Wolfer

I know, right?? I had been eyeing his Rentmen ad for a while, but Amsterdam is quite far for me to travel. Also, I hadn't found his PlanetRomeo ad yet so all I knew was that he was Vers/top. And then yesterday evening I saw him pop up on the Antwerp Rentmen grid I got all giddy with excitement. Until I found his Planetromeo ad.
 

I've seen a number of guys clarify it somewhat in their ads here. They say that they're versatile but just more of a top.
 

That's interesting, I've never heard that there are many interpretations. I've only ever seen it being interpreted as a vers guy that gravitates towards topping. Affection and oral I've always seen seperately defined (in escorts ads).
 
That escort from the '90s makes me think about people that don't eat meat but still chicken and fish and still call themselves vegetarian. It's like: you're not a vegetarian if you're still eating fish or chicken! That just adds to the confusion! It's thanks to people like them I get offered fish or chicken at gatherings when I let people know I'm a vegetarian. (Well, I've since gone vegan so people just back away in fear now.)
If you're a vers top you should take it up the butt! Up the butt! Up. The. Butt. (Disclaimer: everyone has the right to define their own sexual preferences and the way they communicate these. I'm just lightly joking here.)
 
Sorry, I'm still in mourning that I didn't get to rail Dimitri. :D
 
I saw that Kurtis Wolfe changed his ad from top only to Vers/top, maybe I should ask him? And then Rafael Lords (this made me sad) has switched to TOP ONLY in his ad. :(:( Although in his ad text he says to go ahead and ask about what you like to do because he "is very versatile". I'm CONFUSED.
I just want to put things (i.e. my dick) up a hot guy's butt.
(Oh and this last paragraph is just me being silly. Although I was confused by Rafael Lord's ad.)

i think hes saying his ass is open for business

Ah, okay, yeah. But 7" is still big! I feel like porn and our obsession with big dicks (in general) has really skewed with our perceptions. Both my hands on top of one another measure 7.5", so that's how I do my checking when I'm with a guy. I wrap my two hands around it and then see if it sticks out or not.
 

Oh, yeah, they're fake. Saw that on the first look. 

He doesn't kiss, he told me through text. He also lists Greek, doesn't he? He lives in Amsterdam so it'd be possible he speaks Dutch. Dutch is my first language but I communicated in English with him.

https://rentmen.eu/DimitriFitXL
 
He fucks like a king! I love the brazen boldness of it. For some reason it's endearing to me.
 
On his PlanetRomeo profile he has this:
"ORDER ME NOW THE BEST SEX EVER IN YOUR LIFE STOP LOOKING FOR OTHER ESCORTS CALL ME"
 
I just love that it's all in caps.
 
He was in Antwerp last night and he lists on his Rentmen that he's "Vers/top" so I texted him, asking him if he would bottom, but I never got a response.
 
Then today I see that on his Planetromeo that he lists himself as "Top only". So I guess that's why he didn't get back to me about me asking if he'd bottom.
 
A bit odd though that he advertises his bubble butt in his profile when he doesn't bottom. (Like in he says he has the best bubble butt in the world). But I see a lot of inconsistensies like that in ads, to be honest. Like listing as a top but then saying in the ad text that they're very versatile...

I used to call my husband "little whorefucker" endearingly. But he didn't like it.
 
We're divorced now.
 
Joking aside (although I did call my ex-husband that on occasion as a joke), I really don't like nicknames for my partners and don't like it when they have one for me. I always call them by their name. I acknowledge this is somewhat different than the norm. Except "babe", I like that one, IF used sparingly.

I would think he’s letting you know he is available to bottom or it’s a bait and switch scenario. In that maybe he's implying that he would or does, but won’t once you’re in his company.
 
I would try to confirm for sure that he would bottom. If he won’t give you a direct answer, I say move on.

I know, right?? I had been eyeing his Rentmen ad for a while, but Amsterdam is quite far for me to travel. Also, I hadn't found his PlanetRomeo ad yet so all I knew was that he was Vers/top. And then yesterday evening I saw him pop up on the Antwerp Rentmen grid I got all giddy with excitement. Until I found his Planetromeo ad.
 

