Steve yabsley

Hmmm,...interesting dilemma. Initial instinct is to pass if the guy is not the one pictured.....but @Mark Randall makes me wonder......

Anyone met him? DM me.

thanks

Steve

Anyone have any experience?

https://rent.men/Luca_fantauzzy

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One of my fantasies

I'd give him a corner office.

sorry -he needs a desk right outside my office door. Not that I expect him to spend much time at his desk ?. But I think we might need to ‘have a few rounds‘ of interviews first ???

that is truly a sexy series @marylander1940

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Wow - great body! That is exactly the body I fall for every time! Belongs in my PPIEW file!

I’ll definitely take any tips.

I try to balance between being friendly and flirty on the messaging and clear on what I’m looking for....a lot of guys say yes, that’s what they want (monthly stipend in exchange for 3-4 play dates) but only some of them are willing to meet (covid fear?). I need to be more ruthless!

Yes, but he’ll be used and very tired!

That’s ok....he can cuddle sleep with me until tomorrow and then.......?

@Yeahman - “pro“ advice from someone I respect is not to floss for 24 hours before and to brush extra lightly.

I love a minty fresh taste so maybe mouth wash, gum, or mints!

@MikeBiDude -agreed and I really didn’t mean to vent (although it felt good). Pandemic definitely impacts everyone, and I’m clearly a little Covid hermit (and getting stir crazy) and wishing I had found a pandemic cuddle buddy. I just had a disappointing end to what I thought was going to be a perfect SA arrangement that didn’t progress beyond an expensive (for me) cup of coffee with a nice man who is still really nice but always busy (I’m taking his hint, but grumpy about it).

It does only take one. And under normal circumstances travel is not as difficult.

It does only take one, but I find there is a lot of work to find one (aka, I’m still seeking).....and at 90$/mo, It’s not cheap. I’m sure it depends on where you live and what you want....but I’m not looking to buy pictures or pay you for custom videos, I’m not looking for a platonic take you shopping and give you money situation, or to pay you $$ to convince you that you ‘can be gay’, or pay you to travel here from Ecuador or Belarus. Along with a host of other interesting situations. If you enjoy the process, as others have said, it is another venue to explore.

yep, the moon is in the cynical phase in my horoscope......

@Lawkid3889 - good luck. My experience has been mixed - but it really depends on your location. Lots of effort can result in success (at least that’s my hope ?), but it is really hit or miss and a matter of timing and luck.

Fingers crossed.....

Some of those qualify for a houseman position ( not houseboy), just saying

@marylander1940 - is there also a ‘cut’ gallery?

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What an unusual vantage point! ?

I guess a commercial for Brasil.

Ha!

I only share here, I've made a few friends here and we have a regular chat going about our trevails which is liberating and refreshing. But, this hobby has legal considerations, and will not be viewed objectively by many so I prefer to keep the circle very tight.

Agreed and well stated. Same.

BOY! Do I hear you on this score. I was incredibly (unbelievably, actually) lucky enough to find (on Grindr) an almost ridiculously handsome (and much younger) cross between a FWB and sugar baby, and we've been quarantine cuddle buddies since JUST before the full realization of the pandemic hit. So it has now been several months of almost weekly multiple-day visits, which work because he is smart, charming, and a great conversationalist in addition to being sexy as hell. And I was just thinking last week that by now, it isn't just the sex (more like making love, actually), and maybe isn't really about the sex anymore, but, precisely as you say, the ability to touch and be touched, kiss and be kissed, and have good real conversation, not just chatter. I have most definitely fallen in love with him; the feeling is not (as far as I can tell) completely reciprocal ... but he is clearly fond of me, as he keeps coming back. For however long it lasts, it is one of the ONLY things helping me through this awful time. It certainly took me a while - learning about and learning to recognize the trolls, bots, and catfishers on both Grindr and Scruff - and it ultimately did hook me up with this wonderful young man. Don't give up, don't lower your standards, and best of luck to you.

@shadowcatzxxx - wow- congrats to you for getting this set up. I think it is what many on here (like me!) dream of!

Maybe he was enjoying the fact that you use Downy Unstopables?

hmmmm....maybe I need to try a new fabric softener.....

@RealAvalon - Fred too by the look of it.....

By the way......That is a great lower back stretch.....just saying ?‍♂️

I’ve been getting into some made by Netflix series

Ragnarok (Norwegian) - really good

into the badlands - mind candy

Dark (German).....really helps to Binge - the plot is super complex

I now have a whole wish list of accessories I “need”. Lol

For me, I seem to be tending towards 2 or 3 hour Sessions - even for first hires. Still like o/n’s, but as you say, the chemistry needs to be right.

I‘m not a fan of linear rates (xx for 1 hour, 2xx for 2 hours, 3xx for 3 hours.....). Seems to push me towards 1 hour sessions and i think of those as test runs.

But, damn, Covid-19 makes life suck.

Well isn't he the horny boy?!

@beachboy - at first I read this as ‘homey boy’ and I thought I’d like to have him in my home, and then on second reading, noticed you said ‘horny boy’, and I still had the same thought ?