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If your friend had a competent estate attorney draw up his will, you should not be going through that aggravation. Assuming your friend had a valid Will and leaving everything to you, I am puzzled why you are paying a lawyer to defend your friend's Will. Payments to defend the Will should be paid from the estate, not by you. Are you sure you have the appropriate attorney? Something does not compute unless your friend did not have a competent attorney draw up his Will. Good luck with closing the estate according to your friend's final wishes.

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Unless you hire the provider, you are "wasting" his time by communicating to see if you possibly would be compatible if you two got together.

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There is a new sauna in Sao Paulo named Python scheduled to open around February 1. I do not have the exact address with me but it is located in a good neighborhood not far from Avenida Paulista on the far end opposite from Avenido Consolacao. This new sauna will be good for both clients and garotos. As most of us know, there is only one operating garoto sauna in Sao Paulo (Espacao Lagoa) while there used to be seven such type saunas in Sao Paulo about a dozen years ago. There is a sauna in Sao Paulo that opened a couple of years ago that has been a financial and workable disaster. It opened and closed many times. During the periods (many) it was operating there was nearly no activity with almost zero garotos and only a few clients. Let us hope that the new sauna will be a success and give bit of competition to the one garoto sauna that seems to be doing well financially in the largest populated city in Brazil. After I get more news, I will post again. Refreshing news, for sure.

Effective the first of this year, the sauna in Rio de Janeiro known as Clube 117 is charging garotos an entrance fee of fifty reais. Although that amount is not great for most foreign visitors to Brazil, that R$50 entrance fee is quite a shock and hardship to most garotos. Most garotos live a fair distance from the sauna. Most pay a bus fee to get to the sauna. Effective now, they pay fifty reais (plus travel costs) just to enter the sauna to try to earn some hustling money. Some garotos do not meet any clients even though they go to the sauna and pay their fifty reais entrance fee. This means that the garoto wastes his time and bus money plus the fifty reais to enter the sauna without any guarantee that they will make any money by meeting a client in the sauna. The new entrance price that started for garotos the first of the year is a bad decision by Monik who raised the fee to that absurd amount. Like I said, maybe Monik is tired after all these years and just wants out of running the sauna. Who knows? I have been to Brazil countless times over many years and have seen numerous saunas go out of business for various reasons. Never have I seen an entrance fee for garotos to be fifty reais which is bound to prevent many garotos from entering (because they cannot afford the fee). Without garotos, clients are not going to go to a sauna that no longer has many garotos. Client only go to the sauna to meet garotos. A dozen years ago there were seven saunas in Rio. Now there are only two (Clube 117 and Pointe 202) plus a small sauna downtown that is rarely discussed in the forums. For some greedy reason, the owner of the sauna Clube 117 fails to realize that if there are no garotos in the sauna, clients have no incentive to spend their money to use the sauna. I can understand raising entrance fees for clients but raising the fee for garotos to R$50 is nothing but short-sighted and a reason to keep many garotos away because they lack money to gamble on whether they will make any money (if they contract with a client) after they enter the sauna. Obviously, with the increased garoto entrance fee, the saunas will have fewer garotos. This means that there will also be fewer clients (lost sauna revenue) because the clients only go to the sauna to meet garotos. Maybe Monik is tired of the sauna and an unreasonable fee to garotos is her way to close the sauna. I do not know her rational or reason. Maybe, in the future, the internet will be the only way to meet garotos. Junior, at Pointe 202 has not changed his fees to the garotos (yet). He might copy Clube 117 and raise his fee also. However, maybe he is smarter than I thought. Or, maybe after he sees the effect on Clube 117, he might raise the garoto entrance fee as did Monik. So, we now have two garoto saunas in Rio and only one garoto sauna (Lagoa) in Sao Paulo (out of twelve saunas we had twelve years ago). Of course, nothing lasts forever. However the high entrance fee to the garotos is almost death rattle for Clube 117. How sad it will be if Clube 117 sauna does go out of business.