I've seen a number of guys clarify it somewhat in their ads here. They say that they're versatile but just more of a top.
 

That's interesting, I've never heard that there are many interpretations. I've only ever seen it being interpreted as a vers guy that gravitates towards topping. Affection and oral I've always seen seperately defined (in escorts ads).
 
That escort from the '90s makes me think about people that don't eat meat but still chicken and fish and still call themselves vegetarian. It's like: you're not a vegetarian if you're still eating fish or chicken! That just adds to the confusion! It's thanks to people like them I get offered fish or chicken at gatherings when I let people know I'm a vegetarian. (Well, I've since gone vegan so people just back away in fear now.)
If you're a vers top you should take it up the butt! Up the butt! Up. The. Butt. (Disclaimer: everyone has the right to define their own sexual preferences and the way they communicate these. I'm just lightly joking here.)
 
Sorry, I'm still in mourning that I didn't get to rail Dimitri. :D
 
I saw that Kurtis Wolfe changed his ad from top only to Vers/top, maybe I should ask him? And then Rafael Lords (this made me sad) has switched to TOP ONLY in his ad. :(:( Although in his ad text he says to go ahead and ask about what you like to do because he "is very versatile". I'm CONFUSED.
I just want to put things (i.e. my dick) up a hot guy's butt.
(Oh and this last paragraph is just me being silly. Although I was confused by Rafael Lord's ad.)

@Wolfer, what I do, in order
1. Check if his ad lists what you want to do.
2. Check if there is any weird text in his ad that makes him unattractive to you, not just the pics and stats
3. Check if he has any daddy reviews.
4. Check if he has any discussion thread on M4M forums
If the above is not conclusive,
5. Do a google search on his phone number. This should return only links to his own ads. If it returns ads to other people, big red flag.
6. Do an image search on google for the pictures in his ad. This often will return his other social media accounts, like Instagram, as escorts often use a picture for multiple purposes. Check that the current location of the guy on Instagram matches the current location of the guy on rentmen etc. If name, language of posts, location, doesn’t match, big red flag.
If no red flag came up, it is time to communicate.
7. Write a text explaining where you saw his ad, who you are, when you think of hiring him, and add to that any non-explicit questions. This can be done all in one text, I don’t need to keep going back and forth. As long the basics are agreed, like kissing, top/bottom, we can discuss the details in person when we meet.
8. Make a judgement based on the sanity and completeness of the answers (I am not dealing with answers I don’t understand).
9. Confirm the place, time and price.
 
Sometimes, you will be the first to report, therefore it feels like taking the plunge. But what is life without risks?

That's awesome that you schedule a phone call. I've never dared to ask for fear of coming across as a time waster. There's been more and more escort profiles where I live that in very clear terms say to not waste their time (like endless chats) or they will just block you or stop responding. I was recently talking to an escort about this and he confirmed that a LOT of his chats go nowhere and some people just seem to keep on asking questions without actually wanting to hire.
 
So that sorta makes me wanna be as sparse in my communication as possible but then that may lead to me not communicating enough perhaps about what I expect. I'm still figuring out how much to communicate and in what way.

I know, right?? I had been eyeing his Rentmen ad for a while, but Amsterdam is quite far for me to travel. Also, I hadn't found his PlanetRomeo ad yet so all I knew was that he was Vers/top. And then yesterday evening I saw him pop up on the Antwerp Rentmen grid I got all giddy with excitement. Until I found his Planetromeo ad.
 

I've seen a number of guys clarify it somewhat in their ads here. They say that they're versatile but just more of a top.
 

That's interesting, I've never heard that there are many interpretations. I've only ever seen it being interpreted as a vers guy that gravitates towards topping. Affection and oral I've always seen seperately defined (in escorts ads).
 
