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Swedish massage is for lonely people and ladies. If you want "therapy" you don't book a "Swedish Massage".

If you read the whole thread, this was discussed. Yes, you are correct. The provider is receiving the whole fee so tipping is definitely optional. BUT, American culture would dictate that IF that provider went out of his way to create a superior experience during the service, or provided ANY additional services that weren't a standard definition of either massage or escorting, then showing one's appreciation with a tip, is normal. American culture was based on the idea that people are not slaves. There is an expected reward for going the extra mile.

very cute. thanks for the reccomendation

First to answer this question properly a LOT depends on the state you're in. A liberal State will be more tolerant a conservative state will make a big stink. But overall...in my experience most state's family court systems are overwhelmed so the likelihood of you being discovered is small. So I see no reason to get into discussions about your line of work. They will want to see tax documents showing income not videos showing your best angles. Discretion is the best way to proceed.

Agreed. But the assumption is that the client has the hour, so better to ask, than assume. I would be the guy cumming after 20 minute and then again 15 minutes later. Even if I were "finished' that way....I appreciate a bit of yoga stretching, foot massage or cranial to finish up the remaining minutes. Which most of the fellows I've used professionally have automatically offered. It's really only been the rub n tug "spas" that try to get me off and out the door in half the time I paid for.

I would think I'm paying for both. Personally I find it really rude if I get a happy ending at the 30 minute mark and the masseur assumes he's done his job and he's packing up. I paid for an hour I expect an hour. I would equally find it rude if I got very turned on, 20 minutes in to an escort session, dropped my load and the session was declared finished. Some of us can cum more than ONCE in an hour 😉 . So don't assume the game is over after the first inning.

If you're hiring someone based on the size of his penis it doesn't sound like you need a massage table to conduct your session. 🤔

I was frightened by the food at McDonalds. My parents said they stopped there once with my brother and me. We both threw up after trying to eat one of their (disgusting) burgers. So the evil clown probably made sense to me.

As I stated previously. It's manipulation. He's telling you that you are inately inferior. Then telling you that in spite of your inferiority he's going to make a special exception. So yes, he's trying to say you're being granted the opportunity of a life time to fuck somebody you don't deserve access to. The very definition of racism. Telling you that your skin color precludes you from access to prime services. It's 2023. The only color precluding anyone from prime services is how much GREEN 💵you're willing to spend.

Because it IS cheap and tacky. Were I the provider who received this message I would have simply deleted and not even bothered responding. The fact that he did respond was an expression of his warranted disgust. I don't view his response as unprofessional. I view the request to be rude and disrespectful.

I've lived in the West Village for 25 years. The gays don't live here. There are a few leftover gay bars from the old days when they did. What you are seeing are visitors, not residents. You don't see any of these people during the weekdays. The only gays here are elderly folk who stuck around because they have rent controlled apartments. The rest migrated North to Chelsea or West to Hoboken in the 1990s and then Hells Kitchen in 2000. Now there's another migration toward Brooklyn.

I take a 45 minute nap in the later afternoons. Then I typically sleep 7 hours. I haven't set an alarm clock for years ( unless I have an early flight to catch ). It's important to get yourself to a relaxed state and not to try and force sleep to come on.

Wtf ! Some people have no end to their cluelessness. You're lucky you weren't all caught up in a public stoning.

It's always been my experience that openly speaking to people in a racist manner is an indication of that person's insecurity. I have my own "racial preferences" but I don't use them to make people feel bad. This guy was clearly digging around your emotions to find a crack in the wall to put him in a superior position to manipulate you. You dodged a bullet. Sounds like a total asshole.

The West Village hasn't been a "huge gay community" since the 80's. When was the last time you visited ? It's more like Billionaires row now.

Dissing Trump ? Is the politics forum open again ? 🤔

How to ask a regular hire if he'll do more with you Offer money.$$$

The gentlemen who left reviews, both claim to have paid $ 200 for an erotic session. So a floating scale of pricing between therapeutic and erotic work. Not that I find $200 unreasonable for adding an erotic element. That's still a good pricing structure. Looks like a good find.

If a massage place charges $ 65 and you get such a crappy massage that you feel you should only tip $ 30, then I am curious why you're going to a crappy place in the first place. Was any of that worth your $ 95 ??? Any decent massage is $ 120 to 150 these days. So if the service was good, you give the place $ 65 for using their bed and the masseur $ 65 for doing the massage

Totally do-able.

I agree. I see no point in losing sight of what's important..

They appear to be putting delays on all transactions that will make it look like their cash is low. I transfered money out and it took 10 days when it normally would have cleared in 24 hours.

I think having traditional values doesn't make you "hate gays". So I fail to see the logic of the gay baiting accusation. Lots of celebrities have gay fans but aren't gay themselves.

I live in NYC where security bars over windows are common. I have to say I've never seen such MASSIVE thick metal bars in my life on every building in Sao Paulo. Like at any minute a tank could drive into an office building. Made me very uncomfortable, and I'm a seasoned traveler....so I am pretty good at judging my environment for trouble. That looked like trouble.