Elite_XL

That is definitely not what I meant and Im sorry if I worded it wronglyor caused misunderstanding. My point was that there is a mixed understanding on what the duties of a provider are, whether its for companionship or merely sex. Both of which can be demanding in their own way. Some seem to have an understanding for providers to be strictly for sex, which is fine. However, when one asks to spend extra time with them. The rate is something that should be clarified.

I do agree that this is a bit of a controversial topic that seems to differ in preferences. There are also lines in the relationship that can get blurred quite easily and very quickly. One sided lines where emotions get intertwined between the client and the provider. Expectations shift, and its complex to walk back into what it was before. There are times where it is mentioned about meeting off the clock, which is fine, as long as it is told. Other times, it is not mentioned whatsoever. When it is not mentioned, thats when expectations arise, miscommunications happen and one party gets upset. Why does this seem like such a sensitive topic to some though?

I have only blocked people that seem to be only chatting and asking vague questions but not showing an actual intent when it comes to meeting up. Other than that, I understand if someone is far and they might be checking out for future trips. However, if you are serious about it. I would rather have you text me and ask if it matches with your expectations .

My question to both of you guys is about the general expectation, when and if, there is a meeting more towards companionship rather than anything sexual. The reason for asking this is that, I get the impression that it should be relatively free because we are being invited to a place to spend time with them while having the dinner or whatever being paid for. What would also be the thought of a provider on this. Would you charge your regular rate, discounted or depends on the situation? If so, how much? Keep in mind that Im asking for general curiosity and to understand both perspectives. I see it as still being a job for a provider, as we need to tune into the general conversation and vibe. Either way, let me know what your thoughts are.

It was quite the fun we had! Still got some things left to explore 😜

Seems like a job for couples therapy. Hah Jokes aside. I cant really speak for him but, It does seem like he is hurt by one of the two, the money or that you were seeing someone else.

Just for clarity. We can see how many each profile has viewed us overtime, including clicking on our phone numbers. Maybe that could give you a hint.

Can you elaborate or give some more context on what he could be upset about? Whether its the review, donation or him just being jealous that you’ve seen someone else. Either way, as a worker on this field. We are also humans, I personally ran into situations where I get bombed on how great it has been spending time with me to dead silence afterwards. It can be upsetting but id rather hear stuff upfront. Its just an example of what I’ve experienced. Might give you another perspective to understand him better.

I am residing in DC. I usually am in the area

Oh thank you! Yeah, I can imagine some sparks might go off every now and then… Well, each to their own type of fun but hopefully outside of the forum 😜

Thank you! Lets try to have a fun time. Does anyone know how to take off the mod verification before each post, or is that for everyone?

Unless you are going to tell me that a bit in advance or I am actually still awake at that time and you are going to make it worth the time for a couple of hours. Then yes, I would take it. Another reason could be is that if they see that you are typing a bit weird while drunk and they sense it. They can automatically consider it as fake or a flake

I would bet it on Miami, DC or NYC mostly

I have never had that happen with a customer but I can see the point. Perhaps they are too accustomed to sleeping on their own that they can’t sleep with anyone next to them, which is understandable.

This quite an interesting topic which I have discussed with colleagues before. From our perspective, it seems to be a trend where the expectation is also for lower prices from the clientele on places such as Florida and Texas to the degree in which if you travel there, you might have to drop your rates just because majority of the market is oversaturated there and are used to the already existing lower rates. When it comes to asking for an Uber/Lyft, I view it as a form of deposit and security for the appointment. We get a lot of text of people that just fake wanting an appointment and then ghost you. I sometimes can be comprehensive and ask for what they are willing to spend. Whether, you low ball it too far, thats already on you. It is time, energy and preparation that I will spend out of my day to meet you. I do charge on the higher end but, haven’t had any complaints yet after the meeting. I do agree on this. Don’t speak for the rest of us

Hey there, I am actually quite open to it. I just generally tend to end up topping most of the time. However, I do enjoy bottoming or flipping. —————————————————— Also, thank you guys for the kind words. Quite appreciate it. If anyone has any questions that I could answer. Feel free to hit me up. Happy holidays!