pubic_assistance

Who would have guessed that Tsar Nicholas had a six-pak and a nice ass !!
 

Well, given some of the responses here I think its the adults that would be uncomfortable from the leering eyes of pubescent boys.
Anyway, I never experienced cubicle showers until private gyms took off in the 80s/90s. I don't get them from a users perspective... its far easier to clean an open area with fewer nooks and crannies... and one would think an open shower would discourage bad behavior, from cruising to peeing in the shower room. Frankly, I miss the horseplay and comaraderie of a shower room, where casual nudity a catalyst for that, not the goal.

My understanding is that as your PE (gym) period got later in the day they got more lax about enforcement, to the extent that the last period of the day was often assigned to kids who had some physical or religious objection or were special ed.
The reason was that classroom teachers would complain about smelly boys in their classrooms. Today they must complain about teaching in a fog of Axe Body Spray instead.
I never cared and showered at every opportunity because I was a secret naturist at an early age and enjoyed the public experience. 

Wrestling should remain a sport requiring thorough showers because of the viruses spread by skin to skin contact. I've found that wrestlers and rugby players have a more old fashioned sensibility about communal bathing. 
I never saw any untoward behavior in a sauna until I started frequenting a KSpa a few years ago and there it is out-and-out brazen, to the point that signs are everywhere forbidding the practice. I now go on weekend days which are more family days and that behavior doesn't happen at those times. I hope.

What era were you a teenager?  In the mid 70s, there was no dressing or undressing with a towel around your waist in my experience.

1990's.
I guess I'm on the younger side on this site. 😂

I was in hs in the late 80s and the wrestling coach was the only one who showered at the school. I don't think most athletes did by that point.

Basically the 80s became a return to prudery, and not without some reason, because suddenly there was a deadly disease going around. Coupled with more awareness of sexual abuse, adults tried with mixed success to eliminate real and perceived opportunities for sexual activity to occur. Communal showers were a casualty of this effort. And once being naked in front of others was no longer something everyone just did, it became perceived as weird.

It's essential to me too (although I like getting my throat f&$&ed with his tongue more than making out).
ALWAYS ask ahead of time, even if they list kissing, and confirm they do DTK.
if they don't, I offer them a fee to leave. If they refuse, I tell my Alexa to call 911 ( to report someone refusing to leave my home). As of yet nobody's stayed long enough for me to report them.

You still need to be specific with your own into's. Escorts aren't mind readers. Some are better than others at "reading the room". 

This is a reason I was confused on at least one account, because even though the provider didn't kissing as an "into" he listed "boyfriend experience." soooooo  conflictory.

I am more attracted to the opposite. I prefer a provider who advertises as "safe only" as that indicates a more conservative approach to their health so it gives me ( a false ) sense of security about catching diseases. Completely an illusion, but it's there in my head, nonetheless.  I only fuck with condoms.

Exactly. 
Everything gets interconnected now.
If anyone has privacy concerns of any kind its lost when you give a provider your primary mobile number. I have META making friends suggestions of people I fucked YEARS ago. Obviously they receive the same...and therefore have my social media contacts. Any sense of anonymity that I may have wanted is gone. 

Some of these guys forget that escorts are people too.
I've bumped into plenty familiar faces from Rent.men while crusing on Grindr.
 

I am more attracted to the opposite. I prefer a provider who advertises as "safe only" as that indicates a more conservative approach to their health so it gives me ( a false ) sense of security about catching diseases. Completely an illusion, but it's there in my head, nonetheless.  I only fuck with condoms.

This information came from the review itself (using VPN to read). I talked to the person who left the review and he mentioned several red flags about the provider. 

I’ve had the most unforgettable 3-hr non-stop flip session with him … on a Valentine’s Day. Nothing will ever come close to it. He’s a sex god! 

A new review was posted on RM and mentioned the session only lasted 20 minutes for a one hour session (chatting toke over the rest of the session). Provider didn't react well to the criticism when client brought it up.

Is this a regular of his defending him, or him trying to control the narrative🤨?

Given his inability to perform when with a man and that most of his sex scenes on X are with women, it sounds to me like this provider is heterosexual. 🤷🏻‍♂️

Thanks for taking the time to check in and refute the "bad reviews". 
But if someone hires a top, they do probably expect to get fucked up the ass during an escort session.....And there is more than one comment about your inability to provide either top or bottom services. If that is a challenge for you then you may want to discuss with future clients that such connection is on a case by case basis and not guaranteed. I know I cant just fuck anything that moves, and neither should you be expected to either. Just perhaps you need to make that clear up front. 

Exactly. 
Everything gets interconnected now.
If anyone has privacy concerns of any kind its lost when you give a provider your primary mobile number. I have META making friends suggestions of people I fucked YEARS ago. Obviously they receive the same...and therefore have my social media contacts. Any sense of anonymity that I may have wanted is gone. 

In my opinion the difference is far more psychological than physical. Lots of guys lose the moment while struggling to slip on a condom..and as far as having someone unload in your ass...yeah thats a whole pile of psychology. Intimacy, naughtiness, and danger.