arnie

just checked his profile 5/16/25  Hot guy now in SF but on hiatus.  Says will be back. 

I have been to North Hollywood. Add on $10 for non-members. I have gone on Fri and Sat nights and enjoy myself.  I have not been to the other two places so cannot compare.  Let me know if you have questions.

I live in Vegas and have been trying to hire.  It does not seem to matter,  text or phone message,  if I ask for a date /time and if you host ( where- major intersection ) or out,  followed up by or just state that I am a local  (and if this is not good), when are you available in general like only work nights or weekends  so I know when to ask for.   And  these guys are long time RM as I only hire proven guys with reviews, even if the reviews don't say much.  at least they have some sort of track record to weed out the flakes.  And I never ask about information already posted on their ads or other until a date is set.  Not looking for a complicated or long return text, but just the silence is amazing from guys looking to make money.  I guess there is not much anyone can offer but is frustrating when I get a chance to hire ($$$$) and can't find anyone. 

I really don't care what they are "expecting".  Actually I was just at what is oxymoronic, a moderate priced restaurant on the Vegas Strip- $40 entrees,  and for a party of 7 they added the tip, as expected, and only 18%.   And I strongly object to using the post tax amount for the basis.   Sales tax is for the state, as someone noted, businesses don't charge it, they collect it for the state,  and it has no relationship to the meal served.    I was talking about tipping more at Denny's but does the server work any harder to serve you a $50 bottle of wine than and $500 bottle, or do they just have a bigger grin because of the tip they expect and had how much work is that anyway and you are going to tip $100 to bring a bottle to the table.?   The whole system is insane.     

I live in Vegas and have been trying to hire.  It does not seem to matter,  text or phone message,  if I ask for a date /time and if you host ( where- major intersection ) or out,  followed up by or just state that I am a local  (and if this is not good), when are you available in general like only work nights or weekends  so I know when to ask for.   And  these guys are long time RM as I only hire proven guys with reviews, even if the reviews don't say much.  at least they have some sort of track record to weed out the flakes.  And I never ask about information already posted on their ads or other until a date is set.  Not looking for a complicated or long return text, but just the silence is amazing from guys looking to make money.  I guess there is not much anyone can offer but is frustrating when I get a chance to hire ($$$$) and can't find anyone. 

The tax situations and all the rest of the stuff you quoted is really irrelevant.  You are paying for a service.  What your income/tax situation and what the provider does has no bearing on the provider and if you tip or not. 

There is a difference between tipping an independent provider and tipping an employee, like a server in a restaurant or the massage therapist in a Massage Envy.  The provider sets the rates for his services and should set them at a level that he is satisfied with.   If there is a day where he provides an extra service or exceeds the indicated time, then a tip would be in order.  If you are paying $150 or 200 for a massage, he should be satisfied with that.  If not he should charge more, not pay tipping games.  Maybe you should find another therapist if he is not satisfied with you paying his fee.  

So what if you recognize each other?  You will both have a confidence to keep about each other.  I ran into a long time friend at a bathhouse.  We had a chat about our closeted lives and when we knew we were bi.  But after that day, we have said nothing to each other about it. 

So what if you recognize each other?  You will both have a confidence to keep about each other.  I ran into a long time friend at a bathhouse.  We had a chat about our closeted lives and when we knew we were bi.  But after that day, we have said nothing to each other about it. 

The tax situations and all the rest of the stuff you quoted is really irrelevant.  You are paying for a service.  What your income/tax situation and what the provider does has no bearing on the provider and if you tip or not. 

There is a difference between tipping an independent provider and tipping an employee, like a server in a restaurant or the massage therapist in a Massage Envy.  The provider sets the rates for his services and should set them at a level that he is satisfied with.   If there is a day where he provides an extra service or exceeds the indicated time, then a tip would be in order.  If you are paying $150 or 200 for a massage, he should be satisfied with that.  If not he should charge more, not pay tipping games.  Maybe you should find another therapist if he is not satisfied with you paying his fee.  

No but I only use providers with a solid history on rentmen so I have no worries. 

One guy in Las Vegas quoted me $600 for a hour, I passed.  He is quite hot but no fuck is worth that kind of money

I just hired a guy.  Almost fell through because he told me no kissing and no oral.  I told him that the I could live with the no oral by him, ( I really was more interested in giving anyway, but no kissing was a deal killer.  He reconsidered as he had been getting colds and felt that was the cause,  but I guess he needed the job.   But he apparently gets enough work to  pay his bills.  But the thing that puzzles me the most is that while a top, he provides a BFE experience.  Who doesn't kiss their boyfriend?

