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I am equally dumbfounded at that statement, as I have twice said very clearly: I HAVE ALWAYS IGNORED THE MAN. So why would I know what he said about gays ? I never took any interest in ANYTHING he said For whatever reason, he never registered as important to my world. I keep hearing about all these horrible comments about gays but no one seems to have shared one. Where are they / what are they ? So far he said they wear rings and they were somehow responsible for 9/11. I would be interested to understand the actual words and the context of the statement. These bible-bashers are often full of shit. Nothing new there. The Southern Baptists ( which I assume he is associated with) are always Holier-than-thou. What makes him special ?

I have requested this for myself. Although I have also made it clear, that once I'm dead, I don't really care what they want to do with me. So there's no directives. Just a suggestion. Absorbed into tree roots sounded like the most natural crossing into the void.

Sounds like he wanted a "date", and you wanted a dirty hook up. No mystery here.

Facebook has had a recent flood of fake friend requests. All of my ( actual ) Facebook friends have been discussing it. A few people got friend requests from people who've been dead for some time. That was unnerving.

Again.... I've never paid any attention to the man. So I don't "believe" anything. I am genuinely asking. So... responsible for 9/11 and special rings ? Is that what this is all about ? Mind elaborating ?

Obviously. So WHAT WERE THE LIES ?

? huh ? Who's "defending him" ?? I said I've spent my whole life IGNORING him. This is a legitimate question. WHAT DID HE SAY ? I literally have no idea where all this vitriol is coming from. I have long been aware of the guy but I've never been interested to hear him speak. I assume there are terrible events and horrible things said.... WHAT ARE THEY ?

Just haven't been up that way much for several years. I'm sure it's still the culture up there in the remaining pockets of black neighborhoods.

Oh no ! Is THIS the same guy as the bodybuilder ? What a shame ! He used to be adorable. Ah well. Nothing stays fresh forever.

Thumbs up to that comment @Unicorn

I do find the childish attempt at extreme masculinity to be entertaining and some of them can be sexy. Harlem used to be sexually charged in the summer, with the guys walking around with their shirts off, puffing up their egos and showing off their swagger like an exotic bird trying to impress a potential mate.

Same problem in NYC at the South Street Seaport. NO tower should really be built on landfill. But this is continuously done and everyone just keeps crossing their fingers and then acting surprised when things go bad.

If you've ever passed through St. Albans you'd be less surprised by this news. Complete hell hole.

Wow. You can actually smell the bile bubbling up in this thread. I have been aware of the guy for most of my life, but his existence has always been mostly meaningless to me. We all know that Christian Conservatives like to "bible-thump" to make themselves appear more holy. Anti-gay rhetoric is only one of the usual narratives that get spun from their pulpit. I just switch it off and go about my business. WHY, I ponder are so many of you so triggered by this person ? He doesn't seem any different from the millions of other bible-belt-Baptists. Was there something he actually DID that went beyond the usual religious conservative viewpoints of his faith ?

THIS ☝️

Lots of negative reviews on his Rent.men profile.

And I will point out that strategy backfired when the gays tried this with the blacks back in the 90s. Not every social justice movement is compatible. As much as I might agree that ones heart is in the right place when you want to want to help every disenfranchised group....but.... when you have your own battle to fight, on-boarding a bigger problem is going to negatively impact your own mission. You can support Transgender rights without making it your own battle. ( Which is my personal position in the matter ). I don't need MY civil rights dragged into a battle over where a cross-dresser can pee.

I would never commit the funding toward a two hour session with someone who I have never met. There have been too many encounters where I wanted to leave after half an hour. I will stop short and pay for the hour. But I'm not paying hundreds of dollars for a two hour session to try-out a provider.

Oh no ! I had such a crush on him when I was in my 20s. What a handsome guy. Rest In Peace

Applying the rules of social equality to anyone's sexual preferences is just stupid.

He's cuckolding you. As part of this fetish he has established that ONLY "masculine" men are WORTHY of ejaculation. He uses men for his pleasure and denies homosexuals the pleasure because they are inferior . This makes a delineation between himself and the homosexual. To make it clear he's NOT a homosexual. By offering you an ejaculation he would also need to admit his homosexuality. Tread lightly. Sounds like an emotional powder keg that could get angry. I've seen this before in deeply closeted men who dabble in same sex encounters but have no ability to acknowledge their sexuality as anything other than straight.

We spent the weekend in a forest in New Jersey. The air was fresh and clean under the canopy of pine trees and cooled with a cold fresh stream. We returned to NYC last night with air quality much improved in the city.

I think there's a lot of that in general when you're dealing with gay men on meet-up sites. I have been ghosted on Grindr by people who spent an hour telling me how hot I was and how they wanted to submit to me and let me have my way with them. Clearly jerking off at home and with NO intention of actually meeting up. That component of gay life seems unavoidable. You just have to dig through the bullshit every time you go shopping. Think of it like one of those discount stores where you have to sort through endless rubbish until you find a shirt you like

Back when I was in my 20s and incredibly promiscuous I would hit the "VD Clinic" ( as we called it back then) on a biweekly basis. If you've had a run of bad luck then I'd suggest getting tested regularly instead of waiting until you have symptoms .