That escort from the '90s makes me think about people that don't eat meat but still chicken and fish and still call themselves vegetarian. It's like: you're not a vegetarian if you're still eating fish or chicken! That just adds to the confusion! It's thanks to people like them I get offered fish or chicken at gatherings when I let people know I'm a vegetarian. (Well, I've since gone vegan so people just back away in fear now.)
If you're a vers top you should take it up the butt! Up the butt! Up. The. Butt. (Disclaimer: everyone has the right to define their own sexual preferences and the way they communicate these. I'm just lightly joking here.)
 
Sorry, I'm still in mourning that I didn't get to rail Dimitri. :D
 
I saw that Kurtis Wolfe changed his ad from top only to Vers/top, maybe I should ask him? And then Rafael Lords (this made me sad) has switched to TOP ONLY in his ad. :(:( Although in his ad text he says to go ahead and ask about what you like to do because he "is very versatile". I'm CONFUSED.
I just want to put things (i.e. my dick) up a hot guy's butt.
(Oh and this last paragraph is just me being silly. Although I was confused by Rafael Lord's ad.)

I know, right?? I had been eyeing his Rentmen ad for a while, but Amsterdam is quite far for me to travel. Also, I hadn't found his PlanetRomeo ad yet so all I knew was that he was Vers/top. And then yesterday evening I saw him pop up on the Antwerp Rentmen grid I got all giddy with excitement. Until I found his Planetromeo ad.
 

I've seen a number of guys clarify it somewhat in their ads here. They say that they're versatile but just more of a top.
 

That's interesting, I've never heard that there are many interpretations. I've only ever seen it being interpreted as a vers guy that gravitates towards topping. Affection and oral I've always seen seperately defined (in escorts ads).
 
That escort from the '90s makes me think about people that don't eat meat but still chicken and fish and still call themselves vegetarian. It's like: you're not a vegetarian if you're still eating fish or chicken! That just adds to the confusion! It's thanks to people like them I get offered fish or chicken at gatherings when I let people know I'm a vegetarian. (Well, I've since gone vegan so people just back away in fear now.)
If you're a vers top you should take it up the butt! Up the butt! Up. The. Butt. (Disclaimer: everyone has the right to define their own sexual preferences and the way they communicate these. I'm just lightly joking here.)
 
Sorry, I'm still in mourning that I didn't get to rail Dimitri. :D
 
I saw that Kurtis Wolfe changed his ad from top only to Vers/top, maybe I should ask him? And then Rafael Lords (this made me sad) has switched to TOP ONLY in his ad. :(:( Although in his ad text he says to go ahead and ask about what you like to do because he "is very versatile". I'm CONFUSED.
I just want to put things (i.e. my dick) up a hot guy's butt.
(Oh and this last paragraph is just me being silly. Although I was confused by Rafael Lord's ad.)

My intro usually is something like:
 
"I am a dominant top. In my first meeting I usually like a vanilla boyfriend experience.
Do you like kissing?
Do you enjoy bottoming?
Can you make me believe you are into me?
What is the fee for your time?
Where is your place and do you live by yourself?
Are you available at.....?"

Quite often the guys thank me for my focused questions. I do not think we need a lot of talking, chemistry may always surprise you face to face, in a good or in a bad way.

https://rentmen.eu/DimitriFitXL
 
He fucks like a king! I love the brazen boldness of it. For some reason it's endearing to me.
 
On his PlanetRomeo profile he has this:
"ORDER ME NOW THE BEST SEX EVER IN YOUR LIFE STOP LOOKING FOR OTHER ESCORTS CALL ME"
 
I just love that it's all in caps.
 
He was in Antwerp last night and he lists on his Rentmen that he's "Vers/top" so I texted him, asking him if he would bottom, but I never got a response.
 
Then today I see that on his Planetromeo that he lists himself as "Top only". So I guess that's why he didn't get back to me about me asking if he'd bottom.
 
A bit odd though that he advertises his bubble butt in his profile when he doesn't bottom. (Like in he says he has the best bubble butt in the world). But I see a lot of inconsistensies like that in ads, to be honest. Like listing as a top but then saying in the ad text that they're very versatile...