A good escort will act so as to let you believe that you are the center of his earth.  As a client, when I see such an ad, I run the other way.  As I am neither, I would fear that this guy would not be able to be let me delude myself that his is as into me as I want to believe he is.  

After many many years of hiring 2-3x a year, I only rebooked once and he was a disappointment the second time due to things taking off in his career including porn.  Finally found a guy and have rebooked him.   It is emotionally exhausting trying to figure out if  and how you fit into this guys  MO for want of a better term.  No matter how much you communicate, escorts, particularly on a first meeting have their game plan that they fall back on.  While they might flip or flop on an activity to accommodate you, they have a way they function.   Escorts have their quirks and often ignore when you ask.  One guy I found out too late wouldn't kiss, for his BF only.  Another would let you top him but no fingers.    While it is also exciting to try new adventures, there is a great comfort in finding someone where you know the connection exists and the meeting will be physically and emotionally satisfying.  

After many many years of hiring 2-3x a year, I only rebooked once and he was a disappointment the second time due to things taking off in his career including porn.  Finally found a guy and have rebooked him.   It is emotionally exhausting trying to figure out if  and how you fit into this guys  MO for want of a better term.  No matter how much you communicate, escorts, particularly on a first meeting have their game plan that they fall back on.  While they might flip or flop on an activity to accommodate you, they have a way they function.   Escorts have their quirks and often ignore when you ask.  One guy I found out too late wouldn't kiss, for his BF only.  Another would let you top him but no fingers.    While it is also exciting to try new adventures, there is a great comfort in finding someone where you know the connection exists and the meeting will be physically and emotionally satisfying.  

A good escort will act so as to let you believe that you are the center of his earth.  As a client, when I see such an ad, I run the other way.  As I am neither, I would fear that this guy would not be able to be let me delude myself that his is as into me as I want to believe he is.  

A good escort will act so as to let you believe that you are the center of his earth.  As a client, when I see such an ad, I run the other way.  As I am neither, I would fear that this guy would not be able to be let me delude myself that his is as into me as I want to believe he is.  

As one of the guilty as to not cumming at times or even being able to maintain an erection.  You can still have a great time.  Sex is as much or maybe more about the connection than the body parts.  It has been said that the biggers se organ is the brain.  Sometimes I have an emotional climax with my buddy, we reach an intense level of emotional intensity and then take a break.  But cumming is not always in the cards and at my age that is OK.    

Since RM only allows premium members to write reviews I don't have that problem.   But I would only write negatively about objective criteria, not if there was not "connection" as long as I felt the guy was "showing up" and not mailing it in.  

As one of the guilty as to not cumming at times or even being able to maintain an erection.  You can still have a great time.  Sex is as much or maybe more about the connection than the body parts.  It has been said that the biggers se organ is the brain.  Sometimes I have an emotional climax with my buddy, we reach an intense level of emotional intensity and then take a break.  But cumming is not always in the cards and at my age that is OK.    

As one of the guilty as to not cumming at times or even being able to maintain an erection.  You can still have a great time.  Sex is as much or maybe more about the connection than the body parts.  It has been said that the biggers se organ is the brain.  Sometimes I have an emotional climax with my buddy, we reach an intense level of emotional intensity and then take a break.  But cumming is not always in the cards and at my age that is OK.    

The price for escorts will continue to fluctuate based on supply and demand.   The biggest issue is the total lack of transparency, no one actually knows what the market is.    You set your price based on the amount of business you want and how much business you are getting.   Too busy, you can raise your rates, not busy enough you may want to lower them.  It might mean that you do have to see more customers to make what you want.  But for many this is a what ever I have left at the end of the month type of expense and this will affect what they are willing to or can pay.  

The price for escorts will continue to fluctuate based on supply and demand.   The biggest issue is the total lack of transparency, no one actually knows what the market is.    You set your price based on the amount of business you want and how much business you are getting.   Too busy, you can raise your rates, not busy enough you may want to lower them.  It might mean that you do have to see more customers to make what you want.  But for many this is a what ever I have left at the end of the month type of expense and this will affect what they are willing to or can pay.