HotWhiteThirties

You know, @freecahill1965, when I created that moniker several years ago, I didn’t think about the time when it would no longer be true. That time is coming on faster than I imagined.

Correct! Working with a hot guy in his thirties is a beautiful thing.

Hahahahaha! I think the edited version does have merit.

:p:p

This helps me think of a response if I’m ever posed with a similar question in response to a rate request. Is this respectful enough without being too nasty?

“I wouldn’t dream of guessing what your time is worth. To me, you are a far better judge of that than me. If you happen to make that determination anytime soon, do let me know. And while it seems like we would be a good match, I respect your time and will continue to pursue other options as opposed to wasting your time any further unless I hear something different from you. I wish you the best in your business.”

Too cheeky?

Feel free to turn my table.

Ha! I am planning my first trip to Bean Town later this year, actually. Isn’t that your stomping ground?

You look way hotter than.that guy maybe he should pay you.

Haha! Thanks @freecahill1965 ! You think so? I wouldn’t mind turning the tables every now and then. Hehe.

Actually, I DID search. Came up with no results. I placed a space in the name apparently and it came up nil. Thanks.

Anyone have any experiences to report regarding this guy?

https://rentmen.eu/LeviTucker/

Has several RM reviews.

In addition to the points made above, a red flag for me is where the escort's ad says he is "visiting the city," but doesn't use the city's name.

I also have some suspicions when they are traveling to multiple cities across the globe on the same dates.

For me I have a couple of things that have led to very good hiring experiences:

1) Multiple photos. If they only have one or two, I pass.

2) Do they have any reviews on RM or whatever site. If it’s 4 or less and then all happened very close to one another I’m suspicious. If it’s more, I go farther and keep investigating.

3) I read their statements in their profile or interview. Do they seem articulate? Responsible? Concerned about connecting? Professional? For instance is their screen name “BigDickDallas?” If so, I’ll probably pass. That sounds like the “wham bam thank ya ma’am “ sort, which isn’t my type. (If it’s yours, that’s up to you.) Basically, I know what I like, and I can tell by the non verbal cues (ie flipping the world off in photos - I’ll pass on that, etc.)

4) Assuming the above checks out, I do research on here, Daddy’s, google, etc. Assuming those sources indicate a positive meeting, I go to the next step.

5) I reach out to them in MY preferred method, and provide a detailed account of what I’m looking for. If I get broken sentences as a response or limited response, I move on. For me, I like to have a good, positive connection. Obviously, if there is no courtesy reply, I move on.

I haven’t made many mistakes doing the above.

Best wishes on your search!

If it worked, I couldn’t tell it, and after all, isn’t that the point? By the standards of those who promote the procedure, I was text book for great success (ie, I was in decent shape and had a couple stubborn areas hanging on, but nothing major.)

Total. Waste. Of. Money.

Basically, if it won’t burn off with deficit caloric intake and exercise, best I can tell, having it sucked out is the most effective, albeit invasive, method.

I'm referring to Patricknyc. I'm debating if I should hire him because he's over 6' and I don't prefer that but he looks so dreamy.

 

https://rent.men/PatrickNYC

Us over 6’ guys aren’t all that bad! Take the plunge! He is quite a specimen.

Patricknyc is too tall for me. Looking for 6’ and under.

Looks Georgeous. Very tempted

I’m confused. Which is it?

Then again, it’s easy to get confused on this thread. Let me just say, again, I wouldn’t refuse time with either of the Patrick’s. I would welcome it. Hehe.

Somehow, I missed seeing this thread when it started. Thanks fellas! Massage videos are my favorite.

https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/patrick-york-anyone.122793/

 

Gman

Are you suggesting that the two Patricks are the same? I’m not seeing it other than the style of the writing. The pictures are similar, but seem different. If so, one Patrick is larger and taller than the other. I would welcome a visit from him and/or either of them.

This was interesting. Thanks for the link, @Tygerscent!

