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This thread reminded me of a funny story. Awhile back I went to a hotel to hook up with a flight attendant during a layover he was having. Well as I walked by the front desk the clerk was a guy who I had hooked up with another time. Afterwards I exited out a different door so I wouldn't walk past him again as it was kind of embarrassing. As I expected I had a text from him on my phone asking who I had been there to hook up with. I gave him the other guy's adam4adam ad and his number and after his shift was over they ended up hooking up as well!

It's so nice that you are so willing to share.

That's just silly.

 

Yes. The random gay sex hookup fairy is in charge of all our encounters. Nothing happens without her divine intervention.

I started to believe this when I booked 3 musicians for a concert in Chicago. 2 of them are lesbians, each with a wife and 2 kids. After I introduced them, when waiting in the Green Room, while I was with them, one of the women showed the rest of us photos of her kids on her phone. The other lesbian said, "Your kids look just like my kids." To make a long story short, they talked about where they got their sperm (a company in California,) and his donor number. Their kids have the same bio dad. There are 5 kids from his sperm. 4 of them are in these two families.

You mean, like, it was God's will?

However you describe order in the universe. Coincidences happen often enough that I choose to believe there is some order.

I had another chance encounter/repeat more recently. In 2017 I was at the Thursday night naked party at Lab.oratory in Berlin. I met a guy from Norway and he put me in one of the slings and gave me a good fuck.

 

A year later I was in Madrid walking around one night looking for a sex club called Dock or something. I was having trouble finding it when I heard someone say "hey! It's the American from Lab.oratory!" I turned around and it was my Norwegian friend standing in front of the sex club taking a cigarette break. Lucky for me I found the club and lucky for him he got to fuck me in a sling again.

I don't believe in coincidences. You were meant to reconnect with these people. At least that is what I choose to believe.

My story is when I learned that solo travel is the best time to really explore sexually! I was in St. Louis for a job interview just after graduate school and I was horny in my hotel room. It was back when there were those phone lines used for hooking up. So I decided to set up a group scene!

 

I managed to bring together 6 guys in my room that evening and had a hot orgy. My first ever group experience. While the guys were all pretty hot, there was one guy that I really connected with. He was shorter than me with a fantastic muscular body. A former college cheerleader. As the group was leaving, it was obvious that he and I wanted more. He stayed the night and we fucked all night long. Beautiful guy, hot sex and an amazing experience. Only problem was that I was exhausted the next morning when I had to drive six hours back to my home. But it was definitely worth it!

 

Now I always look for hot experiences any time I travel alone!

Thanks for the story. This could make a good movie. I am curious what all the guys looked like and did sexually.

Another New York memory:

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Why aren't any of these people wearing masks?

How old is too old for this event?

Staying productive ? for ME, that means getting Fat and jerking off....

You don't look at all fat in the image over your name, JJ. In fact, you look like you have about a 20 pack.

I hope to attend one of these gatherings once it is considered safe to gather. Until then, I'm doing my best to stay healthy, staying productive at home in Chicago.

I have high hopes for the vaccines...

I was over 50 years old and walking in Manhattan. A handsome guy in his 20s was walking near me and kept looking at me before he approached and started a conversation. After a couple minutes, he asks if I am staying at a hotel. I told him we were right near my lodging when he asked if he could use my rest room. I thought about it and decided to take the risk and told him sure. When he was done peeing, we made good use of the room. Then he was gone and I continued my day with a big smile. Who ever knew that you could get lucky just walking down the street?

So true, but if the main focus of your travel is sex rather than culture (sex tourism) and you have as much appetite as you say you have, in South America you will get more fucks for your bucks. Brazil has the hottest men but the highest cost of living. Last time I checked it was just as or more expensive than Europe. I would consider Colombia, Ecuador and Argentina where you will find guys with comparable big cocks. Ecuador and Colombia rank with the biggest cocks in the world only after Congo. Impossible to visit Venezuela now but with their crisis, all those model-like boys are now refugees in the above mentioned countries. Down there you can get an hour with a hot young guy for a fraction of what we pay in North America. Wherever you decide to go, I hope you enjoy! ?

thanks for your information. I appreciate it.

Well, that kind of took the air out of the tires, so to speak. I'm actually shocked. I assumed everything was always ethical since I assumed there was special lighting, obvious cameras and camera operators, a director, etc.

Once, I was on a nude beach called Super Paradise in Mykonos and saw a really well built and handsome guy in the gay area. He was around my age (mid 20s) and kept looking at me. We ended up going back to his room and having fun. The challenge was we had no common language. He spoke German (from Austria) and I spoke English. We had to communicate non-verbally but that didn't stop a good time. It is a great memory.

