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One thing I’ve learned over the years… you can’t implement every suggestion provided. But all suggestions will be reviewed and considered. It’s not personal… it just may not fit into the overall strategy for the site and make sense when looking at a larger picture. On its own, any idea can sound promising, but the devil is in the details.

I have a feeling this may end up being closed… but rather than doing so preemptively I’m going to give it a chance. If it can be kept out of the political arena, it can remain open.

Well... this gets even more interesting by the day I suppose. Jestwink has attempted to escalate this further. I happen to poke by the PO Box today and received the following letter. I've scanned it in its entirety without any masking. I'll just add a few comments here... I've reviewed this with my lawyer and he literally laughed out loud after reading it. I checked the California Bar's website and there are exactly 5 names anywhere near "Joseph Regan". Three are deceased, one is inactive (not practicing law for over 20 years), and the only one active is an insurance lawyer down in Santa Ana (6 hours south of San Carlos). I reached out to him and he does not recognize the name "Jestwink". My name is NOT James Rakvica. Many folks from here have met me personally and know that is not my name. I don't know where he got that name or address from, but it's not related to me in any way. So again... he's resorting to making fake legal threats against the site. Unfortunately for him, I actually have a lawyer who is prepared to defend me and this site in court. If he would actually talk to a real lawyer as well, they would tell him he has no legal case either. But if he wants to go through the legal discovery process though... MY lawyer will be happy to ask tons of detailed questions about him, his business operations, etc. And I'll be happy to put ALL of the in the weeds details here as part of it. From now on, any communication I receive from him is going to be posted here. If he contacts any members of this site, please feel free to forward it to me and I'll anonymize it and post it here as well. I cannot stress enough how much I recommend against either hiring or interacting with this person. He has harassed other members of this site and me personally when anything is said about him. If he's willing to do these sorts of things, he will have no sort of problem harassing you or trying to make your life miserable if he is ever unhappy. If Jestwink thinks he has a legal case to be made, I encourage him to bring it. Quit with the fake lawyer notifications and file the case. The threats do not scare me. My lawyer and I are fully prepared to defend myself and this site. scan.pdf

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URL’s with “threads” was old Xenforo links that have not worked for 3 plus years. The content is there there and show up in the site search feature. For example, in searching “MarioMuscle”, “blakeryderxxx” the following threads were the second result after this one. data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAPABAP///wAAACH5BAEKAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAICRAEAOw== They were second because newer posts are prioritized in search.

I **HIGHLY** recommend against hiring or interacting with JesTwink. I have not hired him, but: He's harassed multiple members of this site begging them to remove any discussion of him. He's created more than a dozen accounts to contact people who have blocked him or ignored him. He's submitted DOZENS of reports for various reasons (ranging from DMCA to harassment to stalking) in an effort to get content removed. He's sent dozens of emails/contact us messages threatening the site with legal action. At the end of the day, he's batshit crazy and if he will do these kinds of things... he's most likely not going to respect your privacy and will have no problem continuing to bother/harass you afterwards if he does not get his way or disagrees with what you might say. Save yourself the headache and the harassment and avoid him.

I actually happened to stop by tonight… and yes, valet parking was available.

The size of the site’s text has not changed at all since its launch. So something must be happening in the browser here. You mention Safari... Are you using a mobile device or a laptop/desktop? The site supports responsive resizing of text. If I know what device you’re using, I can give you instructions for how to tell your browser to make the text here bigger. (It unfortunately does not work in real life with making “other” things bigger.)

Creating multiple accounts to promote yourself is not permitted. Cut the crap or welcome to the ban list.

It means we've disabled sending emails to you because your mail provider either bounced or rejected prior messages. (You most likely received a PM and have your settings configured to send you an email notification of new PMs. If those messages bounce, we quit delivering them to protect the site from getting all email to the mail provider disabled.)

I happened to pop by last night. Business as usual. As a side note... if you park there, don't park behind the building to the side of the club or block doors, etc. The owners are starting to have cars towed. There is a sign suggesting to park along 13th St instead.

I don’t know what you ducking mean!

As a reminder, political discussions are not permitted.

Pictures are real. He dances at LeBoy frequently. Have not met him however.

It's basically a bathhouse and is one of the nicer ones I've been to. It's hot tub and pool are great. Also check out 321 Slammer as well.

You're not helping your cause here. Doubling down on a lie will not endear you to our site's members.

Then you lied in reporting the content saying you were the provider. In either way, your actions are unacceptable and show you can’t tell the truth.

You reported another post just a few minutes ago saying that person is a stalker targeting you. Now you’re saying you are the client. Cut the crap please. We welcome providers participating on this website. Pretending to be a client to post a fake gushing experience is however not cool.

Then it's definitely a browser cache issue. If it's happening intermittently that a refresh eventually clears, it's something local.

If the site ever looks crazy... the first thing to try is clearing the browser cache. If it continues happening, it's possible something is funky at the CDN cache layer. Just toss a note to me and I can clear it by rebuilding the site theme. It works because it renames all of the files used to something else so even if it's incorrect, the new file name would be retrieved fresh.

It looks like Invision made some changes to the way static files are cached. I've rebuilt the dark mode theme and that seems to have cleared up the problem.

Tracking info such as IP address exist as long as the account exists. If an account is deleted, the associated information is deleted as well. If we deleted content after a certain number of years, it would remove decades of history of the site. I'm not really interested/prepared to do this. Regardless, it's not really relevant to this topic. That would be better discussed in the feedback forum.

As a reminder, personal health info is not an appropriate discussion on a public forum.

Yes, he and I talked about this. Yes, this was his choice and not related to anything that happened here. I wish him the best with whatever he decides to pursue in life and would welcome him back should he ever decide to return. The account itself deleted. Content posted by that account is not deleted but instead attributed as a Guest. Otherwise it could remove entire topics or could make conversations no longer make sense. The preferred way to request account deletion is from within your account settings. https://www.companyofmen.org/settings/account-security/ This workflow makes you enter your account password and validates it is actually you who submitted the request. Once a request is submitted, it is reviewed by an admin (me) first. Basically I just click the approve button to complete the process. Typically if it's someone who has a lot of contributions here, I'll reach out to confirm that person understands that when I accept it, there is no undo button and it is final as the only way for me to recover the account would be to restore the complete site from a backup prior to the deletion.