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I’ve seen these pics before - not on RM tho. Hot gent whoever he is. I’m still baffled as to what these scam accounts get out of it 🤷🏼‍♂️

This!! 🙌🏻 I know there will be hobbyists who will (vehemently) disagree with me, but in the two decades I’ve indulged in this hobby, I’ve had maybe two encounters, both in my early days as a hobbyist, with genuine straight providers that sufficed. They weren’t spectacular, and they weren’t unpleasant - they just sufficed a need at the time. Without getting into the whole discussion of providers who identify as straight or bi when they’re not either for marketing, there are plenty of actual gay providers out there. Again, just my opinion and experience, a gay provider is the one with whom you’re far more likely to have a successful encounter. Sorry to read about your very disappointing experience, @Daniel_D, and I hope your future experiences are far, far more enjoyable. BBD

I just thought “there goes google translate failing with idiomatic expressions again” lol I didn’t even have a notion of any “racist dog whistle” - I figured the skin reference meant sex, perhaps bareback, with “getting dark” meaning kinky, wild, no limits. 🤷🏼‍♂️

I would agree @azdr0710 but after such a review, I’d want some feedback on here, from a trusted hobbyist vs going by a 5-star RM review before I’d engage.

Holy cow is right! That’s one off the list now ❌ I wonder how long until this thread gets the inevitable “bump” asking for “anyone meet with him recently” or similar despite your post 😂

Agreed, the pics show a very hot bloke, who is also very blessed down below 😉 If the fellow in the pics is the one that shows up, I’d be interested as I’ve had some memorable encounters with Colombian men 😊 Is he wearing thigh-highs in one pic? Some sort of garters? 🤨 That’s a new one for me. BBD

Hopefully more than one explosion, and more than one pinprick!! 😜

I share this “thing” with you, mate! Like yourself, and others I had some very friendly conversations with him prior to covid trying to nail down a time with both our schedules. When we finally had a time sorted, along came covid and the world shut down 😤 This is good news as I’m currently on a MP pause pending full vaccination, which means I should be rearing to go this Autumn!

A friend of mine with culinary skills limited to boiling water for pasta, then using that pot after pasta is strained to heat up jarred sauce was given Blue Apron as a gift from his sister last Christmas. He loves it. Had me over for dinner, and it was a pretty tasty salmon dish. I got kick out of watching him be so very careful, with a furrowed brow reading, and re-reading the instructions as he cooked. It was cute.

I’ve given myself a pause from this hobby pending full MP vaccination, so hopefully by end of September it will be all systems go! I haven’t even made up for my monk-like existence during covid yet, now with the MP pause, my wanton ways will definitely need some attention! 😜 Hell for Trev, this bloke, and a few others I’ve noted, I may just plan a trip to Toronto! 😂

I’m with you mate - 23 definitely breaks my lower age limit rule by a number of years, but oh my does he tic my boxes! Also interested in any intel - and any hobbyists planning to engage him, please plant the idea of coming to NYC in his ear! 😉 BBD PS: FWIW, it seems Toronto has a number of hotties advertising that need to come and/or return to NYC 👍🏻

I remember a doctor telling me YEARS ago the same. If I recall correctly, the carb heavy breakfast, (as well as a big, heavy lunch), we’re carry overs from when what we did for work was active, and our bodies needed the fuel. Today, (and for the past 60 or so years), work is mostly sedentary so our bodies don’t need the fuel, and we don’t burn it off. Most days, I start out with a bowl of steel cut oatmeal, sometimes with a handful of blueberries tossed in. Two or three times a week, it will be eggs. When I remember to have lunch, it’s usually a green salad. My doctor would like me to have 4-5 small meals throughout the day, but that doesn’t really work for me 🤷🏼‍♂️ But one perseveres!

Not at all rapey 🙄 ⬆️ Doesn’t sound in any way douchey or dehumanising at all. In fact, it sounds like something Weinstein, or Spacey, or Epstein could have said - “I spent the night spending money, they knew what was expected.”

This gent had me do a bit of a double take - he is the image of one of my roomies from uni days who inspired a naughty thought or two back in those days. Handsome as all get out, hockey jock with a great body, and just an all around sweet, sweet guy. Still is all those things, married to the girl he started dating freshman year, I’m godfather to one of their sons. This provider though - he gives me naughty thoughts of acting out some fantasies from those days! 😜 Buddylisting for post MP vax pause.

I would have cut the provider some slack over not mentioning any type of refund or “do over” while he was sick, including when you both departed as you said he was still under the weather. Food poisoning is not fun, so I can imagine his thoughts were more focused on getting thru/over it vs what to do about the weekend that went, literally, down the crapper. As you say you have a long-standing relationship with this provider, which includes regular off the clock texting - yet if I’m reading this correctly, neither of you have reached out to the other in the 2 weeks since this unfortunate weekend. You’re miffed because he hasn’t offered any sort of apology, offered any refund or do-over. Fair enough. But, for all you know he could be equally miffed you’ve not checked in on him, how he’s feeling, if he’s fully over it. This why I always say the Three C’s are soooo important! Communication, communication, and more communication. I’d reach out to him, ask how his recovery was, express your disappointment in how the weekend turned out, but be clear you understand it wasn’t his fault. See how he responds, and you can determine how best to broach the subject of the refund/do over. I find a bit of cheeky humour often works - something like “looking forward to working off the credit I have now 😜” Friendships can occur between providers, and hobbyists which is why I wish you had reached out earlier. You’re sitting stewing thinking he only cares the money, he may be stewing thinking you only care about the sex. Hopefully what sounded like a mutually enjoyable, and beneficial relationship can be rise from the ashes of that weekend. Good luck! BBD

I cannot imagine getting a massage from a professional masseur wearing latex gloves. I can’t imagine it would be in any way pleasant or relaxing. Just a waste of money IMO. I’d actually be surprised if any masseur or spa would offer “massage with latex gloves”. If you’re looking for a sports or therapeutic massage, (and not a massage with MT, HE, etc.), stick with the well known professional spas. I’d be more inclined to believe the spa’s claims of masseurs being vaccinated vs an independent masseur/provider. If you’re still feeling unsure, dubious about trusting any claims made about being vaccinated, just put this hobby on pause until you are vaccinated. BBD

I thought the same, then wondered if perhaps the name was referencing Mjölnir, his mighty hammer 😉

I believe @Rugger416’s post with details of his encounter has already been removed 🤷🏼‍♂️

In fairness, @robberbaron4u, 50 years ago Buster would have been in his mid to late 60’s. It’s pretty expected, at least then, that the body that made him a movie star would be long gone. This provider is just in his 30’s, so I don’t think it’s a fair comparison. Now, it’s not uncommon to see gents maintaining their physiques into their 50’s, so until someone reports back otherwise, I’d wager this provider has kept himself up physique wise. Just my 2 cents. BBD

I don’t understand these guys - are they really getting such a return on their scams to justify the constant cost of replacing accounts after they’ve been flagged, and deleted? How do they make money anyway? Scamming deposits/payments upfront? 🤷🏼‍♂️

Do you know what he’s changed it to? Also, what is meant by harassment from forum members? Feel free to PM me if you prefer. BBD

Looks like you can only use RM messenger to contact him 🤷🏼‍♂️ As an aside, was I the only one who upon seeing his name “AlexSJ” thought “Jesuit”? 🫣 I suppose that’s what 16 years of Catholic education gets you! 🤣 BBD

Any other NYC hobbyists with a free evening available to amble on down to the Monster and get the 411 on Arthur? 😀