What is it like in your city these days? Is there anything much to do except indoor sports, which of course are not to be dis missed.

Chicago is pretty much shut down. Even if places were open, I would not take health risks until I am confident it is safe.

Thank you for this post. I can't wait until I can travel and try out some of these recommendations.

I just read this list again hoping that the vaccine will allow me to have travel adventures next year.

I was just thinking about the “other site” which emerged following the great daddy/hooboy debacle, which I’ve moved on from. Does that other site, the name of which I can’t remember, even exist any longer?

I have no idea. I didn't know there was a debacle.

KenzoNYC is one of the best in the business. I saw him a few times in New York. The total package. Professional massage skills - which he is proud of and should be - super sexy - incredibly nice. Don't think twice.

Next time I'm in New York. As soon as travel is safe again, I'm there.

Many places have gay tourism websites that can start a rabbit hole.

This forum is also a good source of travel information.

Thanks! I thought there was more of a complicated or underground way of finding one. As my previous mentor told me, when all else fails, use the GTS approach. Google That Shit.

Many places have gay tourism websites that can start a rabbit hole.

I guess my last few international travels have been in remote islands, so I did not need a tour guide, but I am curious, how does one find a hire a gay tour guide?

I usually start by googling the location and gay and guide and take it from there.

I found the site when I decided to investigate the possibility of hiring escorts. I joined in December of 2003 and have been active since the very beginning. During those 17 years I have met some outstanding individuals both clients and escorts and have made some lasting friendships. When Oliver took over the Palm Springs Weekend I joined him as his chief cook and bottle washer.

I think the gradual growth that the site has experienced over the years is the way to go. Some clients recommend the site to escorts as well as some escorts recommending the site to clients. Others find the site through online searches.

Thanks. I don't hire escorts but I like the community I feel from this site. I do get massages and I travel and I love getting recommendations from this site. I also like stories people post (I started a thread about travel sex stories, for example.) I'm not opposed to hiring and I am not saying I wouldn't hire but I am still inexperienced in that regard.

I’m assuming your trip was a number of decades ago. You touched on a couple of spots where I too had some marvellous sexual experiences with European men. Just two I’ll relate. The first in Nice, where in 1982 I met a hot Corsican at a club and went back to his apartment. He was shorter than me, built like a stud muffin, with a huge appendage. I remember his being a physiotherapist and his clinic was in his apartment in the old town near the harbour. It was a night of carnal bliss and I walked back to my hotel in the early morning, smelling the damp salt sea air as I trod the cobblestones. We kept in touch for a short period by mail and I still have his letters. The other experience was in Rome in 1979. I spent a week and met a Swiss man about my age at a gay club. The club was boring but we repaired to my hotel where we spent the night. We dated several more times that week, always ending up at my hotel. He was living in Rome and had numerous Italian gay friends and one night I had dinner with them all at one of their apartments. It was a bit like Boys in the Band, without the bitchiness. On our last night together, we ate at this marvellous restaurant operated by nuns. We corresponded for over a year later and I still have his many letters. One day I am going to have to burn these letters, amongst many others.

I’m assuming your trip was a number of decades ago. You touched on a couple of spots where I too had some marvellous sexual experiences with European men. Just two I’ll relate. The first in Nice, where in 1982 I met a hot Corsican at a club and went back to his apartment. He was shorter than me, built like a stud muffin, with a huge appendage. I remember his being a physiotherapist and his clinic was in his apartment in the old town near the harbour. It was a night of carnal bliss and I walked back to my hotel in the early morning, smelling the damp salt sea air as I trod the cobblestones. We kept in touch for a short period by mail and I still have his letters. The other experience was in Rome in 1979. I spent a week and met a Swiss man about my age at a gay club. The club was boring but we repaired to my hotel where we spent the night. We dated several more times that week, always ending up at my hotel. He was living in Rome and had numerous Italian gay friends and one night I had dinner with them all at one of their apartments. It was a bit like Boys in the Band, without the bitchiness. On our last night together, we ate at this marvellous restaurant operated by nuns. We corresponded for over a year later and I still have his many letters. One day I am going to have to burn these letters, amongst many others.

Sex gone wrong stories can be entertaining as well....Just sayin'

I love reading these remembrances.

When I travel, I try and hire a gay tour guide for at least a few hours so I can not only tour but learn about gay life and culture in that location. Twice in the past couple of years, somehow, I ended up fooling around with the guide after the tour ended. Both of those experiences were unexpected wonderful surprises. I would never count on that happening but when it did, I sure appreciated it.