MmM

He's got a stalker. Be wary of giving out his personal info/contact to strangers. 

Once in a while I get a straight guy fetish itch. And this guy satisfies it nicely. Don't expect a full-on gay man to gay man experience, and he'll deliver. Handsome , muscular, hung, and pleasant. Cool dude. 

Hot man!

Money is the great equalizer. Clients compensate as much as they feel they need to to keep the provider answering their phones when the client calls. So trying to convince people how to tip is futile. 

Sadly, doesn't kiss, doesn't do anal. Not much to offer. 

Ok. I'm done with this topic. I need a massage now with extra fries please...😉

What about the business owner of the spa who has to shoulder all the expenses and upkeep  of the facility? Doesn't he get a tip , too? (Just being facetious and playing devil's advocate)

8 minutes ago, newdad said:

Providers reject clients because of looks when they see them in person?! That sounds like they're looking for a Grindr match whilst getting paid, and not really escorting. I guess people nowadays just want to have their cake and eat it too.

You're assuming they're looking for a hot client. They could just be screening for unkempt, unhygienic clients.  

That's not the typical male spas. Lol. 

That's Ginormous!!

Unfortunately, some people feel entitled; that because they are paying, the provider does not have the right to say no to the client because of how they look. I understand it sucks to be rejected this way, but wouldn't you wanna know before you actually meet and have an awful encounter, and save time and money? Now, if your concern is discretion, then that's a valid reason. 

18 minutes ago, newdad said:

I guess, there are different philosophies to go by, and each person/client has to operate on what they're comfortable with. I totally understand clients who would want to ensure proper service, so they tip the masseur.

On the other hand, I can also understand that there are clients who expect a good massage irrespective of the tip as long as the asked rate was met. And should the masseur provide a mediocre massage due to lack of tips, these clients will be happy to take their business elsewhere.

There's no right or wrong along as everything is done respectfully. They're just different philosophies.

Agree. Do what works for you. 

1 hour ago, Hyattsville said:

So earlier today I asked my favorite self employed masseur the percentage of people who tip him. He claims 98% (and yes, he told me he keeps track of each client and how much they tip or don't). He also sent me a link to a blog for helpful information. No idea how old this is, but it was definitely interesting... 

ADVICE FOR A GOOD EXPERIENCE

BEFOREYOUCOME.BLOGSPOT.COM

 

This is clearly a lopsided blog. 

Also, a lot of these "masseurs" aren't even real masseurs. They are escorts in the guise of a masseur, so what am I tipping for? Their escorting capacity? 

12 minutes ago, Bokomaru said:

@MmM and others who tip at a spa but not for a private masseur… serious question, not trying to attack you or be a hater. I agree each person can do what works for them.
 

My question: Does this mean you would never tip a provider for escort services when it’s an in call? After all, they are self employed as well.
 

In my mind a tip means “thanks, that was good,” full stop. I don’t really understand the rationale of not tipping based on where the service happens. Not that your approach is wrong of course, since tipping is optional anyway. 

A masseur who has a private business out of their place has gone to more trouble than a spa employee: setting up a website or online booking service, dedicating a space in their home to the activity, having a table, having to deal with the dirty towels, etc. Sure, they don’t have to give a cut to the house but that’s because they went to some extra effort. Don’t they deserve a tip if the experience itself was good, just like a spa employee? 


 

It's because the workers at a spa get 1/3 of what you pay. They deserve at least the going rate for providing a good massage. If more is provided , then I tip accordingly. In the end I pay close to what I would pay a private masseur for a service well executed. It's not my concern what their business model is; my concern is whether I'm paying equitably for the service I get. Some private masseurs charge 300 for their masseur service; would that still demand a tip? The market rate for a good massage is 120-150 for 60 min. For me, anything else above that would be a 'tip' based on what else transpires. A 200 fee for a massage is a $150 rate and a built in $50 tip because of the expectations beyond the massage (including eye candy). Again, my 2 cents. Take it or leave it. 

He's handsome. He's muscular. Hard body. He delivers. His personality is a bit off though, for me. Perhaps it was just our chemistry. 

FunNicolasNY is one of the nicest providers out there. If he can charge 500 for his time then more power to him. If he asks for your pic and you don't want to send it, just say so. No power struggle needed. In the words of Mary J Blige: "No more drama"!

I tip generously at spas, but I won't tip a private masseur. I may round up for conveniece let's say from a 180 to 200, but not a tip when they are already charging more than a typical massage rate. I pay 120 for a 60 min massage to a masseur that comes to my place for a legitimate and excellent massage. For a mediocre massage with MT/HE, 200 should be sufficient. Most of the time these are rub and tugs guised as a massage from an untrained masseur. Now, If it goes into full escorting territory, then I go up accordingly.
For the haters: That's just me and you do what you feel comfortable with. 

4 hours ago, Mssg4blkcpl said:

Are vova and v different ppl?

Yes

Toniazzo is true vers. 

Vova hasn't been on the schedule for a while.

31 minutes ago, SlcArt19 said:

Any experiences with Cody or Vova? Feel free to PM me!

17 hours ago, Fahayek said:

MmM, is his cock as beautiful in person?

11 hours ago, Saabster said:

Actually you do need to be logged into RM, but don't have to be a premium member. Yikes, that's huge!!

https://rent.men/CroatiaBigXX

17 hours ago, Fahayek said:

MmM, is his cock as beautiful in person?

It is long but not as thick as I expected from the pics, which was perfect for me.

On 12/16/2023 at 12:54 AM, pubic_assistance said:

Stunning.

Someone needs to take one for the team.

I am tempted but will be busy for the holidays until January.

It's now February. 😉

Was so enticed by those pics that I went for it. Happy I did! He is straight and doesn't kiss, but everything else was very fun. Didn't have any problems staying duro. Pics are his. He accidentally gave me a free load in the beginning while getting serviced. 🤩. He bounced right back in no time and was satisfyingly active for the rest of the time.