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Deepthroating a big dick is one of my favorite things. I like a top who responds to non-verbal signals - like laying my hand on him with a tiny bit of backward pressure, or just a hand in the air. A lot of times, that sort of connection just isn't there.

It is a business that operates at the margins - pure, unregulated capitalism. Buyer beware. Making a hire who isn't what he promised is a risk of playing in this market.

I'm not sure I agree that it's an important film, but definitely an engaging film. Of course no film is going to appeal to everyone, but the pointed declarations of non-interest are curious.

Excellent film . I’m glad 😃 I watched it. I loved the conversation between Nancy and Leo in which she tries to save him from himself-never mind that she’s the one who hired him. It reminds me of the snarky posts on here full of fake concern-“doesn’t he know that he has a shelf life? Doesn’t he know that those tats are going to look a lot different in ten years?”

I've been working on perfecting my pumpkin pie. I love pumpkin pie, but Ive never liked the thin, soggy bottom crust that pumpkin pies tend to have, so I've been pre-baking the crust. That works well, but the edges tend to get overbaked. I got some pie shields to keep the edge from getting overbaked. The last one I made was nearly perfect - the crust was crunchy all the way through. It was almost out of this world, but not quite. My next improvement, which I haven't tried yet, is to seal the bottom by brushing it with egg white before I pre-bake it to keep it from absorbing any moisture from the custard. It will be good for custard pies also. I like to do that, take one thing and make it over and over until it's perfect.

A long time ago, I knew this guy who was a bus mechanic for the regional transportation district - total stud - tall, muscular, ruggedly handsome. He would cruise the parks wearing a ripped T-shirt with grease smudges on his face. I was completely taken with him. One day, I mentioned him to a friend and my friend told me that the guy told everybody that he was an orthopedic surgeon and that he had left medicine because he got disgusted with all the politicking. I didn't believe it - I just couldn't believe that anyone would have the chutzpah to try to pull that off. I had to find out, so I started chasing the guy. I ended up getting together with him at a bathhouse and, sure enough, he told me that story about how he had given up being an orthopedic surgeon in disgust at all the bullshit doctors had to put up with. Couldn't believe it. The thing was, I loved sex with the guy - he was hung big, muscles, the works, and he was a bottom. I thought maybe I could put up with his fabrications in order to have great sex with such a stud. Alas, Couldn't do it. Every time, I saw him, I got more disgusted with him, because the story just got bigger and bigger. I didn't confront him - I just started keeping him at arm's length and he eventually went away.

He looks pretty good, I might be tempted to bite, if he were closer.

I see, you had more information than what he provides in his profile. In biotech and pharma, MD/PhDs are fairly common, but it does seem a stretch.

He says he has a doctorate in the medical field. That might be an MD, but it could be a PharmD, A doctor of physical therapy, a PhD in nursing, all kinds of things. He also says he’s getting a second doctorate- not necessarily a PhD. There are lots and lots of professional doctorates that are not PhDs. Whatever it is, I find driven men very sexy, especially when they can squirt a lot of loads.

No of course the software doesn't give you any screening tools. But I form an impression of a guy from his pictures and his personal description. I have always had a talent for reading between the lines. I wont say I am never wrong about somebody, but I trust my instincts. For example, talking about education, if a guy gives an impression that he thinks his education is more significant than it is, that, to me, is a red flag for self-esteem issues.

And yet, somehow, those highly intelligent people who can't tie their own shoes do amazing science that changes the world, they form billion dollar companies, they get Nobel prizes. How could that be?

Many years ago, on Thanksgiving day, I picked an extraordinarily cute guy up in a park. He was just a vision - muscles for days, hairy chest and arms. And very submissive. He would do anything he was told. But he was also not the sharpest knife in the drawer. He made his living as an exterminator and he told me that, as a hobby, he collected salt and pepper shakers. I asked him how he decided to collect salt and pepper shakers and he said, "I don't know. I figured I needed a hobby, so I decided to collect salt & pepper shakers." He was great sex, I should have had a great time, But I didn't. He was so dumb that I couldn't rid myself of the feeling that I was exploiting him. He wanted to come back - I wanted him to come back but I hated that feeling that I was exploiting him, so we never met up again.

Because you're spending a lot of time talking about it. I suspect some clients prefer someone of lesser intelligence because it is easier to feel superior to them.

I'm a patent attorney. About a year ago, I met a hookup who was absolutely enthralled with the intricacies of patent law.

Maybe intelligence isn't a premium for you. Otherwise you would have found a way to screen the less intelligent ones.

They have to start somewhere - why not say that you are educated? I assume someone who says he is educated has at least a four-year degree. I have noticed thought, that the more degrees a person has, the less they are impressed by their own degrees.

I don't think I have met a provider that I didn't think was smarter than average. I'm not that interested in how many degrees they have so it doesn't ever come up. But it is always a pleasure to have hot sex with a guy who is extra smart.

But also, she just dismissed it as silly - no drama, nothing personal, she didn't come to any conclusions about his character or the way he used his time., or whether it was bad that he was trying to be different.

When I do a show, I get a mani/pedicure and a coat of clear polish. I love it. It makes me sad when it wears off.

Im neutral as far as most colors - I can take or leave it. but a man with black nails - whoa. I'm thinking of trying it myself.

Lying about one's age seems to be common in the hookup world too. I have a FB whose profile says he is 55, and I found out recently that he is 60. I'm told that 60 is sort of a glass ceiling. It doesn't matter how hot you are or how young you look, 60 is a deal-killer. So there all these men on hook up sites who give their age as 55 or so, who are actually 60 - 60+. I'm a young 70, but I can't imagine trying to pass for 55.

I have known two guys with a history of kidney stones. They both drink plenty of water

Both of these guys are very interesting. I have been considering play with a trans-man but haven't done it yet. A trans-man, though, doesn't fulfill the fantasy I described - a cis-man who has a vagina. They do exist, but they are scarce. There is the guy I chatted with in LV who has disappeared. And there is Joe Mangina - a mtf, who then changed his mind and went back to being a cis man. He lives in Socal and I have chatted with him a couple times - he is quite a stud - big muscles, hairy chest - and a gorgeous surgical pussy.

And getting bigger all the time.

I would certainly look him up. Thanks so much.