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You need to be a bit careful and discreet about it. "Do you offer private training sessions?" is a good one for body builders or trainers. "Would you like to model privately for me" is another.

I agree strongly with what [uSER=19303]@europeanman[/uSER] has written. Male models earn very little and their incomes are very variable. Yet apartment rental, gym memberships, phone bills, good nutrition and travel costs are all recurring expenses that can be considerable. As young men, they often have a taste for fashionable clothes and expensive gadgets.
 
So it pays for an older man to be generous and open-handed. I always used to start by inviting a guy to dinner and buying cocktails and a bottle of expensive wine. If the evening proceeded well, the model came home with me and stayed for breakfast.
 
It was extremely rare for me to have to explain “compatibility”to a young man - whether a fitness or fashion model, personal trainer or aspiring actor, a handsome young man generally understood that he had to meet my needs first if I was to be expected to meet his.

I have more luck with Facebook than Instagram. It seems more prevalent in central Europe. Once you get one or two Czech bodybuilders on your FB, you're directed to dozens more with the "You may know" feature. There are 2 or 3 of us guys from M4M who are friends on a hundred of them. They are pretty open with chatting once they accept your friend request (they always do). There are a few ex-porn actors who are now body-builders and a few who are now escorts on the side. Once you get them you can check their friends. It's not impossible to figure out who is a good candidate and some have actually surprised me. I post I'm visiting Prague, I ask if they escort, they say yes. Deed done.

Don't cast the first stone.

the "dumb jock" fantasy is as old as the hills.....I don't think anybody here should feign shock at this thread (if anybody is)
 

Ah....muscle worship. Give me a nice, DIMLY lit hotel room on a high floor of a hotel with floor to ceiling windows and a beautiful view of the city lights. Throw in a cute, boy next door, smooth, tanned, muscular, defined, hunk with a V-shaped torso, amazing eyes, and a sensuous, cocky, sexy personality. I would stand him in front of the window and have him flex as I explored his body with my hands and mouth. Gradually, I'd lead him to the bed where I massage him and continue exploring his physique with gentle, caressing hands, and foreplay. Now it is time for me to insert the vanilla activities I'm comfortable with and then end the evening activities with me relaxing in his strong arms or falling asleep while being embraced by him. Okay, I need an escort and soon!

MW can be rewarding with the right guy. Pro bodybuilders or fitness models are fun to explore. The mood had to be right. Boys who actually call themselves “alphas” usually aren’t, so I avoid them.
 
Happy hunting!

most of them are straight...but I did get some guys saying they would like to meet me privately if I wish.

I have had one visit with Italobrazilian. Not sure when that photo was taken, but he has a tatoo that goes around his neck of rosary beads. Also the face in that pic is not of him. He is handsome, but not as handsome as the pic. Also his pricing is a la carte, which I dislike. When I asked him a few questions in advance he said he did all of what I asked, mutual oral, kissing, flipping. Oral and flipping it turned out was $50 extra for each, bringing his rate to 450/hour. I politely left.

In my old hometown I used to see a semi pro escort-personal trainer that I lucked into knowing.
 
He was straight but would frote me very aggressively. Very handsome guy and exactly my type. He's still the only guy that never failed to make me ejaculate from froting.
 
He had rules but I was fine with them. The guy made me feel fantastic. The women in his life were very lucky.

Yes, that’s why I will not post examples here
Fitness models and underwear models are usually even more reachable

he loves bottoming like a kid loves his candy. it ain't expensive

anyone managed to get him to bottom for a price?

"Roman" advertises only on Masseurfinder, he has a 424 area code. "Alex" is on MassageM4M with an 818 area code. They are using the same pictures which is okay because they are the same. They work out of the same apartment in Hollywood which they share.
In my opinion I think "Alex" is more gay/bi while "Roman" is straight. "Alex" is friendlier and might offer a little more. They are both fairly limited with the extras but at the price ($140 in) and skill of massage (above average deep tissue) I highly recommend either one. Their environment is clean, safe, and professional and they are easy to communicate w/.

Go for it. At the very least, some personal private time with him will not hurt.

Pretty simple..... Question one, do you offer private training outside Equinox? Question two, do you offer massage/stretching as part of your personal training services? After two massages you'll know whether or not you have massure possibilities. From personal experience you have a 50/50 shot if you get the outside massage. Bets of luck and enjoy the chase...

How do you usually go about approaching them?

I work out at Equinox in NYC. I can tell you that a great many, but not all, male personal trainers are 'available' on the DL. You need a level of tact when approaching them about it.
 
I am not sure what the situation is at Equinox - Chicago.

Everybody has different tastes... to each his own.

Has anyone actually met up with him? Could you share your review? Please feel free to PM. Thanks in advance.

A SA contact has been emailing back and forth, said that my offer for a date with dinner an play was chump change . "Another guy offered me a a new Tesla."
I responded that he should take the Tesla...

Everybody has different tastes... to each his own.

I'll top you with a Boeing 737, with a 3-colored heart shaped logo on its tail.

I'll top you with a Boeing 737, with a 3-colored heart shaped logo on its tail.