biggerbilly

@Gar1eth had a similar problem.

 

Offer more money and they might do it.

I don’t support this in anyway.

Good point yet you would be amazed how many white supremacist leaders are closeted cranky gay men with an interest for a big black cock. That’s no joke!

No I wouldn't. I had an weird experience on Grindr. A guy hits me up who is not my type. Very out of shape, not very attractive. Not to brag, but I'm in decent shape and not the worst looking man on earth.

I tell him that I'm not interested in the nicest way I can. He replies, "you're rejecting, but you're a fucking nigger and I'm giving you the chance to be with a white guy!" Then blocks me.

I honestly found the experience hilarious. If a lack of pigments is the best thing you have to offer, you have nothing to offer.

He's coming to NYC. Still nobody with a report?

He's travel schedule is very hectic:eek:

Yeah, when I click on the link, I get, “The item you requested is not available in the US store.” Which Long Island are you located, lol.

Also download the app GDaddy.....lots of Long Island guys. Most want a sugar daddy but some are open to occasional no strings play.

Never heard of that app. Just search the App Store an couldn’t find it. Now I went to there twitter but the link is not working. I’m guessing that it’s only available for Androids

10-15 years ago there were about a dozen gay bars scattered on Long Island. At least half were in Nassau County and on a Fri and Sat night they were packed. Then law enforcement started cracking down on drunk driving and guys started heading into the city using the LIRR. Slowly the bars started closing up. Today we have 3....1 in Nassau and 2 in Suffolk but they are finding it difficult to stay afloat. Not to mention that the bar scene in the city was so much more versatile than on Long island.

As far as escorting on Long Island is concerned there are many escorts listed under NYC that are actually living out here but find it easier to work in the city than here for a variety of reasons. One dancer at Adonis from Long island told me that he preferred coming into NYC by LIRR and taking subway to a client's apt rather than driving all over Long island for an appt. And after he had his choice of bars to go to rather than be stuck with maybe 1 out here.

I have talked to a few escorts willing to come out here if I paid for an UBER and I will not do that. I do not haggle with their rate but Uber is a no. First off I am only free mostly Sat eves and with traffic an Uber can take 90 mins or more when the LIRR is only 35 mins to me from midtown. The escort is making a nice hourly rate. If I told an employer that they had to Uber me to and from my job I would be on unemployment.

Thanks @LIguy !!! I figured that there had to be guys who live out here, but only advertise in the city. I wonder why they don’t put LI as a travel location in RentMen, but your explanation covers it.

no politics here, man!!......let's not have this good thread sent over to the depths of the Politics forum quagmire.....thank you!

Wow, thanks for quoting me so it looks like I started this. Just explaining why people feel the way they do.

I've never seen a republican gay get on a forum and denounce and would not hire a liberal yet I have seen too many to count liberal gays that say they would never hire or date anyone that does not have liberal views. I'm independent for the most part. My my... For the party of "inclusion" what a bunch of"non" inclusives. Tsk tsk. Hypocrisy at it's finest!

I'm surprised you're surprised. You have a party that tried to put a constitution amendment against gay marriage, and for some reason gay people don't want to support them?

What's next? A black person not doing business with a open member of the KKK. I thought you wanted equal rights?

I know outside of Fire Island, Long Island is not the most progressive part of New York. But things seem to be getting worst, and I like to know why. Growing up here, Nassua County was always a complete wasteland, but I knew there were a few gay bars in Suffolk. And remember there being a lot more ads before I started hiring. Now there's nothing. It also seems that even Fire Island is slowing down. I'm surprised how little ads are there during Pride month.

What happened?

I am not saying that you are stupid. But, this is a classic example, of what is wrong with this country. Everything gets blown out of proportion. Yes, Trump, and every other politicians, on this green earth. Have, said, done, and associated with people, that I question. But, I don't condemn, everyone, that does support that person. That is stupid! When u start condemning a class of people, just because they may agree with some view points. Then u are not any better than someone that condemns a person, because of race, sexual orientation, etc. U have a right to disagree, but, to condemn everyone, that happens to agree with certain aspects. Is just wrong. Personally, I think what is wrong with this country, is exactly this, we all run to our own corner, and say, you are stupid. And by the way, it just shows how Petty you are, to point out a grammar error. Sometimes, autocorrect, things get changed and you don't realize it.

I would hire a Republican who voted for Bush or Romney. Not someone who voted for a man who said they were good people among white supremacist, and continues to support that person.

Anyone know anyone based in Nassau County? While eye candy never hurts, I’m looking for someone who can give a proper massage. My new exercise routine is leaving me very sore, and looking for someone close.

I really hope you read what your writing! What I stated was, you you wouldn't hire someone that supported Trump. That's stupid. Just because you support Trump, does not mean you're everything that he is or is not, or what he does or does not do. Come on man

I’m sorry but I wouldn’t hire a Trump supporter either. I don’t care what you’re reason for supporting him is. You either someone who support his ignorant views, or someone who is willing to ignore those views for your personal gains. Either way I want nothing to do with you.

I rarely jackhammer or pound excessively hard. That crap wears me out. Lol!

 

Seriously though, for the tops who ultimately bottomed for me... we always start slow. I think many like I’m willing to be patient and teach them/train their asses over time. It definitely fosters a sense of trust and builds a very strong bond. So when they’re ready to go harder/faster it feels amazing not only on a physical level but an emotion level as well.

 

But I’m getting somewhat off topic. Back to our regularly scheduled programming.

