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Dan Stevens is good in everything he does.

From what I read about these cruises they always have to cart away a few dead bodies from drug overdoses...so what's a few extra Covid deaths in the name of fun 🙄 ?

Although I agree with the above statement I would also like to point out that there is a flip side to this idea of stereotyping. In my experience as a young man in an all white community ...the girls I grew up with were uptight about sex but down in Philadelphia the black girls were far more approachable and fun in bed. As I became active with men I found the same to be true. Rather than fetishizing black men I just assume they are going to be better in bed. I think with all sexuality it's about what your mind attached to in your formative years...and you can't really grow out of that much once you're set. I never had a problem stepping out side the box when I was growing up....so I developed a more sex positive outlook and wasn't beholden to negative stereotypes. Too many people grow up in a very narrow world view and they never let go of that.

I remember going there when I was young. Not one Asian guy gave me a second glance...( At a time when I was accustomed to nearly everyone looking... ) Only the older daddies were getting the attention. Quite a culture shock for me. I had no idea how all that worked. Was so much the opposite of what I understood at that time.

Pulled the first dead body from the crowd.. https://instinctmagazine.com/controversial-atlantis-cruise-now-has-a-reported-death-while-at-sea/ Drugs or Covid - these guys have a death wish.

Literally in the middle of Nowhere for $180 ? Metrics are off.

The whole point of bondage is the thrill of surrendering complete trust to someone . Doing so with a complete stranger is not for everyone. Trust is key. So a prior experience and discussion of interests and limits is advised.

Someone needs to explain US economics to this one

I've noticed several providers who have had the decency to add a few realistic and current photos at the end of your scroll through all the glamor shots. I think that's the decent thing to do.

I visit North Carolina on business a couple times a year. I can attest to the fact that Raleigh-Durham is an under served market. But then perhaps that's because it's not a lucrative market. Don't know.

Excellent choice.

When I last talked to him he wasn't taking new clients. He is more focused on porn.

Jeezus. What a shame about the unfortunate choices in body art. I'm gonna assume that was a very drunk decision.

Indeed. When I was in High School ( late 80s ) the wrestling coach would occasionally jump in the shower to rinse off too. Nobody thought anything of it. Never heard a word about him being anything but straight as straight can be. Same at the public pool...would strip off my swim trunks and shower next to my naked father, balls dangling everywhere. Never occurred to anyone to cover up anything.

I used to have a cute Thai masseur who did a happy beginning, middle and end over 90 minutes for me. Lots of interesting techniques added to his repertoire each week kept things interesting each visit. Sadly these Thai guys are always here on a student visa and have to return eventually. Never found a replacement for that experience. But yeah...a happy middle is my favorite. I like a bit of stretching etc before I head back out.

That would depend on the generation we are discussing. Older guys who've been dealing with decades of HIV medications...yes. suppressed immune systems. Younger generation who avoided HIV and are whoring around on Grinder 24/7 ...their immune system is on full alert.

I prefer providers who actually know how to massage. Anything more than an expert massage is icing on the cake for me.

I am wired differently than a lot of these gentlemen. I have never arranged a meet up for sexual activity with someone I've never met before. I will meet someone for a massage, and take it from there. If I like them/ they like me, then discussions may be made for additional time together. But..no. Not offering someone $$$$ sight unseen.

The most I would ever agree to pay a stranger to meet them is $ 200. Second meets, or extensions of the initial meet vary depending on how much I value the looks, personality and compatibility of the provider. I think a high degree of disappointment is had through unrealistic expectations from someone you've never met. Overall, I just don't understand people who spend $ 1,000 for a hour or two of pleasure, no matter who their choice of company.

A boat full of gay men who have been hooking up all through the pandemic is unlikely to have many deaths considering these guys likely have super immune systems already, with all the swapping of body fluids they do. During the AIDS crisis, NYC had to forcibly shut down the sex clubs because an HIV epidemic wasn't reason enough to stop going out to having sex with dozens of strangers each night....so a little thing like a corona virus is unlikely to stop some the sort of person who likes a gay cruise. Same animal. Same response: ignore the problem until it's too late.

This all seems to be due to a more acute awareness that homosexuals (and bisexuals) are part of society. When I was in High School and College ( late 80s/ early 90s) none of us ever covered up. The gym showers were one big room with a lot of nozzles. You got a few view of everyone's junk in the shower, so it was pretty pointless to cover up afterward. I noticed by the 2000s that increasingly men in the locker rooms would go to great lengths to hide their private parts. Even the bizarre habit of slipping on their underwear while still wearing a towel around their waist. Something I just refuse to do. So strange.

The most important thing to know in the US is that you are paying this person for their company, not for sex. Since paying for sex is illegal in most states, your relationship above and beyond spending some time together is by law outside of any transactional negotiations. So in simple terms, asking someone to blow you for $200 is illegal. Asking someone if they enjoy a blowjob from an older man and then making a date is not.

This is an arrangement that is going to come with a lot of emotional baggage mixed in. Sounds like a relationship where one of you holds all the cards. Unless you want to feel like a 1950s housewife, with no rights and lots of rules, I would say this isn't gonna work.

I have always enjoyed company BEFORE a massage to soap me up and get things going..... but AFTERWARDS...I don't care. I'm done and ready to head home. I know....very male of me. My wife used to want me to cuddle afterward and tell me how much I care. Always hated that. Thank God after two kids and years together, we've moved past that stage.

His Rentmen ad shows some seriously kinky photos in his "extras" repertoire along with a disturbing video that feels like a scene set up from a horror film where everyone dies. Pass.