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I have most of the items discussed here in one form or another

I find vac pump useful only for photos, as a fluffer of sorts...

E-stim can be manageable if you get it all right for your body - I started by using a prescribed post-surgical healing aid (sticky pads only) and bought attachments and adapters, then upgraded to Eros-tek box which was way better sensation Best for me is bipolar buttplug with vertical contacts- it fucks you all by itself. Pads or rings along with an e-sound can also be great. That said, it’s not a regular part of play for me.

I do love my extreme insertables - my collection is large (XL...) and diverse in size, shape and material. I have brought some with me when hiring - sometimes they remain in the backpack, other times they get a better workout than I can do solo. God bless SquarePeg and Mr Hankey... along with the men who can drive me mad with them!

U-Spa bidet toilet seat = life changing for anyone who likes any sort of rear action.

I can wash and rinse all my bizness (one can mount it reverse cowgirl for dickwash) if I’ve already showered, but...

Even knowing I’m sparkling clean, I would neither expect nor ask a masseur for that. I have had it happen organically during a full service session, as a reciprocal offering. Props to those whose puckered charms are irresistible!

Better than average skills w bodywork. Really nice setup and service, limits massage to 60m. Look for threads in Deli section to get a bit more info on interaction. Higher rate services here:

https://rent.men/Parkermatson

Worth. It.

Whether paying for a high-end star or newbie, it’s the definition of investing locally. Do they need the money more than I do at the moment that I’m hungry for ... a snack? Probably.

I’m a fan of cleaning out as much as possible- it helps immensely with your confidence in relaxing the muscles

Not here to peddle but this has no taste/fragrance and safe on mucous membranes

My Trader Joe’s always has it and cheaper

Great anywhere you need clean/neutral skin

https://www.amazon.com/Trader-Joes-Nourish-All-in-one-facial-Cleanser/dp/B009DSXT80

At a spa, masseurs are employees that have to follow the house rules - allowing the client to touch may be a violation. If you are in the mood for MT and/or HE, try to find an independent contractor through any of the sites mentioned in these forum threads. I like spas - I usually get really good bodywork, and enjoy sauna steam, etc. I never go expecting to touch the masseur, or having him give me a HE. I hire that service separately. It’s a terrific fantasy that spa amenities and services will include touch and release - some posts on the forum read like letters to Penthouse. Sure, it might happen, but I think the odds are not in the client’s favor.

If you’re thinking of hiring a pro to help you open up, you should already be adept with larger toys. Experimenting on your own will be the most informative- the default setting of the muscles involved is “closed” and if you warm up and go slow, there’s every chance you’re back to normal in hours. (That said, save ‘going commando’ for a different day...?)

I haven’t added RentMasseur membership, but on Rent.Men app when you go to dashboard and turn your visibility to Off, it resets to On before you’ve finished “window shopping”.

Remember, they make bulk of income from pro membership “sponsors” every month. The system may be designed to maximize escorts’ ability to pursue every lead. I haven’t found any of the contacts they’ve made (after I looked at their profile/gallery/map) to be aggressive or annoying.

I cannot speak to ? fun at any BW

But at SO Spa, Josh gave an excellent, thorough deep tissue session (80m), is friendly and easy on the eyes... though mine were cIosed mostly. I was there early May and there were some renovations going on, which may be over with. I will request him next time I go for sure.

https://erotic-hypno.com/

I believe he had a RM profile, which I noticed when he traveled west to CA a couple years ago...

Can’t seem to locate that but his own site still valid. I am getting very... sleepy... Maybe someone has tried him?

I had heard that sexy daddy Adam Russo

https://rent.men/adamrusso

was pursuing legit acting

Saw him this evening on premiere of Netflix series “Special” as a physical therapist.

Credits not on IMDB yet

But he was up to par, in a funny, new and unusual story (with some of the most realistic gay sex I’ve seen depicted) Adam’s character not in that scene.

Good luck Adam!

Sometimes that fabulous steak dinner costs more because the meat is perfect...

and sometimes it’s just due to higher overhead. ?