Just to stay off topic a little more, I do start of slow, to build the same levels of trust. I’m not going to start ramming a guy at stage one, or even two.

The problem was we never move past stage one. I was very patient with him so that he was able to get use to me. He never truly did though. Probably because he was not really a bottom. Again, I got what I paid for. A TOP to bottom.

Agreed. That's why you ask and verify. If you're on the larger side and/or enjoy jackhammering, it's prudent to let your potential partner know. Assuming he can or can not take you is a bad assumption. Ask to be sure.

 

A regular of mine actually told me he considered not seeing me again after our first meeting because I was the largest guy he encountered. However, our chemistry is so amazing he didn't x me off his list. Anyway, that's when I learned when I meet someone who might not typically bottom to make sure if he'll be ok with a larger dick, not that I'm hung like a horse.

Jackhammering is not a most for me, though very fun. What is a must is a bottom that enjoys bottoming. I agree too ask and make things clear. But, I also believe that if things are already made clear in their profiles, there’s no need go much farther.

Hindsight is also 20/20. At the time, I thought I had asked all I needed too. I was not aware that I was as hung as I was. And he’s responses were not very hesitant. We both learn to be a lot clearer. As I said, he updated his profile soon after. I’ve been a lot more upfront since, but sometimes you don’t realize things that you should until it’s too late.

Another thing you may want to keep in mind is that old saying, “you get what you pay for.” If you hire a guy to bottom for you that doesn’t normally do so, you maybe spending money on an inexperienced bottom.

I hired a verse/top once who said he was willing to bottom for me, and he indeed did so. But he was obviously not use to it. And being on the larger side of things myself, didn’t help matters. I give him a good review, because he did do what he promised, and tried his best. But, I definitely regret hiring him more and more. I spent money to go extra slow, for a so-so time, when I could have hired someone like say @Russ again, and have fun going at it like crazy. Worst yet, the guy updates his profile to make sure the same thing never happened again. You can probably find the whole story here in real time if you look back on here.

If you want to take the chance and ask, fine. But, make sure you keep in mind what you’re spending your money on.

Yes you shouldn't pass good things up

Couldn’t that be said for the versatile guy advertising as a top? How many clients is he missing out on to cater to the straight obsessed crowd? Why is it my job to play a guessing game when you can just be clear straight out? Why is bad thing to take an ad at face value? Sorry, but if you say you’re a top, you’re a top.

At least you’re being honest in your ads @MikeSinz, you’re versatile and open to all

I’m a complete top, and it’s frustrating when looking to hire because I find that most escorts advertise as tops or verstops, and in my head I think it won’t work because the chemistry will be off and they may not be able to bottom for me when it happens (I’m on the hung side).

 

Recently I had a conversation with an escort who told me he advertises as a top because it feeds more into the fantasy of a lot of clients that he’s straight or more masc - but that he loves to bottom and was totally game.

 

My question is, am I missing out on great encounters with great guys because I don’t even bother messaging people who list themselves as tops or verstops? Or was this guy an anomaly?

I’m a total top too. I don’t view it as missing out at all. I don’t want to play the guessing game anymore. If you advertise as a top or top/verse, I’m going to believe you’re are one. And hire someone who advertises as versatile, bttm/verse, or bttm. You advertise for the customers you want.

I’m sure there are a lot of guys that are versatile than they claim. But I’m not a mind reader. I can only go by the information you give me.

Plus, as a top myself, I don’t like it when another top hits me up on grindr or scruff, looking for me to bottom for them. I’d be a hypocrite if I did that to someone else.

I messaged him last week and he replied, fortunately I didn't take the plunge. I found the Twitter account of the guy in the pics and yeah they belong to a Brazilian porn star. To add insult to injury, all the videos I can find are of him bottoming. Crime to let a big tool like that go to waste!

If it helps, we tops go through the same thing. There have been some amazing butts that have been way out of reach. Paul Pratt comes to mind.

I got a response from admin. They wrote, "Due to new regulations we need to revise the entire site."

If I were them, I'd go back to the url http://planetjockboys.com/, as https://www.jockboyescorts.com/ is too on the nose.

rentboy.pro's score system would actually make more sense with that site, come to think of it.

He hasn't been associated with them for some time.

And I obviously haven’t visited their site in the same amount of time

Has Planet Jockboys gone by the wayside at last? The URL listed on here is now down.

 

Gman

Maybe @VictorPowers knows, the last time I checked he was associated with them.

“Fuck no!”

Rentmen starts by showing you "premium" Gold Members from closest to you to farthest. Then starts with non-premium members from closest to you to farthest.

Well then it’s a useless function, at least for me, as there are always going to be more premium guys in NYC than Long Island. Thanks for clarifying!

Update: I get giving your higher paying ads a leg up, but I like to point out why I think that’s a bad way to go in this case. Like I said, NYC is always going to have more premium ads because it’s a high population center. But also, being a high population center, the need for a GPS service is also not as important, as public transport and shorter distances make travel less of a hurdle. Where as in a low population center, with little transportation options, the differences between 2-15 miles can mean a great deal. I don’t get this tactic.

He’s ads already gone, I’m guessing he didn’t give anyone a chance too, lol.

I think I’m not explaining it well, because I know an escort will put their general location, but not their actual address. I’m not complaining about escorts.

I’m talking about RentMen showing me NYC guys 20-30 miles away from me, before showing me Long Island profiles 5-10 miles away.