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Brideshead Revisited meets Running with Scissors.

Yup. Reality check moment. For Economy you're damn lucky to have a hot breakfast at all. Same like on an airplane. You want champagne, sit up front. You pay economy/ you GET economy.

A very good question. One which I can answer in this way: The typical "open" relationship means that SEX with other people is ok. "Polyamorous" relationships means RELATIONSHIPS with other people is ok. In my own marriage, we are "open" sexually. But have agreed that "dating" other people over steps a boundary. That said....I can tell you from experience that the boundary can be a tipping point in a marriage. As a man who is attracted to men, I have fucked my brains out with other men but rarely have had romantic connections with one. However my wife, who lived as a lesbian for several years before we married, is more inclined to meet up with emotional support partners rather than go on sexual hook ups like I do. Her outside companionship (to me) does feel like she over steps my comfort zone. So THAT needs a LOT of emotional reassurances at home to make me feel "secure". You might think it's the wife who is going to be getting jealous first. But all I'm doing is getting my dick wet. And she knows that. She has regular friends who she sees and has a deeper intimate relationship with them. I can only TRUST her when she says that she enjoys the company and the intimacy but that these women would never provide her with the security and comfort of her own marriage, so she doesn't view this as "dating" and these trysts come and go for a few weeks or a month but never long term. There is a lot of TRUST issues in polyamory. I am the one who's more inclined to get jealous, because SHE is the one who's riding closer to that line. She was a lot easier to understand when we both just went to swingers clubs and fucked everything that moved 🥳

Exactly. These are the very people who are working hard to run the sort of tight ship, that provides us with an $ 85 hotel room.

Definitely interested, but he says he can't host at his place. So I didn't follow up. I don't host at mine.

So now mind-reading is being expected of a hotel chain !! JUST ASK is the answer to this question. The whole conversation is blown so far out of proportion it's ridiculous. I've never been denied a late check out when I asked at a member hotel. Simple. And I seriously doubt they keep track of what color my skin is, so they know which answer to give me. 🙄

And all pussies cry "bully" when someone tries to give the straight scoop. Two sides to THAT particular card, my friend, @musclestuduws No one is bullying anyone here. But there are a lot of people who wish Jarrod would cut the crap and find some answers to his multitude of problems. We keep offering simple answers to simple problems and instead they are discarded in favor of more problems, such as bullying, racism and hate speech against him because we just don't like him. ( his recent claim)

Pity that such a handsome young man is advertising as a "party boy". #JUSTsayNO

Which is problematic when you ask OTHER PEOPLE their opinions regarding physical appearance. For example: I don't find MONSIEUR_HUNG to be the least bit attractive. I don't know if I would fuck him if he paid ME ! That's how little I am attracted to the fellow. Rainer, I would definitely do, but I also wouldn't describe his look as "classically handsome". Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and you're never going to find twenty people to agree on who's handsome. The other problem in NYC is that this is a very international crossroads. So you get people from all over the world..and you're always going to find a very broad range of types of men advertising on Rent.men. It seems to me that what sells in middle America (All-American White boy with muscle and a fat cock) isn't necessarily what sells in multi-cultural New York. Same when you ask about "classically handsome" ...which has a broader range of Hollywood Hunks who fall into that category. I don't really see them passing through here much. Maybe there isn't much of a demand.

No..it's just difficult to get some people to hear the advice they're given. Tough love.

Everyone is going to find different things to be sexy. "Classically handsome" therefore will also mean different things to different people. None of the above suggestions looked "classically handsome" to me. Not to say some weren't sexy in their own way. To my memory, the classic handsome Hollywood Hunk is not a look you find on Rent.men very often, while in NYC. You occasionally see a traveler pass through with a Hollywood smile.

I would also question how you managed. His English is limited so without a command of the Spanish language (I assume) ..it's tough communication. Did you speak Spanish with him ?

Exactly. Book a MOTEL not a HOTEL.

You just did. 🤨 " I did call prior to checkout time but the phone just rang off the hook" Jared, your lack of self awareness is frightening sometimes. You complain constantly about things that are fucked up because you're not doing it right...not because other people are fucked up. You need to pay more attention to how normal people behave and follow that model.

Obviously people have sex. But do so during the normal hours that people spend in bed. Motels on the other hand are more accustomed to people using the rooms in the middle of the day to hook up. You are complaining about a hotel's business model instead of using the appropriate venue to fuck your clients who want mid-day hangs.

Again with the martyrdom...🙄 What you seem to be missing here is that even if you're a "Diamond Member" you still need to REQUEST a late check out. You can't just sit your ass in the room after normal.check out and tell the maids to fuck off. They need to be scheduled

Hotels are designed as places to sleep, not entertain men cheating on their wife. (That's what MOTELS are for.) 🤣

Just can't discuss the Ivy League's pro Hamas stance here without delving straight into politics.... These types of subjects should presented as QUESTIONS requiring dialog, not supported with overly simplistic answers.

Different Era. Today, many Universities teach WHAT to think, not HOW to think.

🙄Here we go again..... News flash: white people also suffer consequences for breaking rules. I know thst must be shocking to you. But it's true. 11:00 am checkout means you're supposed to leave your room by 11:00 am so they can clean the room for the next person. No matter what color the person is they find in the room...the response is the same. GET OUT. We need to clean that room.

You seem to be an adult who cluelessly entered a vocational program without understanding what you were getting into. So ...YES. By entering a vocational program in high school you've declared you're NOT going to college...because a vocational program doesn't provide the academics necessary to pass your college entrance exams. Sorry but your parents really didn't explain much of anything to you. That's sad. But as I said...water under the bridge. Lots of peope have alcoholic losers for parents. They seek out other people for advice because they know they can't rely on their parents. I think you missed the boat on that one.

More East Man spa advertising.

Eyes open here. But this isn't the place to discuss that. Just saying I don't let a difference of opinions get in the way of my social life.

I don't think that's it. He's just a little "not there".

No she didn't. This was a spoof. Part of a joke. Like most of her humor it wasn't all that funny. Just mildly ironic.