HotWhiteThirties

Lol, I suspect that he is not the only person to have added a trip to Las Vegas to their to-do list because certain gentlemen are there!

I’m sure you’re correct!!! Considerate, kind, and sincere communication is much appreciated by many of us - and creates repeat opportunities when the connection is there. It’s always refreshing to find those providers who value it as well; it makes the entire interaction very rewarding. At least to me - and hopefully to them as well. I know it may not be of utmost importance to everyone, but I would guess it is to a lot of us out here. Best wishes to Mr. “Hung” and those who seek to provide their services with professionalism and fun!

Yes Sir, I believe that you have just described the best call to "action" here!

Look forward to a future opportunity to connect. Thank you for your thoughtful contributions. I appreciate reading them. Cheers!

And there is more than RM email to be used for email communication. I usually offer a separate email account to the provider to use instead of RM after intial contact is made. I understand the issues of the RM system and why it is frustrating to both provider and client.

Interesting...

I don't text with clients for the most part but it depends on the particular person too. Obviously someone I know for 10 years gets a different approach, but I don't even post my phone number in my ad. I actually prefer email interaction, since you can express yourself better and many times clients prefer to explain at lengths of what a great session would entail for them which I highly welcome because it makes my job easier and makes our encounter a lot more enjoyable in the end. Furthermore, I can attend to emails whenever I have time and don't feel pressure by unanswered texts and to top it all off, I also prefer privacy when it comes to giving out phone numbers, so it is definitely a two-way street.

As a client, this approach has yielded the best results overall of maintaining privacy as well as developing understanding when interacting with a provider. I can’t always text and am not in an environment where my phone is completely in my own hands. I understand the advice for google voice and I agree with it, but I appreciate providers who understand this like @peterhung85, and, at least for me, providers who understand and are comfortable interacting in that way tend to be good matches for me. @peterhung85, I guess that means I need to find my way to Las Vegas.

If your intention is clarity, as well as efficiency, the Oxford Comma can accommodate. Why have to constantly take the time to make the judgment for its use? When writing a series of 3 or more, do the reader a favor, be clear every time, and reduce the risk of ambiguity or requiring the reader to ‘re-read’ a series you’ve written to be sure they’ve got it correct. Simply use a comma before “and.” This way you can chalk it up to being considerate of others, even if it otherwise disturbs your sensibilities.

And now that we’ve sufficiently debated the use of a comma, you can return to your regularly scheduled programming of discussing periods and the amount of space needed between one’s self and women when they have them, and/or when we type. Whichever interpretation you prefer. :p:p

In junior high school typing class, I was taught 2 spaces after a period, always. Still do it today, sometimes, out of habit, even in texts.

Same here, two spaces after periods. Still do it in texts and anywhere else. Just a habit. I am also staunchly pro-Oxford Comma!

Glad we finally have this question answered....the sleepless nights are often too much to endure in the absence of this factoid. Well, unless of course those sleepless nights involve a gentleman like you. And now, to go weigh my pennies....:D

Penis predicaments make me queasy, but I will say that those who use pumps too much end up with over-stretched skin when flaccid. If you like an uncut look as a cut guy, there's your solution.

Then sign me up, Scotty, cause I am still a bit miffed that my parents snipped me from the way God intended, and gave me no say in the matter!!! :p:p:D:D:D

I'm happy to refer clients to escorts I know personally... And I've had them refer people to me in return. I'd rather partner with fellow sex workers as well...

This. I think this is the attitude that makes the most sense. Being in a service business myself, it’s true there is competition, but it truly is refreshing to be able to support colleagues and other professionals. You realize you’re not an island and you can help others in the process.

Saw his profile the other day and was curious. Hopefully someone with a recent experience will chime in?

Yes. One of my first overnights. It never stopped. Bless his heart, it went on all. Night. Long. Gentle nudges provided about 5 seconds of silence. Super nice guy, but I got no rest that night and it wasn’t only because of the obvious reasons.

I ended up meeting with Ethan Rocks instead

If you don’t mind my asking, in your opinion and experience, did Ethan Rocks live up to his monicker?

Who is the bottom equivalent of him? Lol... I’m in Chicago Saturday night and can’t find anyone :/

I am curious to know the answer to this as well!!! Anyone?

Funny. I was just wondering why he doesn't garner more attention. He appears to br s true stud. If I lived near him, I'd be all over him.

I think Alex is one of those professionals who gets the attention he wants. When you meet him, you quickly realize that he is the sort of guy who is low key and can keep a lot of repeat clients. Very stable guy, and I think also has work outside of his work in this realm.

As for the OP’s requirements....Alex gets an A+ in my experience on all counts.

If you feel like you want to try other things besides massage I would recommend hiring an escort who also specializes in massage. It would suck a whole lot worse to work up all the nerve to do this and hire a guy who does massage but won’t take it farther and you realize in the moment that you WOULD like to. Make the choice that provides you a variety of options and good luck!

Consider @tylerthebadwolf. I don’t think you can go wrong there. He’s based in NYC. He has an extensive website that will answer A LOT of questions. ULTRA professional, intelligent, well-spoken, and discreet. Hot AF too! Just google “TylertheBadWolf.”

Raising hand as another fan of Alex Ward!!! Geez Louise! So glad I met him...twice...on my last trip to Chicago. Such a warm and personable guy in person. Wouldn’t hesitate to book again!

My multi-hour discount is probably going to apply to everyone once I start the new client fee. I may also re-arrange my session rates entirely by taking a page out of Tyler The Bad Wolf’s book.

 

The reason for the fee is because it’s taking more and more of my time to vet, verify new clients and weed out the bad apples, especially with the passing of SESTA / FOSTA.

Well, @Kurtis Wolfe , I hope to spend some time with you as a new client some day soon. And @tylerthebadwolf is a fantastic person in this business as well. If you approach the business like him, all I can say is I’m already a fan!!! He’s a total class act! Right now, it looks like I will be in Boston late October/early November, if you take up @freecahill1965 ’s invitation to Boston around that time, my decision on a provider may have been made.

i think that that response above was again more from naivety than from arrogance. he is a super sweet guy. sometimes alpha males say things that come out totally the wrong way...which in itself is kind of cute!

Thank you for posting your positive experience! I agree, it’s sometimes hard to tell from written words the attitude of a person. Sounds like a genuinely stellar guy who would be wonderful to spend time with and get to know. Now, to find a “business need” to require travel to Vegas...

No doubt he is ultra attractive and if he really connects with a client then I’m sure he’ll be successful. Still, this question and his answer made me chuckle:

What distinguishes you from all the other people you know?

I’m more humble with a less ego. Knowing that I look a lot better than most of my competition I don’t let it get to my head

I guess that’s humble. No question he’s better looking that most in the muscle stud way, hopefully he has the personality to match = the complete package.

Best of luck to him! Look forward to reading how it goes for those who spend time with him.

The sad news is that the lady they pulled back into the plane unfortunately was unable to survive.

 

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I read that as well! Such an horrific and terrifying event!

And there I was reading bfe to mean boyfriend experience, while @Pbotter meant Bumfuck Egypt.

Same here! Talk about a double entendre!

@HotWhiteThirties your picture should be in this thread too!

 

Wow! What a nice compliment from an expert!

I consider it an honor . :D;)

 

 

Previous thread before he changed his name.

Thank you!

Bump. I’m curious as well! Perhaps a working link would help:

https://rent.men/SeanBenjaminDC