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Exactly. This is the same arguments we hear when gay esrablishments are caught being racist to blacks or sexually harassing subordinates.
 
MF says it is not an employer, only an advertising medium, and therefore they do not have to check the state massuer licenses of their advertisers.
 
Then they turn around and say they must check the immigration status of those advertisers??
 
Sorry, that is a lie. And they know it.
 
Yes, they should check identification to make sure of age and that the ad is not a scam. But they are rejecting the same goverment documents that TSA allows people to fly domestically under....their home country passports. They are even rejecting state driver's licenses that don't require Social Security numbers which TSA accepts.
 
When MassuerFinder goes past checking for valid identification to checking for immigration status , they have completely jumped the fascist shark.

I beg to differ.
May not have had any official webpage up for said "professional" work....
but I've partaken in some paid company via the social media.
Well worth the price for a one time splurge and *spooge*.

He’s not my type but somehow I find him cute and I love the mustache. C’mon boys help that cutie out !

https://rent.men/rickygarcia

https://rent.men/rickygarcia

If you like dúos...
 
https://rent.men/QbanXXmACHOS

Delicious member on that man.

A very good subject.
 
Apart from the obvious [never flake (or if you have to, compensate), never “forget” to pay in full, shower just before (hopefully together), brush your teeth ], I can only think of a few things I try to remember doing each time:
 
- Remind him he is allowed to say no or to say stop at any time (like in any relationship).
- Tell him what you like doing, rather than give orders.
- Bring condom, lube, poppers, viagra, just in case he has forgotten.
- Show some interest in him: a simple “so, are you busy with other activities, these days?” can open a long conversation, but doesn’t demand one.
 
Interested in what others do.

PERFECTLY said!!!! The holy grail is finding an escort who makes you feel their equal. So far I’ve met none - sure all nice but you can see and feel the acting.

I almost hired him but from the conversation, I could tell he was not for me. One thing I have learned from reading @latbear4blk 's http://ilikepinga.com which made me rethink my hires forever. You want to hire those that make you feel wanted. I did not really understand what that meant exactly until I met one of his recommendations and then I met another one. Though I have one regular that always does that, I had not seen it in others. These guys made me feel their equal. Since I enjoy that strong bfe experience in my sessions, it is an incredible experience when a 20 something spends two hours making you feel like you are the hot twenty year old. It brings ecstasy to a new level.

I can’t figure out if this some unusual business tactic. I’ve never experienced this before

I was in Seattle, and I asked for an escort to be recommended for me. One was, but he wasn’t in town.
 
A year later I got a phone call to see if I was still interested. And this is a very popular escort.

Can we calm down on the “meth freak” talk?
 
I know it’s a popular trope, but meth is a pretty nasty drug that is HIGHLY reinforcing (4x dopamine release of cocaine - highly rewarding and motivating) - it can ensnare the brightest and most beautiful, and unlikely people can fall prey. I think addiction is a symptom of people lacking connection (rat park experiment) or running on the hedonic treadmill (not being grateful and in the present moment)
Addicts deserve compassion, not labels that belittle. We should thank our stars that any pain we have ever felt has not led us down that path.
https://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontline/meth/body/
 
I’m sorry I’ve been a dick lately, sometimes (usually) I handle stress poorly. All these suicides, school shootings, etc are making me a little crazy (and sometimes going a little crazy on threads about these same topics...) xoxo

More than a few, less than a horde. Let's say about a 15% pass-out rate?
 
PS -- after about 4 years of hiring and having a lot of great times, I've been on a horrible unlucky streak for a while, so maybe it's me.

such a tough situation.
 
I knew a guy who fell for his massage therapist; I implored him to keep it professional and my friend would actually do that, but the more he did the therapist kept clouding things, giving my friend, as Debbie on Queer as Folk said about Brian and Michael, 'extra little tidbits of your affection - just enough so that he'll think maybe someday...'
 
It's a cruel thing to do to another person.

Ohhh Funnsized is CUTE !

He’s a nice guy, definitely green in the escorting biz. I WILL NEVER wish financial devastation or homelessness on any one. Your comment is unwarranted and abusive!!!!

I’d do it. I actually had a guy on RM ask if I’d send him a video of me peeing and talking in a dominate way. I did it. We agreed to $50 for it. He never sent the money (which was weird after going to the trouble to sign up and add me on Venmo) and more or less went radio silent since then. Definitely frustrating.

God if he’s looking for guys on Grindr for free...I will definitely jump on that opportunity!

He’s a nice guy, definitely green in the escorting biz. I WILL NEVER wish financial devastation or homelessness on any one. Your comment is unwarranted and abusive!!!!

He told me he does. I found him on Grindr

After a year on S.A. I can break it down into three major groups.
Guys who are escorting or trying out the Pay4play scene.
Guys who are truly looking to be cared for by an older man.
Guys who saw the ad and joined with NO clue about how it all works.

For new guys the gay vs. st8 vs bi thingie may matter but after a while it blurs.
Even G4P eventually becomes being really gay 4P. It becomes a life.
I have a stripper friend who has a gf and 2 kids but attacts any cock he can find and loves to bottom. Of course he was a Marine.

Guys..with escorts..straight and gay they are not bi-sexual. They all are buy-sexual. I find the straight ones much easier to have fun with. Gay escorts will still have an attraction to you or not and most don't act very well to get over that. Straight escorts aren't attracted to any guys they are with. I've been with some of the hottest escorts talked about on here and none are even remotely attracted to men. They even tell me they hate when a young muscular guy hires them. That guy then gets very aggressive towards sex since he thinks "I'm hot so he will love it". Ain't so. The straight guys get attracted to honesty, integrity, repeats, cleanliness, lack of drama and respect. The more times you are with them the more they tend to do. And most guys straight or gay when they find out the pleasure of anal stimulation really get into it. Fill in the blanks guys...lol

He is in a hotel in Brooklyn right now...