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Most definitely. Not only is San Diego expensive - it's incredibly dull. Leaving NYC to San Diego for an escort makes little to no sense unless they are filling some niche gap in the market that they've discovered. As others have mentioned, a hard-limit of "no kissing" is going to reduce your audience. Other factors (age, body-type & looks) are always limiting factors. Since@socurious doesn't have a profile anywhere so I can't determine what other factors may be limiting his audience, but my guess is that the audience is going to be chopped down to a few guys no matter where they travel.

I own several rental properties. Those with an abundance of single women tenants always need more frequent plumbing maintenence. It's unbelievable the amount of crap that women flush down their toilet.

You don't want oil/creme on your underwear so ALWAYS undress. If the masseur wants to work without nudity he will drape you with a towel. I've never been to any spa with a male masseur that asked me to leave my underwear on.

To me...doing the math. I would say it's Dallas and San Diego that have the saturated markets. NOT NYC. There's a bigger gay/bi community in New York than those other two cities and the tourism is FAR more busy so by comparison 300 is a minimal number to serve the huge tourist industry in NYC alone.

Completely. We must go through 20 million plastic food containers a day but its the straws that will end the planet. Nothing makes sense here

Yummy 😋

Until PreP is proven 100% effective for everyone, there IS still a bullet in the revolver. The statistics for the general public are still between 96% and 98% effective. Even in perfect controlled lab results it's 99%. So there's always a small chance you'll be the unlucky guy who gets that bullet....so it IS somewhat reassuring to be under the impression your partner is on PreP as well.

Single use plastic gloves are mandatory in all food service businesses in NYC. You would die if you knew number of gloves a single delicatessen goes through in a days time. Times the number of delis and restaurants in NYC feeding the millions of people who dine out and take out every week. It's billions of gloves tossed in the trash every year.

Madonna was a pretty girl in her 20's. This A.I. photo estimates what she'd look like today if it weren't for all the unfortunate plastic surgery that has rendered he into a plastic blow up doll. It's such a pity because according to this guesstimate, she would have still been a handsome woman in her 60's. Pretty sure her 25 year old boyfriends aren't dating her for her looks anyway.

Yes. I have been researching those. Seems like most are in the Fort Lauderdale area, and the one's I've visited so far are a bit "seedy". ( in my opinion )

Yup. Same here. Nice facility, lovely dining room and good food. He hates the place. This one has a great social director and many people participate. His problem does very much revolve around being uncomfortable around a lot of straight people. Unfortunately, he has no family and all his friends have passed. He made no relationships with younger people outside of a few regular escorts. So now finds himself old and alone. Home health care wasn't an option as his eyesight and hearing are poor.

I am recently dealing with a situation involving an elderly gay friend. One of my long time clients retired and moved to Florida ten years ago. He's now in his 90s' and all of his friends down there have since passed away. He moved into an elder-care facility which is lovely and well run, but he's extremely lonely. He reached out to me a couple months ago, hoping I could give him some advice. I've been back and forth a few times searching for a facility that has other gay men for him to socialize with because he is of that generation who spent so much of their time only hanging around gay bars, and gay friends that he is uncomfortable being around straight people. They show him pictures of their grandchildren and talk about their family as part of their social life. I noticed this makes him feel inferior, no matter how much I keep telling him, that he doesn't need to be the same as everyone else, and he can share the joy without showing pictures he doesn't have. He just can't do it. It's a missed opportunity for him to be happy in a very nice facility, but you can't change a tiger's stripes so late in life. I think perhaps he never planned to live to 90 because there seems to be little planning for who's going to manage his needs and how his social life is going to function. Hopeful, I can find a facility that is more familiar with some Appletinis in the lounge and a piano bar where everyone sings show tunes.

SOLD. Wrap him up.

One of the big mistakes a lot of gay men seem to make is isolating themselves from the real world. Going to gay bars, gay restaurants, gay cruises and only keeping up with their gay friends. Straight people have large family affairs, weddings and children. One of the great joys in life (for me) is seeing those kids grow up. I just attended a wedding last weekend for my niece. Being "Uncle" whether by blood or friendship is certainly a resource for late-in-life love and support when you spend your early years being a supportive "family" member for the younger generation.

I love THIS line in his profile - "ɪ ᴀᴍ ɴᴏᴛ ꜱʜᴀʀɪɴɢ ᴍʏ ʙᴇᴅʀᴏᴏᴍ ᴡɪᴛʜ ᴀɴʏᴏɴᴇ ᴏʀ ᴀɴʏ ᴏᴛʜᴇʀ ꜱᴋᴇᴛᴄʜʏ ʙᴜꜱɪɴᴇꜱꜱ".

I've had terrible massages by certified guys and great massages by guys who aren't. Skill in massage takes instincts and the certification papers don't always signify you've got any.

His stories certainly are. Why don't you hire him and tell us how much is truth and how much is marketing ? 😉

YOU brought up the thugs. I didn't But it's not unreasonable to consider the possibility of thug fetish going bad and you ending up with actual thug-boys robbing you during a meet. I'm well trained with a pistol and martial arts. So doubting that any one is gonna survive an attack on me. Therefore I have no problem saying goodbye quickly to a fake

I didn't say they do. Just saying they're all over the place inside and outside my house. It's standard procedure in NYC these days. If I say more about the issue I would need to wander into politics and I'd get spanked.

Not in the habit of hiring "thugs" nor hooking up in "the hood". So I'm good. I can read the room.

You never shoot to kill for a robbery. That's asking for trouble with the courts. Always aim for the thigh, and immediately call the police after you shoot them. Make sure you have the attack on video so you can claim self defense. Cameras are cheap and easy to use today.

Like I don't have cameras all over the place already. It's NYC, dude.

It's NYC. Anything possible but it's unlikely a gay guy who's sucking dick for a living is carrying a gun in NYC. #1 it's VERY difficult to get a license here...so you need to obtain one illegally. #2 Walking around with an illegal unregistered weapon here, is going to land you in jail for a long time. So unless you're a drug dealer...most people don't risk it

I think everyone is allowed to quote an age that is REALISTIC. Doesn't need to be actual. Just believable. People tend to be shocked when I tell them my real age. So I literally exist in a different reality for others if I don't tell them otherwise.

Most guys who do sex work get off on being worshipped, not "giving". The idea that youre so desireable that somebody will actually PAY you to cum I'm them/on them is a turn on for the provider. I do believe that MASSEURS are more inclined to the "giving" personality than escorts.