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Not "straight" here...but this is how it is for me and my wife. We are both bisexual and have an understanding that extra curricular same-sex activity allows us to satisfy our diverse sexual interests but engaging in outside heterosexual activity would feel like "cheating". I realize this sounds a little fucked up, and maybe the logic is difficult to understand but we BOTH feel strongly about the matter. And we both (to the best of my knowledge) have always respected that agreement since we married 20 years ago.

I am honestly baffled that this is confusing to people. Especially gay men. How is it that so few people here understand that lots of straight men dabble in homosexual activity ? Or is it that you guys are still believing that old trope, "once you suck a dick you're gay" ? To @Gilfson 's point...yes technically bisexual. But there are millions of men who are functionally bisexual, but ONLY identify as straight. So obviously THAT is who @Fridolf is talking about. I remember when I was in Istanbul. Loads of really handsome young macho guys out at night, cuddling with their ( obviously ) gay friend. I was intrigued by the whole scene and surprised there were SO many handsome "gay" men in Istanbul. I was staying at a bed & breakfast owned by a young and very "hip" couple...and I brought up the subject during a chat with them about the diversity of the city. They smiled and said "AH...that !" They went on to explain that in their culture it is very important for men to marry a virgin. But that this has become a problem in modern Istanbul, because many women are wanting to attend college and even start a career before marriage. This presents a problem for all the young ( horny ) men. So it is common for those handsome macho men to take-on a gay male companion, for whom they offer protection from harassment in exchange for sex. The fascinating thing is that the effeminate guy is "gay" and being harassed for it, while the macho guy is "straight" because he is masculine, defensive of his companion and sexually dominant. I think this was the most obvious example of the sub culture of straight men engaging in frequent homosexual activity, that I've run across in my travels. The social construct is that dominant men are straight, and passive men are gay.

Would be interesting to hear from some providers who do actually understand the issue of "straight men' hiring.

THIS has been MY understanding of the world for the last 30 years. Ive known many, many men who identify as "straight" because they are only romantically interested in women. That hasn't prevented them from having sex with men and some approached me for sex because (they said) I wasn't "gay" therefore (I assume) that made their sexual advances less gay ? So I think what @Gilfson is struggling to understand is that: although a man who has sex with men is effectively not 100% straight, his IDENTITY may likely be based on his romantic/relationship status, not his sex life. That may seem illogical but Ive run across this MANY times in my life...as a matter if fact I might even venture to say I think as common as there are 100% gay men. So..YES identity is more important than activity to many people. Thus the high percentage of men who are "straight" and hiring men for sex. (Not romance).

For this little shop...no. Definitely not "software". When you walk in (when there's not a line) the gentleman who owns the shop or one of his sons, looks you straight in the eye, smiles with a look of joyful recognition and recites your order before you've even fully approach the counter. Never looking at a computer screen. Always eye contact. The overall effect makes you feel like you're a family member...not just another customer. Needless to say, they have been wildly successful in the community. Wonderful business strategy and yes...incredibly baffling to remember that many people and that many orders. But they all do.

It seems that everyone has their favorites. When I go to this place, I go for something in particular. I am sure if I ate there EVERY day, then I would have more variety in my order. As far as coffee.. THAT is always a repeat order for most people.

The questions are so overly simplistic that I cant imagine anyone being surprised by the result. Do you have sex with men? Do you prefer sex with men? Do you think of men when you j.o. ? Do you lose your hard-on when you think about a woman ? IF YOU ANSWERED YES TO ALL OF THESE YOU'RE GAY. I mean....*duh*. 🙄

*yummy* Pix are NOT familar. (At least not as an NYC provider)

They've been serving the community this way for more than ten years. Long before computers took facial recognition to a new level.

There is a small family owned coffee shop and lunch place near my house. The owner and his two handsome sons all possess a memory for people's orders that seems beyond the normal realm of the human brain. If its breakfast, they know my order, if I walk in at lunch they know THAT order ..as I stand there waiting they systematically tell every person who walks in the door their order before they say it themselves. Its like watching a magic show !! Not to mention, the place is always busy and therefore I am talking about 100's of orders every day. They never cease to amaze me. I always wonder what the secret is.

I bought mine there many moons ago. I recall the salesperson was very professional and informative. Took me in a dressing room and suggested I pullout my (hard) cock so he could judge my anatomy and suggest the best variety for me. I used to attend a lot of sex parties when I was younger. Being that I am a "grow-er" not a show-er, the piece they custom made for me allowed me to spend the evening properly "fluffed'. Worked very well. I doubt after all these years, the staff is the same, but it was definitley THE place to go for all sorts of sex aids and leather accessories, back in the 90s and early 2000s.

It would be nice if NONE of these people were hanging around the toilet at Penn Station...but I suppose tossing out the gays who are paying drug addicts for a b.j. is a way of cutting the problem off at it's source of cash.

Exactly ! "I ordered the Caesar salad and there were pieces of smelly fish on it .... disgusting !" I read reviews sometimes that makes the reviewer sound insane. ( or just really stupid ).

Well...I've used both the toilet at Penn Station and the Toilet at Bloomindgales. Both have evidence of heavy cruising going on. The toilet at Penn Station has too many mentally ill drug addicts wandering around with their dicks out trying to lure someone into sex for cash. Bloomingdales has stalls with full-height louvered doors that would be mostly be private should someone choose to get it on. I am guessing many of the romantic memories people are sharing here, are also about smaller, more private situations. Not a giant stinking room full of drug addicts.