Either way it may result in more evenings at home, re-warming my own sausage. ;-)

Yes yes yes. It’s definitely hotter than spotting a hired guy girling out over yarn with his mother at Michael’s (yup that happened).

If you’re still lookin, I think you should check out Parker located in Van Nuys

https://rent.men/ParkerMatson

His massage set-up is great, bodywork skills WAY above most, and spa-like service (do spas even send an attendant to wrap you in a warm towel after showering?) His RM ad will tell the rest.

He’s warm and kind too. PM if any Q’s

Looking in LA area for escort who is like (non-hirable) porn actor Adam Killian

https://g.co/kgs/Buk5ak

Dark, Beefy/ thick, hairy, (more man than boy)

Fun and hungry, a total show off

Any pro’s out there I should be aware of?

Interested only in recs based on exp as I can find several who match the physical look - it’s the fun/dirty attitude and engagement in person to go with the ...real estate

Thx

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/5356/

Erik (in Weho) very good masseur - I like deep pressure and he accommodated a couple limitations I have, and though he offers full service, I have found his solid technique and excellent HE to be really satisfying. More attractive in person, very sweet nature.

Fun game! In LA there are lots of men available (pret-a-porte!) with perfect parts... Its humor and intellect in short supply, both of which are BIG turn-on's to me - so if one splurges on the delicacies not within easy reach...

A three-way with John Krasinski and Stephen Colbert

I have been attracted to older men always - but as it's relative, eventually "older men" are just old - lol, ( I say this as An Old, myself) I am never drawn to boys, but that doesn't mean I might not consider hiring a lad below 30 sometime. I think it is a bit overwhelming when scrolling thru all the ads (LA environs) - that sometimes our preconceived ideas for "filtering and sorting" can prevent us from imagining the whole person as opposed to a collection of stats and buzzwords that meet criteria we imagine will yield The Orgasm to End All Orgasms... We all hire because we yearn for physical contact with a type of man that is different from the man/men who are interested in having sex with us for a free drink. I love the variety on display - I don't hire often, and when I am looking to set a meet-up, the only "no go's" are behavioral ( pnp / unsafe) rather than physical. Rarely disappointed.

Anybody have experience with Ron?

https://rentmasseur.com/ArabianMassuer

For well-balanced combo of massage and erotic play I would not hesitate to go with Parker. Nice sized dick, and in general he's fun and kind. He likes ass - give his some attention (its delish) and he'll repay the favor. If you have not been for a proper ride on a rimchair, Parker will show you exactly why it SHOULD be America's Favorite Passtime

Let me know if I should stock up on floss to remove all the hair that will stick between my teeth.lol

When I first spotted him I'm afraid I pinned a LOT of hope on him - that with that look he could be the Adam Killian type I've been look for! But type alone is not enough. And a huge element of the Killian type's success is in the voracious hunger as a partner. Sounds as though Max is not nearly so hungry to please...

My first recollection of Nob Hill Theater goes back to 1978,

the "straight"kid from Ohio. Stumbled on it while touring th city, and, granted...the rush is not the same, but I still stop in if in the Bay Area for the nod to its role as preparing me to come out. Not only I had never seen a naked man in person that close before, I had never been cruised! Plus it was the first time to see gay sucking and fucking in motion picture form and this kid from Ohio learned a whole lot that day. Once VHS in every home was the norm, I imagine the whole game changed - before that if you wanted to come watching a movie you went to places like the Nob. You got the added bonus of live performers - the arcade section is more recent. Great memories from nearly 40 yrs!

Perhaps look into

https://rent.men/ParkerMatson

He is a geek about ass. Really into it. Energetic fuckng top. Has topped me with large toys (wow) and has sensitivity to be trusted to go further if and when I am ready. Has a presence on a ff hookup site (asspig) if that's of any use.

Re Gordon Grant - I had a college roommate who was out before I was and I used to borrow his In Touch and Mandate magazines for ...inspiration... and an ad for a Colt film featured GG, and I was obsessed. A Prod'n still showed a scene on a houseboat where he and his partner were fucking face to face, which I had not seen before and I still sort of link him to my preference for that position. Thanks, Gordo!!