I hope never! I've ALWAYS been a sucker for the five o'clock shadow and I applaud the trend that facial hair has become mainstream instead of being associated with looking unkempt.
 
I've always had this preference, loooooooong before this whole beard trend became a thing. Although I prefer (longish) scruff instead of full-on beards.

I hope never! I've ALWAYS been a sucker for the five o'clock shadow and I applaud the trend that facial hair has become mainstream instead of being associated with looking unkempt.
 
I've always had this preference, loooooooong before this whole beard trend became a thing. Although I prefer (longish) scruff instead of full-on beards.

My "vetting" process is a little different than others insofar as I rely less heavily on reviews than some people. I tend to rely on instinct, the way a guy communicates, the composition of his profile, and whether the photos appear to be current and consistent. As others have pointed out, when a guy's ad copy mentions that he parties I don't reply. Recently a guy mentioned in his relpy to me that he loved getting sucked when he parties. Assuming that did not mean eating cake and ice cream, I politely ended the conversation.
 
EDIT: clarified that the guy mentioned partying when he replied to me. Had his ad text indicated partying I would have kept looking.

Things I always do (not necessarily in this order):
- Google image and phone number searches
- Look for red flags in their ad. Examples: inconsistency between pics, pics that look like they're stolen from a professional fashion or fitness model, odd things in the text message, bad Rentmen review(s).
- Look for reviews on Daddy's
- Forum Deli search for escort's name
 
Sometimes if I'm on the fence, I'll post a 411 in the deli section.

It’s personal preference and judgement. Mention of hard core drugs, pics that don’t match, weird text in the ad, etc.

I hope never! I've ALWAYS been a sucker for the five o'clock shadow and I applaud the trend that facial hair has become mainstream instead of being associated with looking unkempt.
 
I've always had this preference, loooooooong before this whole beard trend became a thing. Although I prefer (longish) scruff instead of full-on beards.

I hope never! I've ALWAYS been a sucker for the five o'clock shadow and I applaud the trend that facial hair has become mainstream instead of being associated with looking unkempt.
 
I've always had this preference, loooooooong before this whole beard trend became a thing. Although I prefer (longish) scruff instead of full-on beards.

Wow, that's great advice, thanks so much!
 

What would count as red flags for you?

Hey @Wolfer - there are still a sizable number of reviews on Daddy's. You might also try searching for the escort's name in the Deli Forum here. I often scan the escort's ad reviews for client names that look like trusted Forum members. A few times, I've messaged other clients directly asking if they could share more information. For a general question to the Forum, you may have noticed "411" threads asking for feedback about a specific provider. It's best to search first, though, in case someone else already posted the question.
 
Without being too much of a stalker, I use Google reverse image searches to help verify if the escort is real. And it may help to search by phone number to see if anything suspicious pops up, such as multiple escort profiles with the same number.
 
My own common-sense approach uses four criteria: good escort ad with no red flags, some positive feedback on the Forum or Daddy's, the escort responds well when contacted, and my intuition. I need three of those to feel good about meeting a new escort.

I've had luck on both sides of this scenario. Once I successfully contacted one of my visiting regulars for a last minute appointment when I saw that his RM ad listed him as "available now." It was super fun, and he even chided me for being naughty for being so impatient to meet up (we originally had an appointment for the next day).
 
More often than not, though, escorts have either not responded, or declined to meet for last-minute appointments in the evening or late night even when their RM ads say that they're available now. I get that many guys leave that indicator on just for marketing purposes. But I prefer truth in advertising, so I still find it annoying when they act like I'm disturbing them when I've contacted them based on the settings they've enabled on their own ads.

Some of them make me think of the puppets in the old Thunderbirds series.
 
I also think they require a lot of care, upkeep a'd maintenance because of the material the "skin" is made of.

Some of them make me think of the puppets in the old Thunderbirds series.
 
I also think they require a lot of care, upkeep a'd maintenance because of the material the "skin" is made of.