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Victor is amazing. His body is gorgeous and he is very sexy and hot. One of my best experiences.

While both Spunk and Adonis are good and safe places to enjoy strippers, I am slightly more comfortable with Spunk since they have Ipads with timers on them that eliminates any unpleasant incidents about counting the number of songs.  Some dancers have been known to take advantage of unsuspecting patrons about counting.
Then there are occasional dancers at Adonis who can be a little prissy about getting touched. Tim gets the best talent and they are more straight than the Spunk guys. In my experience,  Spunk guys are usually very cool about that aspect. 
Lastly i tend to like the dance floor setup and the music at Spunk. And there is always this Piano bar upstairs if you need a break
When it comes to private nude parties however, there is just Adonis and it rocks. For some reason Luis does not host nude parties.
We in NYC should be grateful for such good options. 

I tried Michael, fairly standard rub with HE. Shangrila is a nice and well kept venue, but grade C performance, can't imagine I'll return unless there's a real hottie practicing.

Try Sam. A very hairy bear. Gives a good massage and is very sensual. 
 
 
https://rentmasseur.com/Samgl

Try Sam. A very hairy bear. Gives a good massage and is very sensual. 
 
 
https://rentmasseur.com/Samgl

I hope a heavy presence of women doesn’t become the norm. I’ve seen before how that can disrupt and alter the vibe of a space initially intended for gay male desires. 

Jordan from brandtboys... yes sign me up!! the way he fucks and the boyish good looks makes his bottoms crave him even more!

Jordan from BrandtsBoys.   Is there anyone sexier?
 

And Public_Assistance is correct, this guy is a scam. Big time-shaver, and leaves you with blue balls. Cute and friendly yes, l and that's it.
 
Avoid!

Am I the only man who is confused by the ONLYFANS craze ?
WHO are all these people who are paying to watch some guy jerk off  or show you his ass ?
Can't you pull up free porn these days ?
 

The massage was $70 and I tipped $70

Naked Sword recently came out with a video "Skin Deep" the first scene with Dalton Riley and Masyn Thorne. I don't know what it is about this scene. These two ooze sex appeal and are hot young studs! I've enjoyed it many times to say the least.

It's really all about the connection. I was with a guy who is now engaged to a woman and was dating her the same time we were together. ( I didn't know that at the time, not that it would have made much of a difference). He never identified as bi considered himself straight. I didn't care as we had an incredible connection filled with passion, lust and sensuality. What we did most "straight" guys wouldn't do and he enjoyed it big time! Probably some of the best sex of my life. It didn't hurt that he was hot AF with the most incredible body!

Always enjoy a good dialogue, @lonely_john ??
 
Apologies for not picking up at the sarcasm - I suppose I’ve gotten too used to some people saying “X” is an example of discrimination when in fact it isn’t at all. But now, I see how you meant it - a sarcastic bit of irony ?
 
 

 
I agree with you in that neither really offer a true representation of gay men - which is kind of the point. I’m 50, so growing up who did I see representing gay men on TV? Paul Lynde, Charles Nelson Reilly, Jonathan Harris - hardly what one would ever describe as examples of masculinity. But who were? Tom Wopat, John Schnieder, David Soul, Tom Sellek, Paul Glaser, etc.. As a result I think many in the 50+ cohort maintain these outdated, and just plain wrong perceptions of who cannd who cannot be deemed “masculine”.
 
This is what I think has skewed so many of our perceptions about gay men - gay men can’t be masculine, only a straight man can really be masculine. That kind of ignorance just annoys me.

I don't know folks ages on the form, but another thing to take into consideration is that Gen Z and Millennials are identifying as LGBTQ or are much more fluid in their sexuality than Gen X and prior. I live in an area 2.5+ hours from any major city. Population here is 45,000. College town, and the enrollment is around 13,000. I can't ever recall finding an escort on any site in the past 20 years in this area. I just turned 50.
 
The last four guys I have had an ongoing sexual relationship with for the past 10-15 years have all been straight, and in their late 20's and early 30's. The reason they seek me out are varied, but are generally multiples of the following:

The girlfriend/wife won't do oral sex
They have split from a girlfriend/wife and are frustrated with the relationship dynamic for male/female, but want some sex
They want to do anal sex, and their partner isn't into it
They work an opposite shift from their partner
They can be a bit more rough or do what they want, without an expectation of what the other person wants
The have kid(s) don't want more, and I'm not able to get pregnant
Since I'm 15-25 years older than them, they don't worry about me bragging to someone they may know about us having sex
They know I'm not looking to date them
It's a convenience - when they are horny, I'm not likely to tell them know, where a spouse/partner might/does

I'm sure there could be a couple of other reasons. But never any kissing, they don't give oral or receive anal, and they don't have to worry about making sure I get off. For one it is also a nice escape from his family. We drink a little from time to time, talk about life and baseball, and other things his now ex-gf would get mad at him for talking about, such as participating in tough-man/MMA competitions.
 
I have started getting some straight/bi college guys ask me about getting together, but I have generally stuck to my regular straight. The younger ones tend to flake about 40% of the time, and they seem a bit more socially awkward to me.
 
So for me the plus is I don't have to pay for the straight guys I see. When I want to hire (maybe once every 5 years or less) it is more for an experience such as kissing and more sexual contact than what I normally get from my couple of regulars.
 
