Actually, to extend the metaphor, even if you don’t fly the car, having that power gives you bragging rights and a feeling of superiority over those land-only vehicles.
Likewise, a thick-cocked masseur gives the client something to get excited about. The gay massage experience is mostly about anticipation for many of us who like the will he/won’t he drama. So wondering if it will get hard or just being able to gaze at it ain’t nothing. Even just something to touch now and then.
The goods don’t always have to be used.