jcmiami1

I’ve held someone’s hand once, in the context of this thread.
 
About 3 years ago I met a guy on RM and it became pretty serious... it evolved into more of an arrangement but we were pretty wrapped around each other emotionally.
 
I took him to Austin with me on a business trip and stayed the weekend. Sunday afternoon we walked down the street together holding hands.
 
It was one of the most terrifying and exhilarating things I’ve ever done, on lots of levels.
What it said about me to myself.
What it said about me and him.
What it said about us to everyone.
 
I still remember how I felt as if it were yesterday.

Good question but I feel same sex hand holding in public is just too risky these days especially with the rise of hate crimes going on. If it was in a very gay friendly neighborhood I might take the risk.

Good question but I feel same sex hand holding in public is just too risky these days especially with the rise of hate crimes going on. If it was in a very gay friendly neighborhood I might take the risk.

It depends where you stay, anywhere near the beach will be expensive. Sometimes you might get lower hotel rates in August but I’ve noticed even that is disappearing.

He’s a nice guy, definitely green in the escorting biz. I WILL NEVER wish financial devastation or homelessness on any one. Your comment is unwarranted and abusive!!!!

I can’t figure out if this some unusual business tactic. I’ve never experienced this before

I lot of people who are commenting here as well as other types of social media - have no idea what depression and suicidality is - ZERO. I suffer from a lifetime of clinical depression AND survived *multiple* suicide attempts. It’s NOT greed, it’s not selfishness....it’s desperation, it’s frustration- it’s having empty non existent hope. You shut down, you don’t care about yourself and all things. You see death as the escape and it becomes an obsession.
I gave you a glimpse into the darkness.

I lot of people who are commenting here as well as other types of social media - have no idea what depression and suicidality is - ZERO. I suffer from a lifetime of clinical depression AND survived *multiple* suicide attempts. It’s NOT greed, it’s not selfishness....it’s desperation, it’s frustration- it’s having empty non existent hope. You shut down, you don’t care about yourself and all things. You see death as the escape and it becomes an obsession.
I gave you a glimpse into the darkness.

If you like dúos...
 
https://rent.men/QbanXXmACHOS

Ok I don’t have a porn star dick so it’s all about the money then hahaha

Damn if I was that good he should have paid me !!! Lol

We drink mojitos!

And of course he is now here in Miami - city of fakes and scammers! Ugh

He’s not scary. I met him and will repeat. Probably going to send a review to Daddy’s.

All I can say is don’t date a hot guy or be friends with a hot guy unless you’re on the same level of hotness ...why?...it’s happened to me...guys will use you to get to them :mad:

https://giraffeconservation.org/world-giraffe-day/
 
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Giraffe
 
Caesar exhibited a giraffe in Rome
 
http://penelope.uchicago.edu/~grout/encyclopaedia_romana/gladiators/giraffe.html

I agree with you @Oaktown and @freecahill1965 tho I know of several handsome, hard-bodied young men who want exactly that ("to live like a celebrity"). Whether models in LA, photographers in NYC and personal trainers in Sydney, they are all wannabes who disdain hard work and comitment and spend their time complaining about having to have sex with older men.

7829V in answer to your first question some do and some don't. Depending on the guys total rate I decide whether or not I am willing to meet. Many escorts discount their fee for multiple hours and some don't charge for the meal time, it simply depends on the escort.
In response to your second question I have never had a problem in that area. When I'm spending the amount of time and money I am on these types of arrangements it behooves me to make damn sure there is a connection/chemistry. As I see it connection/chemistry is a two way street so I am as responsible as the escort to see that it happens. Thus far I have fortunately always found some topic that the escort and I can discuss. Also I spend a considerable amount of time vetting the escorts I'm intending to hire to make sure we can develop a connection/chemistry.

I happen to know a real life MMA fighter and that guy is moody AF, very temperamental, does roids. Ok I’m guilty of over generalization

Care for some pudding with that? HAHAHA
 
Sorry, couldn’t help it

And for the love of gawd, if you're bottoming, douche.

It all boils down to respect. Disrespectful clients are the absolute worst. I'm sure clients feel the same about disrespectful escorts.
 
1) Follow instructions. If he asks you to give an ETA when you leave your place to head over, give an ETA when you leave to head over. Not 30 minutes after you leave, not when you're 5 min away. If he says to call when you park, don't just show up at his door, do what he asked you to do. If he asks you to text not call, text, don't call. If he asks to call not text, call, don't text. Not following instructions is my #1 client pet peeve.
 
Besides that, 2) being respectful of time is key. Flaking is terrible. Assuming he has unlimited time for endless small talk, or to text or chat with you while you make up your mind is also very bad. Ghosting after exchanging a ton of messages is rude. Hitting up an escort to meet with the expectation that he doesn't need any prep time is something the worst clients do. This assumption that some have that providers have no life outside of escorting and no resaponsibilities besides catering to one guy's needs is very off-putting.
 
3) And lastly, a related to all of the above, please don't treat providers like they're stupid or unworthy of respect. That's a big no-no. If he's giving you instructions, there's a smart reason for them, show respect by following them. Respect his time. Don't talk down to him. Use complete sentences -- he's not an idiot. Don't order him around (unless that's part of the scene). Don't force him to drink alcohol if he doesn't want, don't push/pull him around etc.
 
4) Be clear, concise, and direct about your needs and expectations. That solves a lot of problems. Do not force him to probe and drag it out of you what you're looking for, when, where, concerns, needs, expectations, etc. Just spit out. Tell him. It's so much easier for all involved than a neverending series of hellos, his, how/where are yous, wyd, and i like your pictures/reviews.
 
Kindness and respect go a long way. Unfortunately, the clients and escorts who need to hear this aren't on this forum.

Very good idea. A coworker all of a sudden started getting texts about wanting to meet. Started blocking. She finally texted one back to ask how they got the number. Person said Craigslist. She called CL, and they said ad would be taken down. Texts stopped that day.

I lot of people who are commenting here as well as other types of social media - have no idea what depression and suicidality is - ZERO. I suffer from a lifetime of clinical depression AND survived *multiple* suicide attempts. It’s NOT greed, it’s not selfishness....it’s desperation, it’s frustration- it’s having empty non existent hope. You shut down, you don’t care about yourself and all things. You see death as the escape and it becomes an obsession.
I gave you a glimpse into the darkness.

Never knew he escorted at any point - I’m sure his rates are sky high cause the guy is definitely premium luxe+++ lol