Keith30309

Do you have a link to the profile of the guy you met? I think that the subject of this thread was a pretty young guy...

I’d probably be inclined to err toward having more positive than negative icons because there’s greater risk of misunderstandings with ambiguous symbols. If I want to make a comment that could be interpreted negatively then perhaps it’s best I use words to do so. For example: Agree - nodding ✅ Insightful - lightbulb ? Funny - clown ?

I rarely hire massseurs but had a last minute schedule change and so I met Raul in Houston https://rentmasseur.com/RaulHTX EDIT -> https://rentmasseur.com/RaulCHI I enjoyed our time... nice guy. I’d rehire if I were looking for an erotic massage.

This may not be for everyone on this Forum so stop reading if this thread isn't your thing. A couple of days ago I was with a young trans guy (about 23...?) with whom I had some play that edged toward the "energetic" (his request) and he bled a tiny bit inside. He got really upset and disappeared to the bathroom for a few minutes. When he returned he said 1) this hadn't happened in over a year (he has been taking hormones longer than that), and, 2) he hated his body. I assured him that it was likely the result of my overly-aggressive play rather than something systemic. I'm not sure he was convinced and remained fairly subdued the rest of the night and next morning. Question: if someone remains on hormones and hasn't menstruated in over a year is it possible it would reoccur? I'd like to see him again and will take it easy but would like to know a little bit more about this.

I had a second meeting with this guy (unplanned... a hired companion vanished an hour before our meeting) and he happened to be available. A little trust goes a long way and it went really well. We had a good discussion about his interests. He shared a few things with me and I think I understand a little more about the physical and mental elements of play that turns him on. There's a relatively small area of about an 8" radius surrounding his bellybutton that is his hot spot. I pinned him against the wall and then to the bed and explored every part of his torso with a hard knuckle... the line beneath his ribs... along his sternum... around to his kidneys... down to the spot over his bladder and along his hip bones. He jerked off as I was exploring and his core was the hot-button that really worked for him. I'm working on the mental part. I tried a few different verbal approaches and none seemed to be much of a trigger. Physical manifestations of dominance, like pinning his arms over his head and straddling his chest naked seemed to be the most effective. He did seem to enjoy exploring my torso with his palms (he'd asked if I would be interested in being punched and I declined but assured him that touching was great. Interestingly, his hands never went above my neck or below my waist.) It was my hope to move past the pure gut-punch part of the experience and explore the emotional stuff but he wasn't very chatty during our time; afterward he seemed embarrassed by his interest and not eager to talk about it. He did seem genuinely appreciative of someone who didn't think his interest was odd or weird. (Actually I think it's fascinating). I never got off during our time but it was interesting and I'd like to explore more about this. I really want to figure out his emotional hot buttons to mix it in with the physical part. He seemed very interested, so, Yea !

Nice. Perhaps a quick spell-check of the T&R's.

Any functional Easter eggs hidden in here ?

Be well all.

I spent a couple of hours with Evan. He’s a sweet guy and pics are 100% accurate. PM for info.

For me it was just interesting. I was totally focused on him and never really eroticized it for myself. I don’t think I could. He was a nice, smart, good looking guy and I could go for him if the circumstances were different. I’m really amazed at the punishment he took.

Welllll. That was interesting. This guy just left my room and I’m exhausted. I’m pretty amazed... I hit him really hard for over an hour, digging my knuckles into the same spots over and over while he jerked office. If I did that more often I’d be in better shape.

He travels around allot. He was in Atlanta not long ago. He’s very focused and is 100% into it.

His profile is gone. I met him a while back... very sharp guy. His Twitter might suggest his current interests- https://twitter.com/arikoyotexxx

Spent the evening with Colton. Nice guy and smoking hot body. Recommended. PM for details.

Absolutely. I’ve seen situations where a classy, professional response made a guy more attractive to me than he otherwise would have been.

Absolutely. I’ve seen situations where a classy, professional response made a guy more attractive to me than he otherwise would have been.

Traveling all about. It sounds like they are client-focused? I’ve met couples who are more into each other and it’s a little awkward.

Good discussion. What other ideas do people have that Guy and/or members can reasonably implement that will sustain a healthy Political forum ? Someone out there has a great idea in their head. Unzip and let it hang out.

+1 A good guy

<fast-forward bump> Still in Houston... anyone met him lately ? From 2014:

Oh wow!!! Blast from the past! One of the very first companions I ever met is back ! JACKSONATL

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I used to meet him for 2 hours every week for a while when he was in Atlanta and had an escort profile. I always enjoyed our time.

This is interesting I’ve not seen a single person say there isn’t a problem... or even major differences of opinion on what the problem is. Perhaps there are different thoughts on the root cause of the problem. But the discussion is encouraging in that a reasonable group of people who agree on a problem can surely devise a solution. How about three suggestions of actionable, reasonable solutions and a vote on them as a recommendation to G.F. ? Three ideas, 1. Amend the Terms and Rules Cooper mentions to more directly and aggressively address ad hominem attackers. Moderators continue to monitor and take appropriate action. 2. Immediately repurpose “Report” such that any member can call attention to a post they feel contains “Any personal remark about another poster that could reasonably be regarded as an intentional insult”. 3. Kindly request G.F. investigate enhancements to the software that will allow for crowd-sourcing feedback on posts that violate amended Terms and Rules - I.e., introduction of buttons for “agree”, “disagree” and “foul”. I’m certain that others have some great, practical ideas.

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