My results:

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==

100% Switch

87% Voyeur

69% Non-monogamist

67% Exhibitionist

62% Rigger

60% Primal (Hunter)

60% Dominant

58% Master/Mistress

56% Vanilla

56% Brat tamer

56% Brat

53% Primal (Prey)

52% Owner

48% Experimentalist

43% Daddy/Mommy

41% Submissive

40% Sadist

39% Boy/Girl

38% Degrader

28% Ageplayer

28% Slave

23% Rope bunny

17% Masochist

7% Degradee

1% Pet

I did a search for this guy on the forum and it popped up a little information to lead me to believe he’s worth engaging, but curious if anyone has had a recent experience? Any details would be appreciated. Feel free to PM if you are more comfortable. Thanks in advance!

https://rentmen.eu/LatinoMuse

As a client I do take the time to write down everything, in full sentences. I take the time to ask for availability and other questions I have. What’s disappointing is when you take the time to write all of it and get a one word response like “Yes” or “ok”. I’m not even sure to which of my questions he was responding. I just move on to the next masseur on my list and go through the same process. Thank heavens for copy and paste.

I agree with this, and feel much the same. To me, taking the care to write a complete thought (come on guys, it really isn’t that difficult to do for most people) by both client inquiring and provider responding is one of the first and easiest ways to demonstrate respect. I believe it helps lay the groundwork for a better experience all around.

I have not yet set up an hour meeting. The shortest meeting I schedule is 3 hours and usually it’s a 4 hour meetings so we can get to know each other and not feel rushed. Am I strange for doing so?

I’m with you. For me, if I can’t swing at least 2 to 3 hours, then I’ll wait until I can!

Nothing has been left out of the thread I posted. I cut and pasted from the RM mail page.

Just wanted to be sure. It is unhinged sort of behavior. Glad you can avoid this guy and best wishes on finding someone to help you continue your journey.

135 pounds, huh? I might break him. I’d be concerned enough about that to avoid the risk of hiring him anyway - even if he is a fake. Photos are definitely pinging the “too good to be true” alarms!

Mr. North does not sound like a stable person, though I am curious if any of the OPs texts have been omitted because the escalation seems out of no where. A couple others have commented the same thing, so I hope in fairness, the OP will elaborate on that question. (I’m not saying there were omissions, just the nature of the escalation is sudden - which if that’s the case - then it’s even more egregious.)

I know providers get annoying texts and it’s hard to decipher the time wasters and it puts them in a position of being defensive. At the same time, there are MANY successful providers who can professionally tolerate a few extra questions and understand the nervousness that engaging in this activity might create for a client. The mark of a true professional!!!

Regardless, the information on Mr. North is s helpful. Ain’t nobody got time for that kind of behavior! I wouldn’t have lasted as long as the OP! Just crazy!

The RM approach to review management seems pretty haphazard. I’m not sure they are automatically removing bad reviews, even from featured providers. Jesse Jaymes has a 1-star review on RM, and that little scammer is hugely popular.

 

I take RM reviews with a grain of salt. There is some benefit though in looking for positive patterns such as repeat meetings and consistent dates.

Agree. I look for repeating patterns as well.

Haven’t been asked to order an Uber for a provider, but I did one time actually have a kind provider order a Lyft for me when I was leaving his place! It was right when Lyft was coming on the scene as a competitor to Uber and he was telling me about them and just said, “Here, I’ll order you one.” I told him he didn’t have to, but he insisted and did so before I could stop him. (Of course this followed an extended appointment that I fully paid for and there was a good connection.) I felt it was a very kind gesture, and it resulted in me hiring him again as a result (along with many other positive attributes).

Incidentally, I did not let him paying for it stand, and reimbursed him the amount before leaving. Still, he booked it with no commitment on my part to pay which I thought was being quite a gentleman. There are some excellent professionals out there!

And the truth is, when a provider is exceedingly difficult to communicate with, or has a lot of rules and barriers for communicating in a way that I am comfortabke initiating contact, I tend to take the view that they have done me a favor as well as themselves in some regards, and saved us both time by sending me the message that we would likely not be a good match.

For me, the operative word here is "client." Good client service would include, IMHO, a willingness to adapt to the means of communication preferred by the client, within reason. Yes, telegram and fax and quill & parchment are out, but both email and text seem reasonable to me. Escorts who won't ever email simply close off a portion of the market for themselves.

I always believe in respecting the provider, but I agree with you in spirit. I am in a service industry where clients and customer communications can be in the hundreds each day as well. I receive them through a variety of mechanisms. Do I prefer ones to others, absolutely! Do I ever demand that those potential clients and customers only communicate with me in my desired method?? Absolutely, not! And they never know that it annoys me - they have reached out to me in the way that is comfortable for them. Are some of them wasting time, yes. I guess I consider it an occupational hazard. All within reason, though. Disrespect and hostility - or trying to get something for nothing - is not something anyone can tolerate. That’s understandable.