Remember, "50 in the sauna" does not mean $50. United States dollars. The guys want either Swiss francs or Euros. Those two currencies (francs and euros) are about $5.00 more money than the U.S. dollar. Saying it a different way, if the provider wants fifty francs or euros, paying him in dollars means that you are paying him about 45 francs or euros plus the inconvenience of exchanging the U.S. money to local currency. Even though it is only a little money difference, United States dollars are inconvenient to use in Switzerland and Europe to pay for items. Also, the guys do not like being "shorted" the 5 frans or euros.

There is no "crackdown" at the sauna. I talked with a long-term bartender last week and he confirmed that the story about hustlers being forbidden is a joke. All is the same at Paragonya with respect to hustlers. Even if the sauna owner released the names of the hustlers who visit Paragonya, most hustlers are there for only a few days or a few weeks, at most, then they move on to another country to practice their trade or they return to their home country. Do you really think that the Swiss government is going to spend money and manpower resources to track down a few thousand francs in unpaid income taxes from hustlers that are no longer in Switzerland?

Would you be so kind and tell me how the Swiss government could track cash income made to hustlers who are in the city for only a short period of time. The sex transactions are paid in cash to the hustler. Where is a physical record of the transaction (there is only a verbal transaction)? For the Swiss government to hire enough people to physically watch for untaxed small cash transactions to tax would be impractical and a waste of government money. Remember, the hustlers are in the sauna only a short time - - then they are gone. How would the government even know the true names of the hustlers or an address or anything else about them?

GOOD LEGAL POINT - - - - - - - However, when dealing with prostitution and the Paragonya sauna, I suspect that most workers do not get a work permit. Tracking workers to confirm that they have a work permit would be an almost impossible job. When you enter Paragonya sauna), the hustlers are from numerous countries, including many from Brazil. Most, but not all of the hustlers are found in the sauna for only a few days to a few weeks, most, never to return after they leave Switzerland. I suspect that most (or all) of the hustlers did not go through the Swiss government to get a permit to work at Paragonya as a hustler or legal male prostitute. As many of us know from traveling to saunas around the world, most hustlers are "straight" or at least they claim they are. I personally know some that are married with children. I believe that they would not go through the government asking for a work permit to legally work as a male prostitute.

I cannot imagine what "legal backside" the owner is trying to protect. Prostitution has been legal in Switzerland since 1942. What difference would it make if there were hustlers at Paragonya?

What if the guy arrives at your place which might happen to be a chain hotel where you have "status" as a long time frequent guest. If there is a scene and you have to call security, it could put your status at risk depending on the circumstances and what the escort says or does in defending his behavior. In addition, the related embarrassment would be difficult. It is a delicate situation.

I found Warsaw interesting for venues but not for massage or hiring, etc. The most famous venue you will see in Warsaw (in my opinion) is the container on the wall of the Holy Cross Church that contains the heart of Frederic Chopin. Even though Chopin's body is buried in Paris, he personally wanted his heart to be taken to his birth country where his heart has been for several decades after he died.

It is nice to think about what we would say if an escort reneged on our agreement prior to rendering service. However, on this forum, many of us visit foreign countries where escorts do not speak English. They have learned to say (mimic) many short sentences like asking for money in advance, what they will do et cetera. Consequently, it is not simple to have a conversation discussing, for example, why was the advance payment not asked for at the time of the agreed meeting. Or, any other change in an agreement the escort attempted to create just prior to rendering services. Escorts that insist on payment in advance (or make changes prior to the beginning of agreed on services) are often strong athletic type guys that could cause physical harm to a client if an argument came up about fees, payments or when payments should be made or any other one-sided change the escort wanted. It is easy for us to write what we would do but when you are attempting to talk with an escort that does not speak fluent English (they learned simple sentences, like how to insist on payment in advance, etc) it is often useless to attempt to get the escort to understand anything else brought into the conversation.

How did the demand end, with an agreement or a physical fight or threat? Peacefully?

If you are in his residence or his indoor place of meeting and you refuse to pay in advance after he insists on prepayment, how do you exit without a physical confrontation or even a fight? If he comes to your place and insists on prepayment, how do you get him to exit without a fight or argument? Either way, if you go to his facility, or he comes to your place, how can you get out of the situation if the escorts insists on prepayment of services? Seems like a potentially dangerous situation when you have an aggressive escort insisting on prepayment and your decision to cancel the meeting while the escort came to your place or you went to the facility of the escort. I can see a fight or, at a minimum, a hostile situation that might not end well. At a minimum, starting off a sex meeting with an argument must surely detract (or worse) from the anticipated pleasurable expectation, prior to the demand for prepayment.

