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I've noticed that too. Quite weird.

Most of the men here hire masseurs. Perhaps that's what you meant 🤔?

Not very. You seem to be mixing up the terminology. Most masseurs are getting you off at arms length because they ARE NOT escorts. Yes...some escorts hide behind the masseur moniker, but among actual masseurs, the erotic services differ specifically from escorts because they are NOT making-out or having full-on sex with you. Yes..there are exceptions to every rule...but you certainly shouldnt be EXPECTING escort services from a masseur.

His cellmate lucked out.

It's always embarrassing to the top.

Except that a lot of "masseurs" are actually escorts who don't want to risk arrest so they aren't going to openly discuss sexual matters with a stranger.

Of course. The question was directed at @KensingtonHomo He is claiming to be much more able to fuck a hottie in his mature years...so I thought maybe he had some ugly duckling years as a young man and learned to pay for sex early because he had to. Yes we are aware not everyone has to pay for sex. If you're ugly, you may lower your standards to fuck a dog...but the conversations here on C.o.M. will prove that instead, people would rather reach for their wallet and pay for company who meets their standards of physical beauty. So conversely, the question on this thread is whether that desire for physical beauty will get you a discount from your provider. If you ARE attractive and just hiring for convenience do escorts consider you more desirable and easier to get off ? My first ever hire was unplanned and I was in my 20s. I did offer to pay but afterwards the provider told me he had so much fun, I didn't need to pay him. He enjoyed himself as much as I did . (I did however pay him, as I was aware that this was his JOB.) We hooked up a few times after that. Off the clock. So yeah...in this case he not only discounted but didn't feel the need to charge at all because of my looks.

It's interesting how some of these men are so brainwashed by Lesbian Equality Theory. "Looks don't matter"...."we are all beautiful"..."personality is everything you need". The.topic of the discussion is about clients who stand out, not a place to try and pretend we are all the same. Looks are very much important to men. It's how they are wired.

Did you have to pay for sex in your 20s too ?

Once again @KensingtonHomois playing gatekeeper...and now he's sending me out to pasture. I'm only 53. I think I have a few more good years before I'm to be put-down 😄

I meant as a general rule. But I suppose this could be a cultural norm for certain people and not others. I was merely defending @marylander1940 's opinion. Nothing more.

Joyus Oestre

Sorry @mike carey I disagree. It's a common courtesy to not talk behind people's back. And @marylander1940 wasn't demanding

That was the interesting thing about our houseboy. In Vietnam his parents had a staff of FOUR and yet with their money they couldn't afford to house their son while he was in college. The difference in economies is significant.

We had a Vietnamese houseboy for a few years when the kids were little.. He always commented how shocking American food prices were (and how terrible the food tasted) He was a great cook...so we ate Vietnamese a few days per week. I don't know about living there but I'd love to eat my way through the country. Amazing food culture. (And yes @marylander1940...this guy's kinda fuckable.)

Yeah. He's a real disappointment . Nice looking but mediocre in every other aspect.

That and the 5 cent cherry coke at the counter in Woolworth's

Absolutely. I have made this point many times. For now the law is used to "take down" important people (Governor of New York). But in the era of meta-data being stored for that moment you become inconvenient, it's wise to avoid the risk of having broken a Federal Law.

Two sides to every story. I would be curious to hear the client's side of your story.

I see he's a "masseuse" . Is he a recent Trans person ?

Correct. They are attracted to the money 🤑...not you .

As I stated before...it's all theatre. For example if an escort can't get a hard-on...then neither can I. So you'd better tank up on Viagra if you can't actually get into the session. I'm not SO old and I'm still in pretty good shape for my age...but I'm aware none of these super hot guys would hit me up in Grindr for a freebie. I suppose the more a provider is an actor the more likely a Lonely-Lenny will hire him just to hang out after he gets off.

This is very simple. If you're PAYING someone for sex, they're not actually into you. *boom*

People have mentioned they hire him for escorting too ...but the over all opinion is that YES..he's burnt out and unable to pretend he's enjoying your company My memory of hiring him was that he was bored beyond belief. Although I didn't take it personally...it was an unpleasant environment to be in and hardly something I would recommend to anyone.