Yeahman

That’s a great point! I will be cautious for the benefit of both parties.

Absolutely not. There’s a reason he chooses another name. Please don’t invade his privacy

I met one guy a few years ago and through google search I found his real name on social media platforms. Should I tell him the next time I meet him? Will it have negative impact? I truly don’t know.

Got to meet Michaworld and I would definitely recommend him. You can PM me for more details but had great energy, lead muscled bod, and was an all around good guy to have an afternoon session with.

Got to meet Michaworld and I would definitely recommend him. You can PM me for more details but had great energy, lead muscled bod, and was an all around good guy to have an afternoon session with.

I agree, it is kinda hard to get a guy to cum by sucking only. I think it depends on the age of the oral top guy and how long it's been since he has busted last time. It also depends the oral bottom guy's skill. I find the guy at pornhub named bellatrixxxy has great sucking skills, it's probably hard to not to cum if sucked by this guy.

I used a separate account @Studsearcher as I thought it best when I started as a ‘modelizer’.
 
Overall, my results were good. Some guys said No, but quite a few guys accepted my invitation to dinner and some were happy to date. There were only 3 guys I was very keen to date who “got away” in that we couldn’t agree on when/where/what they wanted. I never encountered any real problems, but I did put a lot of effort into being very polite and generous early on in the meetings

Yes. Extensive experience. And a good success rate. As mentioned in my posts #3, #27 and #41 in this thread.
 
My gratuitous advice:
Be very polite in your DMs,
Emphasise that you will be discreet about any meetings, and
Be generous in what you offer.

I talk to my doctor about Everything. He even knows I use providers. After someone sees your anal warts, there aren’t many secrets. And yes, he is gay. If you are not comfortable talking about your inner most secrets with your doctor, no matter how great you think he/she is, you need a new doctor.

Thanks. Do you or your friend have experiences getting it from the County level Health Department in Maryland?

@Yeahman talk to a Dr you trust about it!

Thank you for taking the time to detail your regimen. It's very helpful for new comers and give us an idea on what options we have in moderating the regimen.
 
As for your concern about my liver (or kidney), I am still pretty healthy, and I think the doctors will do some basic lab work to make sure I'm Okay to take PrEP med. I definitely want to get protected before my next encounter to have peace of mind. But it'll have to be after the pandemic is under control.

Do you have some Variable Interest in him?
 
If not, you should tell him: "Leave me a loan."

a break occurred in the previous post when i replied to your questions - here they are again (hopefully without the break):
(1) So my guess is that when you are certain you won't be sexually active for a while, you will pause on the daily regimen, and switch to the 2-1-1 method?
 
i remain sexually active whether i am taking a daily dose of truvada (PrEP) or using the 2-1-1 method (aside from the covid-19 quarantine anomaly). i go off PrEP & switch to 2-1-1 when my work schedule is dense/hectic. my sexual behaviors adjust in response to the natural limitations of working 12-15 hr days 6 days a week. i have fewer partners, shorter experiences, don't use apps, i focus on men i know & the type of sex shifts to mostly bjs, rimming, jerk-offs, heavy petting, humping, make-outs all in quick heated bursts on a lunch break, at the gym, heading home after work, etc. there is less fucking & i stop bottoming b/c i do not have the time for preparation & penetration on the days i work. i communicate openly about 2-1-1, PrEP, my status, my intos and my time constraints.
 
below is an example of how i use 2-1-1:
if i am dating someone during a busy work phase, off PrEP & we agree to chill at my place on a friday night, i will take 2 truvada when we confirm our plans on friday afternoon & simultaneously set an alert on my phone for 24 & 48hrs dose reminders knowing it will most likely turn into a sleepover. if one of us cancels or we don't bareback i will either not take the remaining pills (no big deal) or stick to the 24 hour schedule and plan for fun on saturday/sunday. a lot can go down from a saturday afternoon until a monday morning.
 
on 2-1-1 it is recommended to take the double dose a minimum of 2 hours before sex, but ideally 24 hours before sex. after many lengthy discussions with my doctor about the reasoning & flexibly of the 2-24 hour pill-before-sex window we both feel very comfortable when i dose 6 to 18 hrs before sex. i integrated the 2-1-1 regimen years ago & it has been a very successful option for me during exceptionally busy times. it can also lead to getting back on the daily pill (PrEP) or being on truvada for 6 days or 10 days etc.
 
so i am still engaged sexually in a variety of ways without being on PrEP and the rigid time restrictions of my schedule support the break in medication without much risk. i also don't feel like i am a slave to PrEP. i have less anxiety if i am late taking a pill, miss a day or 2 days even or stop for a week and start again. i have a deeper understanding of how the medication works and works in my body. i feel more in control.
 
note: my doctor does NOT recommend barebacking on PrEP or 2-1-1. he recommends always using condoms with PrEP or 2-1-1 as the best protection against sti. my doc is gay and provides care primarily to the lgbt community.
 
