortable.
 
Just like most clients want to control the release of their personal information, the pros should be afforded the same courtesy. It also makes it kind of special when / if they choose to reveal things of a personal nature.

No. Havent heard that one.
 
I'd infer that an escort citing flu fears as a reason not to kiss is using it as an excuse. With all of the contact and proximity, its akin to saying "I dont want to get wet" and trying to avoid the stream from only one tiny nozzle on a showerhead.
 
Really... they'll lay on top of each other. They'll breathe all over each other. Maybe licking, rubbing, grinding, touching, etc etc. If he says those words, he doesnt want to kiss that particular client.

Are you suggesting [uSER=17596]@SimonL[/uSER], married (presumably to a woman) for 30 years with a family should tell his wife? Or were you speaking about @KyleS, to whom I stated:
 

 

 
Based on the context of the second part of your post (quoted directly above) I'm guessing you thought I was speaking to @KyleS when I said it is best to remain silent. I was speaking to [uSER=17596]@SimonL[/uSER] who, based on being married for 30 years, fits in the category of older guys who married young.

I couldn't agree with you more. When it involves another person you don't have the right to be dishonest so that you can have your cake and eat it too. You don't have the right to destroy other people's lives because you don't have the courage to be honest.
 
One of my nieces has just gone through the trauma of finding out that her husband was playing around with men on the side. I do have some sympathy for older guys who married young in an attempt to suppress their desire for men, but this little scumbag was only 25 years old when they married 5 years ago. There is no excuse in this day and age to go into a marriage with such an important secret.

Though I understand the risk of deep kissing, if you are doing it right I am sure there is a lot more in having sex over an hour period (if not more) that will expose you. For now, if you really want deep kissing ask the escort and if he says he does not then skip him.

Clearly there is something going on that has skewed your experience. As @escortrod has been pointing out you seem to have a selection bias towards gay for pay, which in my opinion, means you are starting out with a group more likely to have issues. Also your age. I don't mean that as a put-down, but it means your early hiring days were a long time ago when the stigma was severe, so once again you were dealing with a group more likely to have issues and be desperate.
 
Right now off the top of my head, my four favorite escorts all have stable lives, career plans either in the adult industry or in another career field. They don't have any drug problems and they all have health insurance and beautiful teeth. They are fit and healthy and know where their life is headed and living life on their own terms.
 
There has to be a selection difference that makes your experiences so drastically different than mine.
 
Edit: fixed numerous typos

I have never met a gay man of ANY age who wasn't concerned about his body image. You might get to a place of acceptance, especially if you are playing with men of your own age, but I'm not buying for a minute that sex is better when you're in your 60s. Not saying it can't be good. Just that it can't be better then your younger years.