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If you really think gay men can't hold anti-LGBTQ views or that they can't be anti-LGBTQ just because they escort, it's a bit much for any one person on the internet to teach you about society, prejudice, and politics.

Some people choose not to support providers that have anti-LGBTQ views? Not to farfetched of a concept to grasp in a predominantly gay forum.

I say more power to the people who are able to charge what they want for their time/services. I imagine that if any of us were running a business and had people come up to us to complain about prices, we'd just tell them to move on and hope that they find someone who fits the bill better. If you have something I want, it's not my place to tell you that you should be charging me less for it.

You seem to be getting very upset by an off handed comment someone made. Maybe take a break from the forum for a bit? You've literally resorted to saying that people here are "predisposed to be jerks and assholes". Come on now. It's truly not that serious.

It doesn't bother me at all because they're not entitled to my money and I'm not entitled to their service. If I see a guy I like and I feel like he's charging "too much", it's up to me to decide if it's worthwhile to make the investment. I'm not gonna get in my feelings and complain about the fact that he feels like his time is worth more. If I'm out shopping for clothes or food or car insurance, I don't get upset because some shops charge more. I find one that I feel is appealing and at a cost I'm okay with. No sense in getting worked up.

Oh you can definitely say no if they reveal that part of themselves through text/email/phone calls, but a lot of times that side doesn't come out until you're in your session together. Not that male escorts don't experience terrible things because sex work in general is a tough business, but women have to deal with sexism on top of a lot of various dangers. It's just a sad fact that there are a number of men across the world who do not consider women as equals or anything more than sex objects and can easily end up booking a session where they don't show that side of themselves until later.

My friend used to be a female escort, and one of the reasons they charge more is because most rent hotel rooms for sessions. It's just not safe for women to do out calls with strangers, and certainly not in calls. There are just a ton of horror stories when it comes to straight men being highly aggressive and having that be the norm that female escorts experience.

Honestly I'm not sure what kind of response you'd expect here. It's definitely an off putting question to be asked why other people didn't like you. Not that you can't ask, but you certainly shouldn't expect a positive response.

I'm a millennial and so are most of my friends. We almost never chat on the phone as texting/messaging is just much easier. I really only talk to my parents on the phone or sometimes my siblings, but I also am someone who doesn't enjoy talking on the phone because I'm often doing things that would require me to stop and have a conversation. I know that gen z is even bigger on texting and messaging than millennials. I love being able to have conversations with friends, but I'd much rather do that in person when hanging out than over the phone.

I'm of the mind that everything involving providers is a business transaction. I don't ever fool myself into thinking I'm friends or anything more with them because well, I don't hire my friends for any of their professional services either. That's not to say you can't be friendly with an escort, but I can't see myself texting daily with an escort because again, I don't even do that with friends. I personally find it a bit distasteful to ask someone I haven't even met for cash. That's not the kind of person I would generally want to involve myself with.

Are the LA shows at a venue or a private residence currently? I got the email for tonight that said location will be shared after sending payment. I'm really interested in seeing Joe Dematteo but unfortunately don't have too much interest in the other guys and am wondering if it'll be worth the drive out.

Completely fine looks and body wise but the attitude is a turn off. If you find it sexy for someone to treat you like a piggy bank then I guess he'd be right up your alley.

Possibly yes, possibly no, but at the end of the day it doesn't hurt to take a look elsewhere. It's currently a really good environment for people to look for new positions because of the high demand, but some companies may wonder why you're looking to make the jump after so long. I think if you state it as wanting a more stable job without having to have a crazy travel schedule like you stated, that's something that makes sense. You're not bad mouthing your old employer and are just looking for something more grounded. At the end of the day, go in with confidence and they'll either like you or they won't, but you'll never know if you don't try.

While that makes sense, I'd be more worried about having a stranger in my home. If a guy is looking like trouble and you're at his place, it's much easier to make an exit than figure out how to get him to leave your place.

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I think you can look at all of it as a learning experience. I browse way more than I actually hire because I know I have super high standards and don't like to be disappointed or feel like I'm wasting money, but I'm sure I could have also had some great experiences had I gone for it. I'm ok with that though.

I've been messaging back and forth with him for the past week and he seems to be really off. I keep asking for basic details like availability and price, and he either ignores the question or repeats the same information. I've been patient as I want to see him but his communication has not been great.

I messaged him on Rentmen for a private cam session. We exchanged messages back and forth over the course of the past week and I was surprised to say that he just kept on replying in incomplete and incoherent messages, about one or two sentences each. In the last message I apologized, noting that I didn't quite get his last message (because it literally did not make sense) and he replied "lol I didn't either" and started giving me rates for in person meet ups, even though we were specifically talking about cam sessions. I don't know if he's on drugs or constantly drunk. I can forget a weird message or two and find him very attractive, but he sounds like a mess at this point in time.