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I read an interview in which he said that the tat was in honor of his mother, who was born that year.

I know this is very specific, but I figured I'd throw it out there. I love guys with three attributes: big, swollen nipples, lots of foreskin and nicely used hole. I'm in NY state, but am open to out-of-towners. Any suggestions would be appreciated. Thanks.

I wouldn't mind meeting Vander Pulaski!

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I'm also a fat guy (I own the word) who has navigated the same choppy waters as you. The key for me, both in dating and hiring, began with accepting myself just as I was/am and you can't get there with an "if only" mentality. It starts today, not after you've lost 100 lbs or anything else. As for dating, you should try sites such as biggercity or chasabl where you will be welcome and fully embraced. I like to swim in a pool of friendly fish.
 
The same goes for hiring escorts. I'm a realist. While I'm comfortable in my own skin, I also understand there are lots of guys who have "preferences" regarding size, age. race, etc. By putting it out there first, you can almost guarantee a good hire. Why should you have to? You don't. It just makes sense if you want a satisfactory experience. As was mentioned, there are a number of escorts who state that they are open to all shapes and sizes. Another way of vetting is to peruse daddy's reviews and look at the comments. Some of the guys that I have hired had glowing comments from gentlemen of size. There's even one guy, who I've yet to hire, who states clearly that his speciality is obese men (https://rent.men/MikeGaite/). All this to say that there are options available to you. Just open the door and walk through. Good luck.

I'm also a fat guy (I own the word) who has navigated the same choppy waters as you. The key for me, both in dating and hiring, began with accepting myself just as I was/am and you can't get there with an "if only" mentality. It starts today, not after you've lost 100 lbs or anything else. As for dating, you should try sites such as biggercity or chasabl where you will be welcome and fully embraced. I like to swim in a pool of friendly fish.
 
The same goes for hiring escorts. I'm a realist. While I'm comfortable in my own skin, I also understand there are lots of guys who have "preferences" regarding size, age. race, etc. By putting it out there first, you can almost guarantee a good hire. Why should you have to? You don't. It just makes sense if you want a satisfactory experience. As was mentioned, there are a number of escorts who state that they are open to all shapes and sizes. Another way of vetting is to peruse daddy's reviews and look at the comments. Some of the guys that I have hired had glowing comments from gentlemen of size. There's even one guy, who I've yet to hire, who states clearly that his speciality is obese men (https://rent.men/MikeGaite/). All this to say that there are options available to you. Just open the door and walk through. Good luck.

I'm also a fat guy (I own the word) who has navigated the same choppy waters as you. The key for me, both in dating and hiring, began with accepting myself just as I was/am and you can't get there with an "if only" mentality. It starts today, not after you've lost 100 lbs or anything else. As for dating, you should try sites such as biggercity or chasabl where you will be welcome and fully embraced. I like to swim in a pool of friendly fish.
 
The same goes for hiring escorts. I'm a realist. While I'm comfortable in my own skin, I also understand there are lots of guys who have "preferences" regarding size, age. race, etc. By putting it out there first, you can almost guarantee a good hire. Why should you have to? You don't. It just makes sense if you want a satisfactory experience. As was mentioned, there are a number of escorts who state that they are open to all shapes and sizes. Another way of vetting is to peruse daddy's reviews and look at the comments. Some of the guys that I have hired had glowing comments from gentlemen of size. There's even one guy, who I've yet to hire, who states clearly that his speciality is obese men (https://rent.men/MikeGaite/). All this to say that there are options available to you. Just open the door and walk through. Good luck.

I hear you. I'm glad he has the life he wanted. I know that porn can, indeed, grind 'em up and spit 'em out. I read some interviews where he indicated he was looking forward to a long career. Perhaps the reality wasn't what he hoped for.