(2) Did you have strong reaction to truvada when you first started on it? I have never taken any PrEP, so I'd like to know if I take it for 2-1-1, will it mess up my planned encounter.
 
nope. i did not experience any issues when i first started truvada or thereafter, however it was via a 28 day treatment of PEP prescribed under a completely different set of circumstances and with isentress. i remember feeling quite nervous about the possibility of a bad reaction to both meds, but i had little time to think before i took my first pill & larger distractions.
 
unfortunately, you won't know how or if it effects you until you try it. i have some concerns over your first dose of truvada being a double dose. will you have the benefit of bloodwork first to confirm your liver can handle 2-1-1?
 
(3) I read about people having horrible reactions to PEP. What was your experience?
 
luckily i experienced no side-effects from the 28 day combination of truvada & isentress.
 
i appreciate your openness and willingness to ask questions about sexual health; please let me know if you have anymore.

If you only have about 1 or 2 sexual encounters a year and they are sufficiently planned ahead of time you could start taking PrEP 7 days prior. I've read that after that period you can be 100% sure you have adequate amount of medicine in your system to protect you.
 
I myself have always been on the 2-1-1 regimen but I would get bad side-effects (gastric destress, nausea, headaches, lethargy, fatigue, groginess). So much so my PrEP doctor recommended me to take it daily for a few weeks to see if I would adjust. It was a horrible three weeks as the side effects got worse until one day suddenly I didn't have any side effects anymore.
 
I eventually switched back to 2-1-1 since I just wasn't very sexually active. I started PrEP late 2018 as Truvada and mid-2019 my doctor switched me to generic.

I usually say something along the lines of "Sorry but I don't think we are a good match." It doesn't directly put the perceived blame on them. I'm not into Trans guys in a similar (yet opposite?) way that I'm not into cross dressers/drag queens/transsexuals. I don't find women attractive so why would I want a guy in women's clothes or a Trans man with a pussy? I support them for who they are, who they've become and all that, but I'm not sexually interested in them.

That's my understanding. But I read that Truvada's patent will expire soon, and then it'll become generic, but may still need prescription.

Very true @Penn7. I always found it motivating to work out with a handsome trainer, especially if they were half-naked and willing to do more
 

 
I can’t speak to the current time @Bryan Dube…but my guess is that some do more.
 
Certainly in 2008-2015 I knew plenty of male models who also worked as trainers. Most were gay-friendly. Many responded well to a discreet and polite enquiry about further work/services: I used to ask if they would do ‘training at home’. I’m open about being gay so I’d say ‘I’m single right now so I’d enjoy your company‘.
 
Male models are used to getting attention from gay men, so I got to know quite a few models rather well in those years.

I am very interested about this too, because I see a lot of super well known models who have thousands maybe hundreds of thousands of followers, and I’m just wondering are they really making ends meet in nyc just by offering “personal training”?

Are his comments on his page or specific to you? He may be sounding you out looking for an offer...

Instagram does not pay posters directly, they are paid direct endorsement deals. On YouTube they make their money when viewers watch the commercials attached to their videos, in addition to commercial endorsements.
 
When I see photos like the ones above, especially when the guy is alone, I have always assumed there is some super rich old guy behind it.
 
I’m more curious about the guys with 20-100k followers (more likely to be in my price range haha) who fly out with a couple other guys to meet a photographer and his assistant for a day of shooting.
 
I guess I can see where the model is getting unique content, a short trip and free prints out of it, but what the heck are these photographers doing with all those photos?

As for these travel things it wouldn't surprise me to find out that there are gay older men with more money that God who just do this for multiple attractive young men just taking a shot that one of them will put out(or feel he has to). Think Bryan Singer pool party but more consensual. You couldn't fuck 50 guys in one night, but if you invite 50 hot guys over and throw some money at them, odds are almost 100% that at least one of them will want to play hoping for more...

They get endorsements and are also paid by Instagram/ YouTube when they have a large following and get a large number of likes. Many influencers have their own camera people and market themselves as a brand.

For those of you that are prescribed the daily Truvada, I've discussed with my physician remaining on the prescription schedule, even when I take breaks. This way I can build a little of my own inventory of Truvada in case there's a time the co-pays end and I cannot afford the prescription.

That's my understanding. But I read that Truvada's patent will expire soon, and then it'll become generic, but may still need prescription.