LAdude424

This may be more about legit massage - where no advertising or discussion of "mutual touch"has been discussed - but I thought I'd add to the general direction of the conversation:
 
My standard MO is the be laying face down, have my hands on the side of the table, cupping around the edge. This just feels most natural for me - very gently gripping around the table's edge. Otherwise my hands feel almost unconformable open palms flat down, or palms flat up.
 
I must admit i do this for every massage pretty much, even at full on legit spa/hotel/resort places. And even if my hands are under a drape. You can kinda deduce where the masseur is most of the time, and I may ever so gently adjust my hands here and there if i feel it may position them a bit closer to the masseur's crotch. Then it's up to the masseur to drop some hints. Sometimes it's only 10 minutes in and I'm feeling a throbbing bulge directly on my hand. .OK.. .that's a VERY clear message. I've had massages where it never went any further than that. I feel his cock- through his pants, .,rub it, massage it... but he goes no further.. still i like that connection and intimacy (especially as part of a good massage in the first place - it's a small but very nice extra) I;d actually rather be rubbing his dick here and there while he gives a good massage, and have nothing else. than the sitaution where there is NO intimate touch for 55 minutes, then a very perfunctory hand job at the end. .that feels so disconnected and un-nurturing.
 
Often the crotch-brush-against-the-hand is the first signal form the masseur to hte client that "yes, we can a do a bit more " and most of the time it proceeds to at least a happy ending for me. If the masseur grabs my ass or dick, or whips his dick out, then I feel comfortable reciprocating, and of course backing off if he indicates it's off limits.
 
It's a bit of a dance. .especially at legit places.. he's kinda cautious about crossing a line, and I'm making sure I'm not being a hands perv of a client. But it's a dance I love and I admit, even someitmes contacting a guy on massagem4m or masseurfinder, I WONT have an explicit converstaion because I want to enjoy the testing of boundaries.
 
Every now and them a masseur will deftly take my hand and place it next to my body, AWAY from the edge of the table. I may gradually work my hand out to the side again, and if he puts it back next to my body a second time. I interpret that as OK.. message received. Nothing extra at all.. and that's OK
 
Again, this is for legit places. If a masseur ADVERTISES mutual touch, then i feel you should be comfortable gently and respectfully initiating contact and seeing if it's permitted (some mutual touch MUST be permitted) or if he terminates the contact.
 
I'd be interested in others' input here.

Welcome to the M-F Fred!
You answered all previous concerns in a non-arrogant way, I suspect you will do well.
 
I'll schedule with you in near future.

Thank you gentlemen. Got close. Texted. Wanted pictures of number on back. Lol. Thanks again. I thought it seemed fishy.

Be careful - there are many scams that involve people sending itunes and other gift cards.
I never pay anyone in advance - payment is only exchanged after services rendered.

I had reached out to him .. but glad i skipped .. having a distracting and unpleasant venue really ruins the whole experience.

Looks like a new guy - anyone with any experience to share:
 
https://rentmasseur.com/sergeymasseur
 

This guy/these pics have been on and off RM numerous times over the past 3-4 years or more. Never has reviews to verify. I've never reached out to this profile (or any of the others with these photos) because something about him seems dishonest and "scam-like". Unless you find someone on the forum here who's been with him, I'd steer clear.

I been to him several times, but it was maybe 2 years ago. I found his massage GREAT.. big strong guy manhandling my back, legs and butt in the best way.
We always ended up getting playful.

https://rentmasseur.com/Miguel_Andres
 
Just saw this guy, recently moved here from San Francisco.
 
Guys you should try him out, his pics are totally accurate, super nice guy, clean apartment and a good although not great massage, but certainly no rushing and a very hot experience

Looks like he has this ad as well:
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/38506/

Had a couple great massages with him. Maybe 2+ years ago or more. Excellent therapeutic. Nothing more for me.

I feel he may have been discussed before. . under a different name? Anyone:
https://rentmasseur.com/HealingPleasures
 

Saw him years and years ago. Over 6 or 7 yrs? Dont remeber much. he looks like his pix. or. he did then. i went back several times so he had me returning. but. my expectations were much more tame back then.

Any info? I haven't seen him before:
 
https://rent.men/Marklbrt
 

he also has a rentmen ad:
https://rent.men/SpunkPup

Any info? I haven't seen him before:
 
https://rent.men/Marklbrt
 

He used to be an Adonis Lounge stripper.
 
Good: He's tall, handsome and has an awesome body. Friendly. He's in high demand.
Not so good: Feminine demeanor, limited massage skills, he is open to "extras" but they are quite expensive.
 
I wouldn't repeat.

EDIT: I didn't read your post before commenting. My suggestions might not meet your preference.
 
https://rentmen.eu/MichaelM - Very personable and insanely good looking. He has movie star looks and a cute cat. He lists himself as vers, but he's really a bottom.
 
https://rentmen.eu/JustJustin - Very nice, and has a fun personality, on top of a sexy accent. He really knows how to build chemistry beforehand and make the session steamy. Again, he lists himself as vers but he's more of a bottom. As for the pictures, yes, they're accurate. That's him. Just note the height and weight. The pics make him seem like an adonis, but he's actually smaller in person. I also don't like the language in the profile because it makes him sound like a jerk, when he's a sweet person.
 
https://rentmen.eu/Fitness/#platinum - I would recommend him if you're looking for a specific experience. He is a dominant top and likes to be in charge. However, he reciprocates and will start the session with a hot make-out session, then make you perform oral before dominating you. If that sounds agreeable to you, then look no further. The pics are real and his body is amazing.
 
Finally, I don't like to stereotype or base things on anecdotal experiences, but remember that this is Los Angeles. LA is known for having a disproportionately high number of bottoms. If you see someone listed as "vers," they could be primarily a bottom. They'll top you, but it might not be smooth. It's not really an LA problem. This happens elsewhere. But I felt like LA in particular had a strange deficit in tops.

I just sent him a message and if we can work things out I will be seeing him and will report.

Anyone in LA with experience. The Rentmassuer ad only lists therapeutic.
 
https://rentmasseur.com/Dionisiomasseur
 

Anyone with experience to share?
 
https://rentmen.eu/QuincyBucks
 

Anyone with experience to share?
 
https://rentmen.eu/QuincyBucks
 

Did not know that. Thanks for the tip.
 
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As most of you guys know, I’ve gotten HE for quite a few guys (from LA) in these apps (PM for list)... just thought I would share this code, zeel is giving $40 off! Good time to try it if you haven’t.
 
Use the code 3sgu for $40.00 off.
 
Also- always looking for new guys in zeel/soothe if anyone has new recommendations in LA.