There is no "maybe" about it. You were lucky if you "have been hiring for about 10 years" without being scammed by a provider.

Can we trust rentmen reviews? Tough question - I personally know that rentmen will remove a bad review merely because a provider gives a good excuse for contradicting the bad review. There have been several ads that I felt were interesting and worthy of my hiring. Most of those ads had many five star reviews and several one star reviews, which caused me to ignore the ad and not contact the provider. Over time (a few months), while going through the ads on rentmen, I noticed that the same guys that I once would have liked to hire but did not because of the bad, one star reviews, had numerous five star reviews and the one star reviews had disappeared. Needless to say, I now give almost no credibility to rentmen reviews.

No doubt about it, you have been lucky in your hiring. Considering all your good luck, I think you might want to consider how many of us have had bad experiences with hiring, and be a bit more cautious in future hiring. Although most hires are good people, there are some bad ones out there just waiting for an opportunity to take advantage of someone who shows such good hospitality to them.

I just got off the phone with one of the bartenders at Paragonya. (+41 44 252 66 66) The bartender assured me that the sauna rules about paid hustlers has not changed. He further said that "everything is as it has been for more than twenty-five years. The bartender said that he has worked there more than fifteen years and that the sauna has been an "escort" sauna for as long as he recalls. Maybe some bad rumor got floating around the sauna that caused the negative report. Cute joke.

Is it a joke about the sauna forbidding hustlers? I plan a trip to Germany next month and Zurich is only a short drive to where I will be staying in Germany. I hope to visit Paragonay while in Zurich. I ask this because you jokingly said in your post "I flew my G650 over to check my numbered bank accounts and gold Bullion," Many people do not know that Swiss numbered bank accounts were disclosed to the U.S. Internal Revenue Service twenty years go and numbered bank accounts no longer have secrecy like they had before the laws were changed. I view your comment as a joke. However, I could be wrong. I will call the sauna tomorrow and report back on any news. .

No one knows the true answer except for the person you took on a vacation. One side of us wants to think there is a friendship going while things are pleasant with a companion we take on a vacation trip. It is possible that there is a friendship. But, not likely if there is a major age difference. If the companion is charging you for his time and is pleasant while you two are together, it just means that he is doing a good job at what he is suppose to do. I have been in similar situations, taking guys on airplanes with me to foreign destinations, having a wonderful time. While we were in the foreign country together getting along great, one would think we were good friends. However, after the trip was over, the "companion" was paid his hefty agreed upon fee and went on his way after we returned to our place of departure. Sometimes I heard from the escort and sometimes I did not. I eventually learned to expect a ghosting after such a trip. Looking at both sides, it is possible that a friendship developed during your vacation together, but, it is also possible that the companion was merely a paid companion, and nothing more. Tough to answer.

The first part of your post is easy to understand and answer - what payment? - Cash - local currency and occasionally (very seldom) U.S. dollars or British pounds or Euros- However, most transactions are in local currency. I am not sure what you mean when you wrote "any apps" If you mean paying escorts with an app money transfer from another country, when they do not know you, is likely going to be refused.

Are you certain that you were told or read that the sauna tells clients to leave valuables at the front desk? If so, this recommendation is in conflict to the existence of lockers with keys being assigned to all visitors to the sauna. I cannot image why any customer would be asked to leave valuables at the front desk rather than in the assigned locker that is secured with a key. I would not take something of high value to a sauna. If I did bring a valuable item to the sauna, the last thing I would do is tell the sauna employees that I want them to guard or keep my valuable item for me at "the front desk". Taking a valuable item to a sauna then telling the sauna employees at the front desk that you have a valuable item for them to guard, is an invitation for the valuable item to disappear or later become an item to be stolen. As to Junior being scary, I cannot imagine how or why you feel that way. Although Junior likes excessively loud music, I find him fairly mellow and harmless, despite the awful loud music.