caliguy

"I experience a great deal of anxiety trying to hire someone because of my weight. I often fantasize about having an amazing experience with a hot guy. Mostly I tend to choose less attractive escorts to mitigate some damage. I just want to feel wanted and validated." He wants the hot guys to want him too. He's not interested in just average guys. I get that. When I was 30 I wanted desperately to fit in and of coarse you want the hotties to notice you so I started going to the gym and guess what. My dream came true. Yah. Also, he never stated that he has a disease or whatever so I'm going with that.

It's totally appropriate. He's a 30 yo man not happy with his current situation so what's so wrong about giving someone advice who asked for it on the root cause? Not to mention it's something Gymowner has a bit more knowledge then the rest of us on. I think some of you are reading your own insecurities into this and thus making this more about you then the OP.

So you hate yourself?

Funny that wouldn't fly here but I guess it's France and smoking cigarettes are still seen as something hot. Personally I find it gross. At least you know what you'll be tasting.

Either that or he's looking to expand his portfolio. I'm sure all the modeling agencies are looking for escorting experience these days.

Yes. International models are my type too!!! Good that there are a few of us into that. Lol

Maybe I should rephrase that. If there's some attraction then of coarse swallowing might happen. Just like kissing can range from nothing to full on tongue swap. You'll never get the full monte unless their into you are at least somewhat. Also a piggy situation where the guy is just into it. Those are usually on the kinkier side.

Skipthegames..ha. 100% scammed. No cop would work alone doing this much less extort you for $ due to the first part. If it was real it would need witnesses for the court.

Looks like he wanted you to know that he blocked you.

A real massage therapist will never include sex in the session. Maybe if that concerns you stick to the pros.

I guess because I'm not into fucking women I'm a mysogonist.

I guess because I'm not into fucking women I'm a mysogonist.

Yeah, he wanted to make sure he was hard for you. Tri mix most likely. If he came out bug eyes and grinding his teeth that would be a real concern for you. Learn to relax a bit.

Oh noes. I hope you had friends to get you through it.

Oh please. I doubt that's the way it was said and points for honesty. That said he does have this on his profile.. "Usually looking for <60yo." and (I also enjoy topping young smaller guys). Some of you need to learn how to read.

I should say that I get hit up by both escorts and gen equally. There are other venues instead of this cloak and dagger method that just leaves the regular users annoyed. You're interested and you think they are too and after plans are set up it's oh by way its going to cost.. That's just insulting. If I go to Rentmen then at least it's clear. Yes it's hunting for guys not available through the usual means which of coarse comes with a danger since you know nothing about them. I should also say if the guy advertises their services gen/escort and just leaves me alone I don't do anything. Also I recently got hit up by a gen but because he was so damn ugly I just felt sorry for him and said no and wished him a nice day. So there are exeptions. :-)

I get hit up with gen all the time and I report their profile. Grindr just isn't the place for it.

His new album isn't half bad though.

Penile implants are done more on the geriatric crowd I thought.

Texting days before is just meaningless. I can't imagine going over to someone's place without a simple text the day of. Doesn't take but a second to do. Hey are we good for today? At any rate, sounds like he wrote you off and had some friends over which would explain why he didn't answer the door.

I didn't know that there was still some escorts out there not doing the ED drug thing already. He might OD on it.

Jeez. Some here just think they're putting money into a vending machine and not a flesh and blood human being. Mine works 95% of the time but things sometimes things just happen. Mostly it was just due to them though. Some guys are akin to having sex under a cold shower.

Why wouldn't they just say on PrEP? Wouldn't that just be simpler? At any rate, I've never come across any ad where it's a negative guy saying that. If you're in treatment that means you're being treated for something.

Maybe you just aren't the best.