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There are times that I have seen someone check off the choice "versatile/bottom". But I always figure they mean "I am a pure bottom unless you put a gun to my head - literally."

Just Topped a client today ?

Well, I reached out to the Russian model of the pix in BillyTop’s ad, and the model responded soon and told me he isn’t the guy behind the advertisement . He said all pictures except the dick pic are of him. And the Russian model says he doesn’t do this kind of stuff and asked me to report the fake pix.

Elder Anderson at missionaryboys (formerly mormonboyz)
 
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The ones I know of personally were ones I met at bars in NYC when hustler bars were in full swing. One stood out in particular. He had the most engaging innocence and a blond man-boy perfection in his physical appearance. He was in hard times, living on his "trade." In those years escort rates were nowhere near what they are today. While I never engaged him professionally, I enjoyed chatting with him when he wasn't busy. At a later date I saw him again at that same bar. I almost didn't recognize him. He was dressed to the nines and shared with me that he had been taken in by a man of means who had established a substantial independent financial account for him with no strings. I was impressed that he seemed genuinely devoted to his mentor and exuded a glow of inner happiness. On a humorous note, I recall, after he left, the bartender remarked that he was a lousy tipper. I presumed his frugal tipping to be a holdover from his lean times, and that he had no intention of squandering his newfound financial independence.

Overnights come in more flavors than Baskin Robbins, a lot more. There are many threads about them in the forum where you can find some answers, but the bottom line is “communication, communication, communication“. Only you and your escort can set the terms.

I had a massage with him. He knows how to massage. Those are not his pics but he is very hot with a similar look...slimmer but nice body and very sexy. He did keep is briefs on but allowed me to explore everywhere. Nice ending to a great massage.

I wouldn’t necessarily take no response as not a good sign. Ya may just need to nudge him a bit and show that you’re real and actually serious.
 
A lot of times we get fake requests for weekend trips or overnights from a lot of different sources. Or people think they’re interested in overnight but change their mind when they hear the cost.
 
So for sanity’s sake, we (or at least I) just ignore a lot of these messages.
But last year I DID end up having an overnight / extended trip that DID initially read like one of the fake messages. It wasn’t until we had some actual conversation that I realized he was real and actually serious.
 
And it was a good time!

I just left BillyTop’s apartment. I will sum up the experience succinctly: DC hasn’t had a good young resident top in years. Now it has one.

Well I guess different strokes float our boats ? I need a complete visual to get aroused, and MY focus is often from the waist down, legs being a BIG component.... I guess I feel that for HIS rate, more is expected ?

I'm a legs man and those don't work for me.... Especially at THAT rate, which is usually standard for the pornstar of the moment. .

He's real (at least the guy in the OPs link is). We hooked up off Grindr when I was in DC last week.
 
He looks like his pics.

Yep. Just rub his lamp!

Saw his ad for a longtime when he used multiple names like Roderick & RoderickThicktop, but I never took the plunge.

Your guy should give some sort of reply. If not, it doesn’t sound like he’s interested.

You could take the initiative and simply tell him what your overnight rate is and go from there. If that doesn’t elicit a response, then it’s definitely time to move on.

Yes, I was directing that at you @big-n-tall
 
I’m just saying that it is possible to misread someone “playing coy” with actual, genuine uncertainty about how to handle a situation like the one stated by the OP. You’re obviously free to move on if you feel like it is a game, I wouldn’t blame you. But just from reading posts from certain people handling experiences with newer talent (@Keith30309 comes to my mind), I would suspect that you’ll miss out on some gems if you “assume the worst.”

I have flown escorts to Vegas and elsewhere. I come up with a ball park for airfare and agree on a rate for his time. Once we come to agreement we confirm the date and I send him airfare. Its his job to make reservations and confirm. This gets me out of the BS of his real name for reservations. It also gives him to option to pocket the cash and use his frequent miles to travel -- it none of my business which he does. Plus is a little too much micro management for me to buy the ticket directly. Once we meet up - the transaction for his time is handled in the usual manner.
 
Obviously i only do this with known providers. I guess I've done this 10 times in last 5 years - not been burned yet.

If he's making it tough to get paid, he's doing it entirely wrong. Sorry you're dealing with that.
 
You could speak plainly and say 'without first settling on a rate, I don't feel comfortable moving forward.'

Considering you're going to get a wide variety of answers here from non-escorts, why not just discuss this with the guy you're considering seeing?
 
Skip the middleman and have a conversation with the escort. It's the best way to start things off.

I am not interested in trans myself. But I am curious about how they come about. For example, the following guy. He or she has really sexy hairy legs. Was his gender at birth male or female?
 
https://rent.men/arikoyoteFTM
 

to be honest, I doubt you’d have any luck (even with a financial incentive) as many youngsters from that age bracket these days, from my own experience with attempting to “network”, seems to disdain lucrative offers of this nature.
 
 
But you only live once !
 
However, I don’t recommend you trying this at your local chipotle as it could likely tarnish your reputation if not received well by the fella...

When I was a young buck working retail I had nice young ladies and lecherous old men hitting on me all the time. I was too young, stupid and naive to pick up the signals.

It’s difficult in the context and setting you’ve mentioned. In CA an employee can claim sexual harassment against a customer, and he’d have your email. You don’t really have any way for any give and take conversation, unless you can chat him up outside, on his break?
 
These situations are often fun to pursue. Waiters, bartenders, valets, bellboys, I’ve had my mixed results. Proceed with caution.

I encounter young super novas all the time, but I’m generally afraid to make the move. Just the other day, my sister was visiting and we were walking through the neighborhood when a 10 for beauty walked by. We made eye contact; his were beautiful. Had I been alone, I’d have ventured a backward glance to espy what I’m sure was a gorgeous ass.