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The "nicest" guy in the biz has to be Allen Silver. Totally versatile and multi-talented sexually, but one of the sweetest, kindest and most generous of men. Educated and able to talk intelligently about almost anything he has to be the total package! Trained as a Sacred Intimate with Body Electric he is also a Certified Masseur who gives one of the most relaxing massages I have ever had.
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How I feel exactly! Harm reduction is far more effective than preaching right and wrong and shaming people. Unfortunately, our country takes more the punishment and shaming approach, therefore it's natural that many think that's the best way.

I understand your point, but I still don't see any effectiveness in shaming. And if 2 men mutually choose to not use condoms, they are putting themselves at risk and no one else. As far as syphilis, one only needs to make skin contact to contract it, so condoms don't really factor in there, and as I said before, other STI's are just as transmitable through oral sex as anal. So unless you plan to wrap it up when you're getting or giving head, than you're taking a risk. I can say with fair amount of certainty, that the few times I've had chlamydia, I got it from oral sex, but that's not gonna make me start wearing a condom or stop having my dick sucked.
 
All we can do is manage and mitigate our risk in proportion to our preference for pleasure, and through PrEP, regular testing and communication, I am doing just that.

Okay, I've been lurking on this forum for a bit, but this is the dumbest fucking post I've ever seen and I refuse to stay quiet about it.
 
Short version: Let people have sex the way they want to, and they'll let you have sex the way you want to. No need to shame anyone for what they do in bed in private.
 
Long version: Fuck all the way off.
 
You say you've been barebacking for thirty years, so you must remember when HIV was literally named Gay-Related Immune Deficiency? You've been around to see 35 million people killed by HIV since its discovery? You attended a new funeral every week in the 80s, because all your friends were dying? You've seen gonorrhea becoming borderline-untreatable? You've seen STD rates in America soar to the highest they've ever been?
 
We are where we are today because of tremendous advancements in technology and medicine. We have antibiotics, we have antiretroviral therapy, we have so much more knowledge on prevention. We are in a much better place than we were thirty years ago, but millions of people died and suffered along the way to get us here. To ignore all of this and say "I was right, you're all a bunch of pussies" shows that you don't have a goddamn clue what you're talking about.
 
Whatever you do in your bedroom in private is none of my business. But don't you for a fucking second tell me I am less than you because I choose to protect myself. Your right to get your rocks off ends exactly where my health begins.

I don't believe at any time in history there should have been shaming of those that chose to go natural when it came to anal sex. Shaming doesn't work, however education and harm reduction does. Before PrEP and TasP (Treatment as Prevention) however it was highly risky to engage in passive anal intercourse without a condom, unless perhaps you had discovered you were amongst the small group that appear to be genetically resistant to HIV. The stigma is lessened because the risk is lessened. Natural anal sex when you're on PrEP is no more irresponsible than natural oral sex for those not on PrEP, so I really hope the shaming and name calling can be finally and completely put to rest.
 
BTW, if I haven't made it clear before, I've been on PrEP for 5 years and ABSOLUTELY prefer the intimacy and connection that comes with natural, skin-to-skin sex, however my client's comfort level is priority over my pleasure, so I'm happy to wrap it up, if that's what's neccessary to keep them comfortable.
 

Ummm.....you left out the part where young men were dying.
 
It’s kind of an important part of the narrative.

As has just been mentioned some down time is essential during multi-day visits. When I am in that situation I have breakfast with the escort and then tell him that the next few hours are entirely his time to do what he needs to do (emails, scheduling, working out...whatever) and that we will get together again around noon. I get to rest a little after the previous day's play and we have a lunch together before resuming the fun time.

