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I just hired a guy.  Almost fell through because he told me no kissing and no oral.  I told him that the I could live with the no oral by him, ( I really was more interested in giving anyway, but no kissing was a deal killer.  He reconsidered as he had been getting colds and felt that was the cause,  but I guess he needed the job.   But he apparently gets enough work to  pay his bills.  But the thing that puzzles me the most is that while a top, he provides a BFE experience.  Who doesn't kiss their boyfriend?

A good escort will act so as to let you believe that you are the center of his earth.  As a client, when I see such an ad, I run the other way.  As I am neither, I would fear that this guy would not be able to be let me delude myself that his is as into me as I want to believe he is.  

After many many years of hiring 2-3x a year, I only rebooked once and he was a disappointment the second time due to things taking off in his career including porn.  Finally found a guy and have rebooked him.   It is emotionally exhausting trying to figure out if  and how you fit into this guys  MO for want of a better term.  No matter how much you communicate, escorts, particularly on a first meeting have their game plan that they fall back on.  While they might flip or flop on an activity to accommodate you, they have a way they function.   Escorts have their quirks and often ignore when you ask.  One guy I found out too late wouldn't kiss, for his BF only.  Another would let you top him but no fingers.    While it is also exciting to try new adventures, there is a great comfort in finding someone where you know the connection exists and the meeting will be physically and emotionally satisfying.  

After many many years of hiring 2-3x a year, I only rebooked once and he was a disappointment the second time due to things taking off in his career including porn.  Finally found a guy and have rebooked him.   It is emotionally exhausting trying to figure out if  and how you fit into this guys  MO for want of a better term.  No matter how much you communicate, escorts, particularly on a first meeting have their game plan that they fall back on.  While they might flip or flop on an activity to accommodate you, they have a way they function.   Escorts have their quirks and often ignore when you ask.  One guy I found out too late wouldn't kiss, for his BF only.  Another would let you top him but no fingers.    While it is also exciting to try new adventures, there is a great comfort in finding someone where you know the connection exists and the meeting will be physically and emotionally satisfying.  

A good escort will act so as to let you believe that you are the center of his earth.  As a client, when I see such an ad, I run the other way.  As I am neither, I would fear that this guy would not be able to be let me delude myself that his is as into me as I want to believe he is.  

A good escort will act so as to let you believe that you are the center of his earth.  As a client, when I see such an ad, I run the other way.  As I am neither, I would fear that this guy would not be able to be let me delude myself that his is as into me as I want to believe he is.  

As one of the guilty as to not cumming at times or even being able to maintain an erection.  You can still have a great time.  Sex is as much or maybe more about the connection than the body parts.  It has been said that the biggers se organ is the brain.  Sometimes I have an emotional climax with my buddy, we reach an intense level of emotional intensity and then take a break.  But cumming is not always in the cards and at my age that is OK.    

Since RM only allows premium members to write reviews I don't have that problem.   But I would only write negatively about objective criteria, not if there was not "connection" as long as I felt the guy was "showing up" and not mailing it in.  

As one of the guilty as to not cumming at times or even being able to maintain an erection.  You can still have a great time.  Sex is as much or maybe more about the connection than the body parts.  It has been said that the biggers se organ is the brain.  Sometimes I have an emotional climax with my buddy, we reach an intense level of emotional intensity and then take a break.  But cumming is not always in the cards and at my age that is OK.    

As one of the guilty as to not cumming at times or even being able to maintain an erection.  You can still have a great time.  Sex is as much or maybe more about the connection than the body parts.  It has been said that the biggers se organ is the brain.  Sometimes I have an emotional climax with my buddy, we reach an intense level of emotional intensity and then take a break.  But cumming is not always in the cards and at my age that is OK.    

The price for escorts will continue to fluctuate based on supply and demand.   The biggest issue is the total lack of transparency, no one actually knows what the market is.    You set your price based on the amount of business you want and how much business you are getting.   Too busy, you can raise your rates, not busy enough you may want to lower them.  It might mean that you do have to see more customers to make what you want.  But for many this is a what ever I have left at the end of the month type of expense and this will affect what they are willing to or can pay.  

The price for escorts will continue to fluctuate based on supply and demand.   The biggest issue is the total lack of transparency, no one actually knows what the market is.    You set your price based on the amount of business you want and how much business you are getting.   Too busy, you can raise your rates, not busy enough you may want to lower them.  It might mean that you do have to see more customers to make what you want.  But for many this is a what ever I have left at the end of the month type of expense and this will affect what they are willing to or can pay.  

The price for escorts will continue to fluctuate based on supply and demand.   The biggest issue is the total lack of transparency, no one actually knows what the market is.    You set your price based on the amount of business you want and how much business you are getting.   Too busy, you can raise your rates, not busy enough you may want to lower them.  It might mean that you do have to see more customers to make what you want.  But for many this is a what ever I have left at the end of the month type of expense and this will affect what they are willing to or can pay.  

