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I've had my "Sugar Baby" living with me for over two months. Lovely young man, who had been abandoned by his conservative Catholic family for being gay. He's been a rewarding addition to my home life. Couldn't be more pleased at my decision to welcome him into my life.

I am not doing a transaction of services...I am building a relationship..so as I stated I am VERY satisfied with the relationship.

I think if you treat someone with kindness and offer them a reasonable arrangement that helps them out of the difficulty that all university students have with finances, then you have a partner who is eager to return the favor in some way. That at least has been my experience. Sure there are a lot of unreasonable young men on S.A. but I met just as many nice young fellows who are just trying to get a little help getting started in life.

It's been one month, living with my young college student, and he's been a delightful companion. The biggest expense for college students is housing and particularly problematic for students in NYC. So the offer of room and board, in a college town is a good deal for students looking to save some cash on their higher education. Too many leave school so deep in debt, they will never be drowning with a starting job salary.

I've met a very nice young man on S.A. who couldn't be more delightful. He moved in with me recently. It's all a matter of filtering out all the con artists and focusing on the good people who are simply struggling to get by.

The butt alone has me "falling under his spell". Pretty sexy kid.

There are more than a few gold diggers on Seeking Arrangement. Sort of like drunks in bars....goes with the territory.

I once jerked off to an episode of "TAXI" because Tony Danza had his shirt off. I was obsessed with him for years. I am still obsessed with this "type" of guy.

Where are you located ? I don't have that experience at all. Maybe 20% have no follow through.

You'll find a lot of the same young men "multi-tasking" on both sites.

I have had the same experience. A few nice young men who enjoy the company and security of an older man. It's incredibly difficult for young people these days to get a foot hold in life. When mummy and daddy aren't always available to some people to help, it's particularly appealing to have someone around who DOES.

Well...this list is not complete without Louis Garrel

I've met with a few dozen guys already, so I hardly think there is a majority of fake profiles. I have encountered a small percentage who seem to give an unusually short bit of "interest" and never answer back.

Pedro was more responsive than Tommy ...but neither one of them followed through on a complete conversation enough for me to understand if i wanted to pay for this person's company for the night.

Apparently the premium price tag, is to help fund his addiction to steroids.

I've lived in NYC for years. I would say, that celebrities are "out and about" more commonly in certain neighborhoods. I bump into TONS of celebrities in the West Village all the time. Yoko Ono, of all people, was standing in front of my house the other day, just out strolling with a young, twink and chatting about something. Too many celebrity sightings to list, after all my years in NYC. I think the more interesting ones, were back in the late 80s./ early 90s, when you'd spy some future celebrities, getting down n' dirty at various underground clubs.

$ 450 ? *pass*

I inquired about a date with both Tommy and Pedro, while in London last summer. Neither were capable of holding down a conversation long enough to answer my questions, and therefore, I passed on both. For the kind of prices they are charging, I expect some level of customer service...and the fact you can't be bothered to communicate is always a red flag.

hmmmm....S.U. is my alma mater....maybe I need to get up there for a trip down memory lane and a chance to make some some new memories.....

WHOA COWBOY. No one said anything about an "unhappy marriage". The sex dies off in most marriages, and that becomes a dilemma for many. That therapist is dead on track with supporting this fellows right to get his needs met.

In general, when you don't have honesty and trust in a relationship, you don't have a relationship. So ....simply put, if your partner is upset you went behind his back, he has a right to be upset about that. In response, it is perfectly reasonable for you as a human being to desire a healthy sex life. So, the conversation to be had, is to first: apologize for the betrayal of trust... (and don't make excuses). Just apologize. THEN, move on to the issue of sex and have an adult conversation with this man, who you should know well enough by now. If he cares about you, then he should care that you're in need of some physical attention. Throw the responsibility of what to do about the situation in his lap, and take it from there. If he can't be bothered, then you really don't have a relationship anymore. If you're partner doesn't care about your, needs...then you need to move on. It's reasonable to be hurt about the deception, but it's not reasonable to pretend your emotional/physical needs are not his responsibility at all. Even if it requires an understanding that you're going to get them met, elsewhere.

$ 300 is an outrageous amount of money, unless you're fulfilling your fantasy and booking a porn star.

I agree. Shaving your pubes, makes me feel like a child molester. It's disgusting. I can't even get hard, it's so unappealing to me. Total turn off.

I get about 50 messages per day since I joined.

Actually, I called them "pound puppies" because they are all young, want someone to take care of them, and are looking to get pounded, in exchange.