The "nicest" guy in the biz has to be Allen Silver. Totally versatile and multi-talented sexually, but one of the sweetest, kindest and most generous of men. Educated and able to talk intelligently about almost anything he has to be the total package! Trained as a Sacred Intimate with Body Electric he is also a Certified Masseur who gives one of the most relaxing massages I have ever had.
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I found out today that a friend since high school committed suicide. Things can sometimes suck. The present might be dark. But there are always brighter days ahead. There is always at least one person who cares and will listen. I've had a few dark moments and yes I have thought about ending it but some how I always dug deep deeper than I thought I could and carried on. If you're in pain and need someone to talk to I will always lend an ear. ❤

Allen Silver...the VERY best of many.!
30 or more great movies over more than a decade, including Joe Gage's "Daddy" series. As an escort nobody does it better. Hot sex of course, a truly versatile man, but so much more. Kindness, intelligence and a great sense of humor. Time with Allen is time well spent.

I wouldn't recommend a client do it for the aforementioned reason that applies to the escort not doing it. I don't want to think I am sloppy seconds for a client who just got topped by someone else. It also comes across as extreme clock-watching, making too much of an effort to expedite the session. Additionally, it can make rimming awkward. It's nice if you remove the decorative pillows from the bed in advance, but pre-lubing is too much IMHO.

My go-to guy, Allen Silver, is 56 and proudly puts that age on his M4RN posting. I'm 74 but when I'm with him the years just melt away. He makes magic happen!

My go-to guy, Allen Silver, is 56 and proudly puts that age on his M4RN posting. I'm 74 but when I'm with him the years just melt away. He makes magic happen!

My go-to guy, Allen Silver, is 56 and proudly puts that age on his M4RN posting. I'm 74 but when I'm with him the years just melt away. He makes magic happen!

I sent docred a PM suggesting that his post could have been made to pass muster just by copying the URL of the picture in question rather than using the "exhibit picture" tool. My guess is several other folks must have also, given the speed with which the post was edited.
 
I think the removed photo is worth citing, and I'll risk Daddy's and docred's annoyance by posting the URL here.
 
It was:
 
http://allensilver.com/images/biggallery/0207lg.jpg

My apologies to one and all.
 
All the "good stuff" has been deleted!!!
 
Thanks for the heads up Scorpio and jjkrkwood.

The "nicest" guy in the biz has to be Allen Silver. Totally versatile and multi-talented sexually, but one of the sweetest, kindest and most generous of men. Educated and able to talk intelligently about almost anything he has to be the total package! Trained as a Sacred Intimate with Body Electric he is also a Certified Masseur who gives one of the most relaxing massages I have ever had.
allensilver.com and allensi.com
 
http://allensilver.com/images/biggallery/BM1141511.jpg

The "nicest" guy in the biz has to be Allen Silver. Totally versatile and multi-talented sexually, but one of the sweetest, kindest and most generous of men. Educated and able to talk intelligently about almost anything he has to be the total package! Trained as a Sacred Intimate with Body Electric he is also a Certified Masseur who gives one of the most relaxing massages I have ever had.
allensilver.com and allensi.com
 
http://allensilver.com/images/biggallery/BM1141511.jpg

The "nicest" guy in the biz has to be Allen Silver. Totally versatile and multi-talented sexually, but one of the sweetest, kindest and most generous of men. Educated and able to talk intelligently about almost anything he has to be the total package! Trained as a Sacred Intimate with Body Electric he is also a Certified Masseur who gives one of the most relaxing massages I have ever had.
allensilver.com and allensi.com
 
http://allensilver.com/images/biggallery/BM1141511.jpg

This is a very funny and thorough explanation and "How To..."
 
https://howtocleanyourass.wordpress.com/

Allen Silver...the VERY best of many.!
30 or more great movies over more than a decade, including Joe Gage's "Daddy" series. As an escort nobody does it better. Hot sex of course, a truly versatile man, but so much more. Kindness, intelligence and a great sense of humor. Time with Allen is time well spent.

Youre never too old to fall in love. You need to be at peace with yourself. One that happens your heart will open and you'll be able to love fully. At least thats what I think.
 
Hugs,
Greg

Like craigville I have a washing system. In my case it's a "Luxe Bidet". Inexpensive (less than $50), easy to install and perfect for cleaning my very furry arse!

Allen Silver is an incredible lover and a good man.

Allen Silver from San Francisco might fill your requirements, but I'm not sure about the state of his abs. He's more what I would call athletic rather than muscular muscular.
 
Gman