Rates are an important consideration as is location and availability.   If their location is given then the assumption is they can host, even like mid town or the name of the community if not central.  But if they can't host than that should be stated and if uber required or whatever should be noted.  Also many escorts have regular jobs or just don't like 3AM or even 11PM booty calls.  So days and hours would be helpful.  No sense in asking if they are available when they have a regular prior commitment.  On general I thought that Daddy's site worked pretty well for my needs. 
Thanks for your work on this

I just hired a guy.  Almost fell through because he told me no kissing and no oral.  I told him that the I could live with the no oral by him, ( I really was more interested in giving anyway, but no kissing was a deal killer.  He reconsidered as he had been getting colds and felt that was the cause,  but I guess he needed the job.   But he apparently gets enough work to  pay his bills.  But the thing that puzzles me the most is that while a top, he provides a BFE experience.  Who doesn't kiss their boyfriend?

I just hired a guy.  Almost fell through because he told me no kissing and no oral.  I told him that the I could live with the no oral by him, ( I really was more interested in giving anyway, but no kissing was a deal killer.  He reconsidered as he had been getting colds and felt that was the cause,  but I guess he needed the job.   But he apparently gets enough work to  pay his bills.  But the thing that puzzles me the most is that while a top, he provides a BFE experience.  Who doesn't kiss their boyfriend?

I just hired a guy.  Almost fell through because he told me no kissing and no oral.  I told him that the I could live with the no oral by him, ( I really was more interested in giving anyway, but no kissing was a deal killer.  He reconsidered as he had been getting colds and felt that was the cause,  but I guess he needed the job.   But he apparently gets enough work to  pay his bills.  But the thing that puzzles me the most is that while a top, he provides a BFE experience.  Who doesn't kiss their boyfriend?

The price for escorts will continue to fluctuate based on supply and demand.   The biggest issue is the total lack of transparency, no one actually knows what the market is.    You set your price based on the amount of business you want and how much business you are getting.   Too busy, you can raise your rates, not busy enough you may want to lower them.  It might mean that you do have to see more customers to make what you want.  But for many this is a what ever I have left at the end of the month type of expense and this will affect what they are willing to or can pay.  

Just been looking at RM.  Seems on the free public pics, no one is showing the goods, all covered up.  Is this a change in RM policy to full frontal only in the premium pics or just those I happened to look at?  Thought I used to see quite a bit of cock but apparently no more

Lengthy discussion already here:
 

Rentmen is the largest provider advertising site in the U.S. and Canada.
Most of us already know that Rentmen recently put in new rules that require a fee from non advertisers (clients) in order to send in a review about an experience with a hired provider.  The fee is $240 yearly to rentmen, not to a provider.  
This requirement of paying rentmen a fee to write a review does potential harm to clients and providers who use Rentmen because of the inability to warn other clients (via reviews) of good or bad experiences from a provider. 
Moreover, there are some providers with fake photos and other dishonest claims advertising their services on rentmen.  Unless a client is willing to come up with $240 per year to give to rentmen, no review is allowed about the encounter between the client and the provider.  For the $240, a client is allowed to write reviews and watch some sort of animated video that are free on many world-wide sites.  
Now we have a new strange requirement set up by rentmen.  I was advised by someone I know who advertises on rentmen that all advertisement photos that show any genitalia in the advertisement photos must be removed.   
Such a requirement is bound to have a negative effect on providers who pay rentmen to advertise on their site.    
Rentmen is making many negative rules for both their advertising clients and the readers of rentmen who pay to hire the providers paying rentmen.  
I realize everyone wants to make money, however, the changes made by rentmen seem like a one-way street in favor of only rentmen.  
If this disclosure has already been made elsewhere on the site, please excuse the repeat.  I cannot find any other mention of this travesty.  

I think it would be helpful for me to know the duration of the meeting and how much the reviewer was charged.

I will pay up to $300 max.  But I have found that over $200 what you are paying for is more the body than the experience.  You can't put a price on the connection you might or might no make.  The body will only get you so far.  Hiring can be of a ,whim and I will take the first guy available at whatever or sometimes I will see if several guys are available and go with the cheapest.  But I never haggle with a guy over his rate, and really don't like i if I say your are too high and he offers a lower rate.  I fear he will try to give less of him self, a discounted service for a lower rate.  
 

And ego.
And lest we forget – all money exchanged is *strictly* for time… 😉 

I have not had a regular until now because no one checked enough boxes until now.   Not that they flaked out or didn't give service, just never clicked enough.  Had only seen one guy twice prior and he was less than stellar on the second go round.  So I have seen this guy 3 times and await the 4th.  He comes to town about every 2 months or so and that the the frequency.  Still checking out new experiences, up to no,  had hired maybe 4 times a year.  Not sure if I will be exclusive with this guy as often or what I will do ongoing.