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Hmmm...I like this sortakindaSuperBecket, he sounds like the kind of super hero we could use in any city, not just the Big D. Seriously, where can you find someone who can go swishing through the sky, refilling mimosas, reigning down condoms and lube, and foiling the EVIL PLANS by any sorta anti-Escort mafia? Plus, I'd be my pleasure to help you pick a crime-fighting outfit. I'm thinkinking chartreuse full body spandex, mauve cape, black boots (with a Marco Rubio heel), and a big SKSB on your chest ( for sortakindaSuperBecket). We could beckon you with a big pink triangle flashed upon the dark skies of a city in peril. Sigh....I'm already overcome with my crush for SKSB! Oh, and we could ask @Mikegaite to be your sidekick! He would be the eye-candy distracting evil-doers while SKSB douses them with KY!

Hallelujah!

Id be happy ever after with #10 (isnt #9 the same guy?). and the legs on #20.....woof

Could not agree more, Mr Miniver!!! Imagine someone throwing around their heterosexuality on my face while in an office setting! How dare they! Gasp!

I have a critical, urgent, pivotal question for you, BVB... How do I get one of those animated emoticons?!!

SOAP BOX ALERT - TR is about to dump out a lot of random thoughts @bigvalboy, great post above, buddy. I think you are hitting on a couple of points that connect: when you face bias or any "isms," point it out diplomatically, sit back, remain cool, don't escalate, and let them squirm. I think this is easier to do when you belong to the same group - i.e. racial group. My assumption is that you and your lawyer neighbors are the same race? If so, naming their behavior and laughing it off is somewhat easier (it still take balls though - so kudos there!). Even if you weren't, you have a certain thing in common (maybe being neighbors?) that gives you the ground to call it out. With that said, what I hear in @hunterlee 's post is "cumulative impact" - the emotional weight that builds after the sum of being the recipient of bigotry, racism, discrimination, and/or even subtle bias. It begins to weigh so heavily on the recipient that simply laughing it off actually adds more negative impact - you can't laugh something that is slowly but surely eroding your own identity. To me, posting about it in a safe environment - actually venting your feelings - is a good way for the carrier of cumulative impact to begin to deal with the weight. Sh!t, I'm doing that as I write! So how does this connect to being hit on by younger folks? Methinks this situation can also can have a cumulative impact - you may start thinking people your own age or older don't see you as worthy prospect. That could lead to negative feelings and so on. What do I take from all this? Every action has an impact, and being introspective is helpful, yet you also need a peer group (even if anonymous) to fully deal with impact.

To quote our ever funny @sincitymix ... "Hsssss..... =^..^="

Hey sexy...you sure looking muy guapo today....puurrrrrrrrr

Lol...good ones. Here are some others: "We are having a holiday party in appreciation of your services, bring your wife" "I'd be happy to bring my BF, would that work?" "My wife and the family, had a great weekend, what did you do?" "My pups and I went to the beach with a guy I met on airplane ride from Miami" @MrMiniver , I very much respect your choices. Nothing wrong with your approach. Different folks, different strokes.

I interned and worked in a bank since I was 18 and moved to a consulting firm in my mid 20s. Both industries would be considered difficult to be "out" in. Although I'm not flamboyant, I do not hide my orientation..I speak about it very casually and openly. Things have changed dramatically (in my opinion) within Corporate America. Folks don't even bat an eye anymore when I casually bring myself out. I consult with global companies where the war for top talent is so tough, folks are having to adjust to diversity of all kinds. I'm by no means saying it is nirvana, but it has gotten a lot easier to be a professional who is gay. Btw, I'm also always on the lookout to help any "professional" gay man. I enjoy flamboyant types, I embrace them and although I might find their fixation on sex or queerness annoying, that's part of being inclusive. I like and enjoy the full lgbtq spectrum and expression. I'm particularly supportive of "femme" types in Corp America. I mentor or sponsor at least one LGBT professional every year, and my goal is not to turn them into being less gay, but more proud and integrated professionals (without mainstreaming) while focusing on the strengths & talent they bring to our business. Very rewarding. Back to the OP and my 2 cents: I'm a millennial (by a hair) and I hit on older men all the time. Yes, an older handsome man is very attractive to me, but I'm typically drawn to the life experience, my partner was 10 years older. There is just a certain je ne sais quoi about mature men (given he is mentally, emotionally, and physically mature). I've been dismissed by wonderful older men bc their bias against my age. Kinda unfortunate.

Hell yes....Christmas is here! This is my kind of dilemma...what nip to nip? @Moondance , this batch is just perky enuff without too much surface area. Yummmmmmy

Purrrrrrrr....2&4 have the nip type I like.

Shrinkage in the snow just motivates me more....

Tori Kelly's Funny: It's so easy to lose all the meaning of who you are What is your definition of a true super star? Is it beauty? Is it money? Is it power? Is it fame? Are you in it for the glory? What's the purpose? What's the gain? Everything you ever wanted got you tied up in chains Be careful how you play the game 'Cause the same ones that chose you are the same ones that own you, Same thing that built you is the same thing that kills you Same ones that praise you are the same ones that hate you Funny how it all goes around. If you lose your soul, you'll lose it all If you're at the top then brace for the fall Surrounded by faces, no one to call

Lol...you made me break out into Nicki's Va Va Voom ~~if you go it, you got it You got that boom, boom~~

Boston Miles was "meh" for me. Andy, if you lean in his direction, PM me.

Thank you for stating this so eloquently, MoonD. My sentiments exactly..I'm intrigued and curious, and would want to explore it under the right circumstances and (sterile) environment. I'm also now more informed thanks to @whipped guy, [uSER=9945]@funguy[/uSER], and @Lance_Navarro. Love learning new stuff! Thanks, you guys.

I'm all for exploration and learning. To me, it is not so much the act but how it is introduced to me and the environment and circumstances. For example, don't come to me with sounding ideas on my first meeting (unless I requested it). That will just send me running! If I've gotten to know a particular courtesan ( I don't use term lightly, bc to me, courtesan means an expert in all aspects of sensuality and companionship), I would be open to learning about it if the environment is conducive and the circumstances are right. Btw, that's a mighty big rod, Mr. Navarro.

Now, that's a gofundme page worth bitching about.

My spidey sense tells me #60 needs my help! Super Rimmer to the rescue!

I need a cold shower

While contruction has started on one of the three farms that have already been approved for the area, it's unlikely this forth one will get the go-ahead.

Well, MD...you are a master curator indeed!! Much appreciated! I think I may consider growing some facial hair and experiment?

...wake up on a Sunday morning wondering what they will eat for brunch; they are brunch.

Don't poke your eye out, Glennnn!