To make a long story short, while it may be for the money for the straight escorts, it may also be about just getting to have sex without expectations that came with sex with someone from another gender.

Damn! I’m well jealous! Mike Buffalari ?

I too like Italiano went to Jake many many moons ago before he was a porn star. I never had a sensual massage before as I had only gone to legit spas so I didn't know what to expect. I remember lying on the table and his hard dick was brushing up against me and I did not know what to do.
(I was young and very inexperienced at the time). Finally he forced it in my hand and total me I could touch and do whatever I wanted to him.
Needless to say I saw him many many times over the years. I loved that he gave a great therapeutic massage and a mind blowing erotic experience.
Over the years he opened up and shared his film experiences with me. The last time I saw him it was a little weird. I think he was totally burned out from it all and maybe just needed the money. Overall I miss him and wish he was still at his peak as I have never found anyone close who has given me such pleasure and I've had A LOT of massages in my life.

I too like Italiano went to Jake many many moons ago before he was a porn star. I never had a sensual massage before as I had only gone to legit spas so I didn't know what to expect. I remember lying on the table and his hard dick was brushing up against me and I did not know what to do.
(I was young and very inexperienced at the time). Finally he forced it in my hand and total me I could touch and do whatever I wanted to him.
Needless to say I saw him many many times over the years. I loved that he gave a great therapeutic massage and a mind blowing erotic experience.
Over the years he opened up and shared his film experiences with me. The last time I saw him it was a little weird. I think he was totally burned out from it all and maybe just needed the money. Overall I miss him and wish he was still at his peak as I have never found anyone close who has given me such pleasure and I've had A LOT of massages in my life.

Mike Buffalari at his peak. What started as an hour went all night of hot sweaty sex!

I too like Italiano went to Jake many many moons ago before he was a porn star. I never had a sensual massage before as I had only gone to legit spas so I didn't know what to expect. I remember lying on the table and his hard dick was brushing up against me and I did not know what to do.
(I was young and very inexperienced at the time). Finally he forced it in my hand and total me I could touch and do whatever I wanted to him.
Needless to say I saw him many many times over the years. I loved that he gave a great therapeutic massage and a mind blowing erotic experience.
Over the years he opened up and shared his film experiences with me. The last time I saw him it was a little weird. I think he was totally burned out from it all and maybe just needed the money. Overall I miss him and wish he was still at his peak as I have never found anyone close who has given me such pleasure and I've had A LOT of massages in my life.

Mike Buffalari at his peak. What started as an hour went all night of hot sweaty sex!

I was on a business trip in Las Vegas many many years ago. I was staying in a very upscale hotel with spa and all. One day I got done really early and made a massage appointment. He was extremely handsome and an even better body. One of the best looking men I have seen in my entire life.
Also, one of the best massages I have received. When I flipped over he had me put a washcloth over my privates. Soon it fell off as I was rock hard. After taking care of me he suggested I shower and go to the jacuzzi, which is what I did. We were the only 2 in the spa as he said it was a slow day.
As I was in a trance in the jacuzzi and I looked up and there he was with a towel on, he pulled it off and joined me. Hotter than hell!

To everyone who has sent positive notes, or even better, made comments on here that are full of common sense and support: THANK YOU.
 
For everyone who has sent a nastygram, or continues to spread misinformation: We all have individual calculations to do about what we feel is safe, and the choices we make will have repercussions beyond ourselves. I hope your selfish and ignorant choices don't seriously harm your friends and family. I hope things work out for the best for you, and those you love.

Bottom line is Big Dale is correct. This is NOT the time to be seeking out massages. As well, wearing masks and washing hands frequently are the two most important things to do when go into public places. The wisest thing is to remain at home and social distance. The greatest spread is currrently caused by mixing of households and private social gatherings. If you need to go to a grocery store, go in buy what is needed go home and stay masked during the shopping, use hand sanitizer after getting in your car and wash your hands again at home. Physician offices are relatively safe so long as you are masked, there is screening occurring by the medical staff, and you again use hand sanitizer after leaving. I am a physician, have worked full time throughout the pandemic, have not become COVID positive and follow these simple rules. Finally, get vaccinated as soon as you are offered the opportunity to do so.

I get that. But even if they advertised guys some may not show up, right? I haven't been to tons of Adonis events but I know it has happened on more than 1 occasion where the guys for buff-whatever (boys or daddy they keep changing their name) and they don't show up. I think Adonis was pretty spot on this time but that may be because the email went out the day of the event which doesn't help those that need to travel if they are waiting on the lineup. For me they were a bit more on the beefy gym pumped side than what I prefer. Jimmy has the perfect body to me where there's muscle and definition but not what I'd consider a bodybuilder.
 
The place was easy to find. I did like that there seemed to be more places available for lap dances at the january one. The "mingling" room was very small but there were not as many people as other locations. I still like the nude lap dances over a bar though.
 
The 2 things that I didn't like is having girls at the check-in. They were very sweet & nice but I dunno, it just throws me off a bit and starts the night a bit uncomfortably for me. And then the music choices were again at time just, truly awful. Yes i know if I'm having a lap dance the last thing I should be thinking about is the music but yup I was. Clearly I'm turning into a grumpy old man.